With 2 children, happily married with my husband, everything's near perfection... its me.. I've been so caught up with work and especially my two wonderful precious sons - they're my everything mind you. But, because of our busy lifestyles, my husband and me - we rarely have time for togetherness. Our sex life; I can't remember when was the last time! I'm starting to go hungry.. Every bloke walk past, every abs I can imagine... Its bad right..... I love my family!!! My husband was heartbroken TWICE - and I hate myself for all these. What can I do to stop this hunger onto having an affair again? Why?
2007-03-24 01:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You make excuses with time/work schedule, etc. But if you have time to cheat, then you have time to be with your husband. COMMUNICATION is the key here. Cheating isn't easy...it takes time to sneak around. Use the time wisely or you will end up a bitter lonely woman. Think of your kids. Is cheating worth losing them? Because that is what could happen. Do you really love your husband?
Get a sitter, make a nice dinner or go out, set the mood. Tell him how you are feeling, Tell him you need time together. It's not always sex either. Just the day to day touch, a kiss, Sounds like you need to rekindle what got you two together in the first place. And I bet he's feeling the same way you are too.
2007-03-24 02:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are feeling this way, but please don't have an affair. You say that those two little boys are your everything- if you do cheat, you are running a very high risk that you will mess up both of their lives, and hearts, by tearing their home apart. Besides that, if there is not enough time in your life to take a few moments for private time with your husband, how can there be time for a relationship outside of your marriage? It will only suck what little time and energy you do have for your children and husband away, and give it to someone who has absolutely nothing invested in your life or the lives of those you love. It is hard to see how such a risk is worth it... . Take care, and think very seriously before you act.
2007-03-24 01:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...DON'T DO IT....how can you make time for an affair and not your own marriage..Obviously if that is possible then there is time to spare somewhere for your husband and if you really love him then find someone who can take the kids for the night and devote a whole night of romance to him and remind each other why you love each other....good luck.....and be faithful from now on ...ok...lol
2007-03-24 01:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH please.....grow up.....you have control of your body...seduce your husband and find time to have an affair with HIM!! Make a certan day and time of the week that you two are together and you can't not be..find a sitter go to a show or just get a hotel room.......stop using your schedule as an excuse to cheat..you cheat cause you want to!!! oh yeah by the way it is a SIN!
2007-03-24 01:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 12:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have another affair you are just blinding your self for whats infront of your face you are saying your to tired for his love but you can furfill love with another?you are confused you feel stuck you have alot going on in your life but cheating isnt the answer
2007-03-24 01:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on have your fun like my sister did, her husband found out and she lost him and her 2 kids, she is the most miserable and selfish person i know, her life is now s h i t i would never risk my marriage and my children for my own selfish needs, u better try hard to change, for her it was hard, and she is still the same cheating ho now, good luck. i feel sorry for your husband, and kids, buy a vibr ator
2007-03-24 01:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to force time to spend with your husband. It's vital to your marriage, even if it's at 3 am.
2007-03-24 02:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by acefrigginfrehley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should come strait out to your husband and say I WANNA GET IT ON DAMN IT!
2007-03-24 01:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an itch ...scrath it.....live life to the full enjoy great sex.BE DISCRETE
2007-03-24 01:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋