her friends have told me she has been posting suicidle messages on her myspace help me log into her myspace i dont know her password but i do know her email.She maybe even prostituting herself I have heard about her talking to very older guys about sex and i just want to know whats going on with my daughter.And dont say talk to her last time i found out she was cutting herself and when i tried to confront her she threatend to kill herself that night.I just want to know about my baby.And dont say it's illegal like my 14yr old is going to sue me!!
PLEASE HELP ME!! IF U DON'T YOU ARE JUST PUSHING HER TORWARD YOUR DEATH!!!LET HER MOTHER IN HER LIFE!!!!
2007-03-24
01:24:29
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y dont u all get it!!! i have tried most of all of this she just threatens to kill herself and i am a Ma'am not a Sir.
2007-03-24
01:32:30 ·
update #1
THIS ISN'T MY E-MAIL I DON'T THINK ABOUT FRENCH KISSING IM A ADULT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!THIS IS MY DAUGHTER IN LAWS I JUST SEND EVERYTHING TO THIS!!!
2007-03-24
01:35:46 ·
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i just realized why that person said something about the questions now i realize i havent been the only 1 using it. SRRY!!!
2007-03-24
01:41:01 ·
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U can install a key logging software onto her PC, this software will then records every key stroke she has entered using her keyboard and also capture the image of every screen when she is using her PC.
God's love be with your daughter to keep her safe and in comfort at all times, Amen.
2007-03-25 18:24:01
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answered by Anonymous
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I must admit this is a very touchy subject, and you have my empathy.
The problem is - is that you do need to talk to her. However when you try, you need to be able to stay calm and listen. I can understand how scary this is. All you can tell her is that you love her and that she has your support.
If she will no longer listen to you, then it sounds like you need to get others involved, like doctors, and even authorities if you think she is completely out of hand.
Her 'friends' may not know the entire story, so the sooner you are able to get to the bottom of her issues, the healthier she'll stay.
If you know of some reason she may be suicidal, address that aside from her. There are so many reasons online and off a child can feel unwanted, unloved, alone, even if that's not the case.
It's a hard age.
Good luck & take care.
2007-03-24 01:34:26
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answered by AC 2
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there might be a way that you can get the answers you seek. The owner TOM can be reached there is contact information that you can use to get in touch with him about your concerns. Maybe he can help you find out what is going on with her page. Also every myspace page has a URL to view their page directly without even having an account to it. Ask your daughter's friends to give it too you so that you can see it for yourself. If she's been posting it on her page its on their and can be seen. Unless its private then only her friends that she excepted con view it and if you can get one of them to show it through their page then that might be the best way. That seems to be the problem on myspace young kids doing this. I'm a teacher in a school system and we are having the problem with the middle schoolers and high school kids. They don't seem to understand the reprocusions of posting personal or even damaging information on those sites. I've even seen some actually putting their residence and school info on their pages and IM info. Its ridiculous. But I would go through the friends first. If they are as concerned as you are they will help. If that doesn't help get in touch with TOM on myspace. ASAP. I pray you get to it in time. Will pray for you. Also I would take one of the questioners advice and start your own account under her age group under an assume name and then ask to be her friend. More likely her page is under a private code and can only be viewed if you are an invited friend. I wouldn't use the e-mail address that you know of hers, chances are she has several e-mails and might be using one of those so that she only has access to comments and notes sent to her from myspace. I know I do. Hun, I have to agree with everyone else talk to you daughter or at least get someone you know and she trusts in the family to talk to her. Right now this is crunch time and time is of the essence. If she's doing what you fear and her friends are right then you have to do whatever it takes. Get someone to see the importance of this and do something about it.
2007-03-24 01:40:11
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answered by Friendly 3
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It might be almost impossible to break into her myspace. But, maybe some computer specialist COULD perhaps. TALK to her about what she's doing and how no matter HOW much pressure she may have on her shoulders you'd always love her and would DEFFINATELY NOT want her to throw her life away because of pressure. I wish you all the LUCK in the world with your daughter!
I also agree with the person on top of my avatar. CALL THE POLICE
2007-03-24 01:28:35
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answered by Anonymous
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You really have a problem that cannot and will not be resolved on this site. You need to find a reputable therapist and seek counseling and family therapy to deal with this situation and learn to communicate with each other. Contact your nearest Community Mental Health Center for assistance. There are hot-lines as well for emergency help.Good Luck.
2007-03-24 01:34:24
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answered by dryad 3
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OK be CALM. I have a myspace so I can help.ok here's your going to do. DO THIS WHEN SHE'S NOT HOME!. click forgot password. then click email and type in the name of her e-mail. Then it says "password has been sent to e-mail". login to her email and look for the message then when you find it click on it. it will say her password. after you read the message delete it so she won't know what you've done. then go to myspace.com and type in the password and there you go. DON'T PUT ON ANY MESSAGES OR FIDDLE AROUND WITH IT!
2007-03-24 01:40:43
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answered by Anonymous
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1. Get her to a psychiatrist immediately. This may not be a longterm solution, but if she is hurting herself, you MUST intervene.
2. In the meantime, contact the owners/operators of Myspace.com and explain the situation and ask for assistance. If they will not help you (for whatever reason), contact the local authorities to obtain a warrant to demand access.
Do not delay.
2007-03-24 01:28:57
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answered by americansneedtowakeup 5
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You know better than we do whats going on in your daughters life, this is a very unhappy child. The fact you have to post this instead of talking to your daughter tell me something about your relationship, talk to her. I suggest you get software to recover her password or recruit her friends to help you . Desperate times call for desperate measures.
2007-03-24 01:36:44
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answered by bebop 2
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It's weird that if you look at your past questions, you said 4 months ago that you were 11. And you were also asking questions about french kissing.
But now you have a daughter?
Whose myspace are you hacking in to?
2007-03-24 01:30:55
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answered by HappyAussie 2
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You need not be a member of my space to see what people write, if you type in her name you can see what she posted. I would contact my space as well. If your daughter is posting and threatening to kill herself I would take her to a hospital not waste my time on the net and my space.
2007-03-24 03:08:25
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answered by Kat G 6
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