My ex bf left me for no real reason, he just avoided me totally n left me..i dont know if he found someone else..but.....i feel so hurt n I want my revenge please help me.......
2007-03-24 01:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by >>>♥<<< 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember Alicia Key's song Karma? What goes around comes around, what goes up must come down..same goes to everything in this world. If you are thinking about revenge it will only satisfy your feeling but trust me remorse will follow you after that. You are strong in heart,in mind,in body and in soul. Nobody can take away your inner strength recite that.
2007-03-24 01:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by aqua_gurl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to take revenge? That is a short term and fruitless endeavor that would harm you in the long run. Ask yourself if revenge will make you a better person. Did you truly care for this person? You don't indicate if you were married or in a relationship but it is obvious that you are hurting and reacting to that hurt on an emotional level. Your ex had a reason, he either chose not to share it or perhaps you couldn't accept it. The contributing factor possibly is communication. You cannot control how another person feels, thinks or believes. The only thing that you have control over is how you respond to situations that affect you and what you learn from them. Life if filled with meetings and partings and we grow from each of them. It is a learning process that helps us to find the person who enhances us and understanding that the connection brings out the best in both of you. The hurt will fade, best of luck to you.
2007-03-24 01:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by dryad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer. There is an old saying; "When embarking on the path of revenge, start by digging two graves." You will probably never know why your boyfriend left so suddenly, but you have to realize that the problem is now his and not yours. He did not tell why or give you the chance to work-out any problems between the two of you. I know this will be hard, but you need to forgive him and move on with your life.
2007-03-24 01:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by DoubleD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel but dont be sad..he left u for no reason??? well dear,remember that EVERYTHING HAS A REASON, if he lefts you maybe its because he is not happy with your relationship anymore,or he has another girl,or he has a personal problem that he cant tell you...but now that he`s gone there`s nothing you can do but to move on...
Just dont think of what happy moments you had with him, go out with friends or do something new...
about thinking on how to make a revenge with him all you can do is to let him see that you are strong even if he left you and you can go on with your life even without him...have a date and make him see that you can be happy and its not the end of the world for you....
2007-03-24 01:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and let it go. Revenge will end up backfiring. Don't waste your time on negative emotions. It is true that hate will destroy the hater. Focus this energy on finding someone who will care for you for the good in you. I know you're hurt now, but you'll feel worse if you do something bad.
2007-03-24 01:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many can relate to this trust me. Guys think it is normal to just one day want out no explanation nothing. These guys are babies who just clearly do not know what they want. The best revenge is go on with your life find someone who will respect you and want to be with you. If you are not ready to do that fake it until you make it. Do not let him see you falling apart. When you see him around show him life is Good with out him and just maybe the sorry *** will see what he lost.
2007-03-24 01:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it's best to avoid revenge. Hatred is a poison. Write a nasty poem about him if you want, but I'd stop at that.
2007-03-24 01:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time and energy on revenge. It won't fix your hurt. Move on with your life.
2007-03-24 01:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st he is not the 1 for u 2nd ur not married w/him 3rd dont let anger defeat u, just pray to God that give u a better 1 that he's not gonna cheat u the who gonna love 4 ever.remember anger is belong to the devil...............
2007-03-24 01:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by jesse g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best revenge is to move on and be happy.
2007-03-24 01:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋