my boyfriend and i have been together for 3years now and i often visit him but now he easily shout at me,he goes out the room to recieve phone calls.he seems to dislike everthing i do.he claims he loves me and wants a future with me.he sometimes say things to realy hurts my emotions he do say sorry but not all the time.can there be another girl or he is just fed up with me and he can't say it.he was not like this i'm so sad.
2007-03-24 01:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by debie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says what he has to so he can get sex. Leave him and find a guy who will treat you like a princess, we are out here waiting for a nice girl like you.
2007-03-24 01:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and Women aren't so different. We might take different paths, but we head for the same goal. One thing we DO do alike though is handle a fading romantic interest.
Nobody wants to say "I think we're through", but instead would love the other person - regardless of their current stance - to break it off. It feels better! So instead of manning (or womaning) up to the conversation, they find ways to push the other person over the edge.
Giving relationship advise is impossible in this manner, and this scenario is just one of so many possibilities. Job stress? Depression? Who knows. What I can say is that you're wasting your time here on Yahoo! Answers when really you should sit your boyfriend down and ask HIM this question. If he doesn't give you a solid answer including a plan to mellow himself out, there's nothing we Answerers can say and nothing you can do to change HIM.
... in which case, I'd advise planning a trip to your parents' house. Either it'll whip him up into shape, or push him over the edge. And it's so much easier than just breaking up, isn't it?
- J.
2007-03-24 08:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by jjcsforwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...sorry to say, but it sounds like the fire went out on his end. From what I can see, it's probably for the best. If he's shouting and being sneaky, do you really want a future with a guy like him? I doubt it. There's plenty of fish in the sea...just go find another. The sooner the better. Just say good bye to him...looks like he's not man enough. You deserve better, don't you think? I do. Wish you the best.
2007-03-24 08:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to find out if there is another girl. If he is telling you that he loves you, but doing things that are putting red flags up then care enough about your life to find out.
I've seen this over and over....guys say one thing to a girl, then go around behind their backs and do another. They justify it in their minds as being ok, because you are allowing them to. Would they want to be treated the same way? What men and women need to realize is that if you deceive someone and are not truthful with your intentions then, all around what goes around comes around.
2007-03-24 08:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your clothes on from this point on..
Now, be strong...
(3 short years of BS! forget it... chalk it up to a learning experience)...then...
Leave!
You deserve much better than this abuse, right?
Then GO (to family or friends ) and do not tell him you're going or anything..just leave when he is not around and have family or Police come when you are moving your stuff..
GO! and don't look back and dont accept his calls, and if he comes around have phone in hand always and keep your distance and try to have someone around always till you know he is not going to grab you or harm you for at least year or till he gets involved with someone else
I know what I'm talking about..
Good luck sweetie..
2007-03-24 08:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u have 2 talk 2 him about that . tell him if he did not stop treating u like that u will break up with him . do not always b easy with him . tell him u hurt me alot . step away 4 awhile then just wait and see .
2007-03-24 08:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by hagar a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested any more there should be no secrets in a relationship stand back for a while and see if he wakes up and if not move on
2007-03-24 08:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by AKAPAC69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two signs to consider. His to you is YIELD. Yours to him should be STOP. Take a DETOUR around him
2007-03-24 08:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋