Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

So i like this girl in school...She is pretty, funny, smart and so kind and careful... So we are best friends now... And then there's my friend that i hate but he still wants to be my friend and stick arounds me...He likes this girl too and he makes everyone else think that the girl likes him too...But the girl deosn't like him one bit...He hates him...But everyone says she likes that boy and she hates it and i'm getting jealous...I treat the girl better...I like the same things that she likes...We have the same personality...We have the same opinion and we hate the same things...We have a great time together but the boy just ruins it...What should i do?Please help me...

2007-03-24 01:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf left me for no real reason, he just avoided me totally n left me..i dont know if he found someone else..but.....i feel so hurt n I want my revenge please help me.......

2007-03-24 01:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by >>>♥<<< 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 25 year old native to New Orleans but currently living in Texas due to Hurricane Katrina. I found a job I really like and living in Texas has been good. My sister though who still lives in New Orleans calls me long distance daily and asks me "When are you coming home?", "You better come home to New Orleans!", "Your niece and newphew miss you they want you to come home" etc. I love my sister but I get the feeling she wants me to come home for selfish reasons, like baby sitting or to keep her company. I feel guilty for not wanting to be home with my family. They are not bad people, they loan me money when I need it, and are usually really supportive of me which makes me feel even more guilty. I feel like I owe it to her and my family to return to New Orleans. Does she miss me or is she just being controling? I have past issues with her and other family members being controling. Am I wrong for not wanting to come home? Or is she just really pushy and controling

2007-03-24 01:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

(across the miles, female to female)

2007-03-24 01:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together for 3years now and i often visit him but now he easily shout at me,he goes out the room to recieve phone calls.he seems to dislike everthing i do.he claims he loves me and wants a future with me.he sometimes say things to realy hurts my emotions he do say sorry but not all the time.can there be another girl or he is just fed up with me and he can't say it.he was not like this i'm so sad.

2007-03-24 01:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by debie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 1 year and are facing some challenges. Due to his selfcenteredness, I become jealous. He is a people watcher and it makes me feel like I constantly have to watch my back. Everytime there is what I consider to be a pretty woman, I feel like I have to put my gaurd up and say something smart to him. How do we get over this? It is getting old fast and wearing on both of us. We both want our marriage to work and we both love each other very much. Is there anyone out there that has any suggestions?

2007-03-24 01:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by shyann_1963 1 in Singles & Dating

your face and saying he would like to take you out?

2007-03-24 01:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mind giving that. When I try to fill up my love tank with factual conversation with my husband he thinks I am nagging. I feel that unless we are "physical" he doesnt want to bother with me too much. I only do things that are family oriented or that pertain to my children and husband...that is all I have to talk about. We do have a tight budget but he doesn't want to talk about that either, like I am trying to accuse him of not working hard enough. I work too, but I make little compared to him and he doesn't mind reminding me of that. I get the sense that my needs are not important, even though I know I am loved. Should I let this pass, or will it pass? My life with my ex was like this, I felt that I had to please him but I could not talk to him about my concerns or needs. Why do people in a relationship get so defensive, and who is a woman SUPPOSED to talk to. I have NO family and very few friends. Any advice or opinion would be appreciated.

2007-03-24 01:03:19 · 14 answers · asked by lrlseuell 1 in Family

my bro drives me NUTS CRAZY what can i do other than kill him or punch him or whatever im too young to move out and like i want to rip the hair out of my head he is looney

2007-03-24 01:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by I_sell_Carpets 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We went out for a month and he said he only wants to be friends so I was dumped. But we still hang out a lot. He IM and texts me often to ask me how i've been or telll private jokes.

FRiends tell me it is a good thing we are still great friends that hang out and talk. But now I wonder if he is just using me as a fall back whenever he needs compnay and his friends are away. I enjoy his company and he's practically an orphan. I have many friends but he knows I hate them and always want to get away from them. I never look for him only he does.

Am I thinking too much that he is using me as a fallback company for hanging out? Is he playing me?

2007-03-24 01:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 01:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by lux l 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend...He is such a show-off...He shows off all his things that he bought and his marks in the exam and his money and when someone has a cool thing he copies them and buys the same thing to let other poeple thinkg that he is cool...And if he deosn't know about the hot topic in school,he pretends he knows a lot about it...An he is dirty,when i am eating at the school cafeteria he snatches my food by his hand without promission and drinks my drink...And then he likes this girl who deosn't like him and he makes everybody else thinks that girl likes him...And he always wants to take control of things and be the leader...Plus he always thinks what he does is right what what you do is just wrong!!!And he tries to be funny and all but he is not funny...I told him that he should change his ways but he just won't listen and he sticks to me all the time so i'm being disturbed by him everytime i'm with my best friend...What do i do???

2007-03-24 01:00:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

..Freak out ! If a guy licked her feet or toes... And would think the guy was a "disgusting monster". I know most girls might find it different, but would you all say it's "Disgusting" ?? How would you react ? Thank you to all that respond !

2007-03-24 01:00:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a very attractive and fun girl a few weeks ago and got together again with her last night. we have been talking on the phone a little, texting occasionally, and emailing eachother

i have enjoyed both times with her, and she says that she also really enjoys being around me, although we have only been together one night (after meeting at the bar) and then again last night

now this is the thing.. when i say i enjoy being around her, thats just it.. but when she says it, it seems to be MUCH more. and im flattered, and glad that she feels that way, but i kinda feel bad because i dont feel quite the same. yet?

plus it kinda scares me.. is this normal for a girl when she first meets a guy she really likes? she's a person who isnt afraid to say what's on her mind (love that) and idk

or is this a sign or neediness or??? i dont think she's that, but again idk her nor do i understand girls

sry for long question. thx for answers

2007-03-24 01:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The catch was you have to attend their 90 minute show where they promote their cooking utensils for sale (they really try to sell you this stuff). I've attended and did not buy anything and I did get the vacation. But I want to know if anyone won and went to the vacation offered. Also is it really legit. I found several pro/cons on the web. All I could really find is advise to not buy the cooking utensils but nothing on whether the trip is really legit. Help please!

2007-03-24 00:59:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-24 00:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by lovely girl 2 in Singles & Dating

If I tell him she will lie her way out of it and he will be upset with me for trying to start trouble between them. She's very vindictive and got mad at me once before and told him a lot lies about what I did to her. It was months before he spoke to me again. She knows I caught her and is being very bitchy when he's not around.

2007-03-24 00:54:45 · 44 answers · asked by Ladybug II 6 in Family

His taxes only shows about 30000 per year income but he makes about $200,000.

2007-03-24 00:54:36 · 23 answers · asked by mr_blackfish1999 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or does he read 'Forum'

2007-03-24 00:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by jl hooker 2 in Family

2007-03-24 00:49:52 · 4 answers · asked by lindsey b 1 in Friends

I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... But she came back but didnt inform me..But 2day she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time.What does this mean?

2007-03-24 00:49:50 · 16 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

will the difference in education affect the relationship? i am a sales manager but my boyfriend is a truck driver, will we have problems later?

2007-03-24 00:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really a serious guy hanging on here just for a few minutes. i wanna a real friend(just see my friends list)iam a10th grader.iam interested in aeronautics and physics
ok then. if ur intrested send me a friend request.my login name is "sorry i was busy with my exams"

2007-03-24 00:47:53 · 2 answers · asked by aim_for_the_skies^ 2 in Friends

My cousin is having a 21st and has invited everyone we know and I am the only one not invited.
We speak almost everyday and she has not mentioned the birthday. We are very close and have had no fight and laugh forever on the phone. Why is she hiding it from me?
Why does she not want me there? The point is she has not mentioned it at all i am older then her by a few months. I found out by other people not by her. When I ask her what she is doing that night she says nothing! Its tomorrow night.

2007-03-24 00:47:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That was a few years ago. Now, aside from the connotations of scavender...here's my problem. When we first got together I was a crazy sex fiend, blame it on a mood or prozac or something, but we'd have sex at least 3 times a day often more. Slowly, that wore off and jump to a few years later and a regular sex life nothing interesting until recently my mood is back, but alas, he only wants it once or twice a day and I bring up how things were at first and he says, "Well, now that I know I'm going to spend the rest of my life with you and get sex regularly I don't need to have it so many times a day. When we were dating, there were no guarentees and back then I didn't get sex regularly so my sex drive would build up, that never happens now." Ah, what is a girl to do?

In case you are wondering he's 25 and I'm just a tad bit younger.

2007-03-24 00:46:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

with darker hair, and why?

2007-03-24 00:45:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy in my class and I fancy him. He knows that and behaves differently now. He does everything only to make me jelous,go after him, talk to him, His best friend likes me. For one week his best friend sat with me, but the guy I fancy wanted to sit with me as well. I didn't know that and I just said: "Let him stay here!" The guy I fancy got angry and didn't talk to me for a long time. He does't even talk to his best friend any more!! They have even fought for this reason. Another day, we were in a party. I had to leave earlier than the others and some of my friends wanted to accompany me. There were five or six guys I guess and I had to choose one. One of them was this guy I fancy. After I left, he didn't dance with anyone and said to my best friend: "There are no girls here, I mean, all the good girls have left." The only one who stayed only one hour there was me. One day he told me: "Stay with that guy (his best friend). you like him more than me, right?"
I don't get him

2007-03-24 00:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by weird 3 in Friends

2007-03-24 00:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you think if a girl drew you something and gave it to you as a birthday gift?

2007-03-24 00:44:28 · 15 answers · asked by v. 1 in Singles & Dating

OK: my stepsons laptop that we bought him is having issues, so we swapped with my hubby's very expensive/nice one and while stepson (16) was at home, his mother, in a fit of irritation over something, slammed the top down, caught the cord inside which punctured and damaged the LCD screen. Normally we would just chalk this up to another 'thing' but I was curious if any of you would ask for her to help pay for repairs? We have had a decent relationship with her for the past 10 years of our marriage, don't think asking for her to help pay would ruin it....(p.s. I am very irritated, but in the past I've learned that expressing that gets me no where! LOL)

2007-03-24 00:43:56 · 9 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Family