I have this friend...He is such a show-off...He shows off all his things that he bought and his marks in the exam and his money and when someone has a cool thing he copies them and buys the same thing to let other poeple thinkg that he is cool...And if he deosn't know about the hot topic in school,he pretends he knows a lot about it...An he is dirty,when i am eating at the school cafeteria he snatches my food by his hand without promission and drinks my drink...And then he likes this girl who deosn't like him and he makes everybody else thinks that girl likes him...And he always wants to take control of things and be the leader...Plus he always thinks what he does is right what what you do is just wrong!!!And he tries to be funny and all but he is not funny...I told him that he should change his ways but he just won't listen and he sticks to me all the time so i'm being disturbed by him everytime i'm with my best friend...What do i do???
2007-03-24 01:00:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's a saying " God gave us relatives, thank God we can choose our friends". I think you are mixing with the wrong friend.
2007-03-24 01:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by aqua_gurl83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a person!
Did you ever watch 90210?
in there, there was this blond culry hair guy, he was always a show off, walking like a dog, thinking he knew everything and everybody, aaaaaay, i hate people like that.
This guy will never find any woman in his life, because women don't like men like that, he will be punished in nature once or twice, and one day he may realise and grow up.
You should stand for your rights and tell him to STOP being rude, get up from your chair, and make a sin, make public, embaress him, have the face and the guts to show who he is... Can't you find a group of people to join with and be a group to make him learn his lesson? I am sure lots of people dislike him just like you do.
The other option is find a way to get on his nerves. Do what he did to you ages ago, so he gets to see what pain you've gone through. Revenge is the best key, but not deep revenge, just a little punishment.
The other option is you tell me where you live and this guy does, i'll come and give him a good lesson, he won't forget for the rest of his life. I know lots of men and women like this, i tuk them under my wings and their fingers drop on the floor!
2007-03-24 08:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me tell your friends problem... You friend has a insatiable craving for attention and he thinks its cool by staying in the lime light. But seldom does he know everything has a price to pay... Well now your prob you can't tolerate all this because don't evre think u r jealous of cause you r not and why because you are a systematic person a methodist to be specific, you think everythin has a time and place.. But let me tell you never force your opinions on to others... Just ignore what he is doing don't give attention he will lack the fun soon and stop it.
2007-03-24 08:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's extremely insecure. Overcompensating. That has to stem from somewhere. Try to be understanding.
Weigh the pros and cons of having him as a friend.
If the pros prevail: Try to shrug all that stuff off. It takes a big person to do that. If you can't, try to talk about it. Be gentle, chances are he's actually sensitive deep down. Let him know that it bothers you or makes you worry about him when he starts spreading rumors. You're just trying to watch his back for him. And the food... that's not ok. It's your food and you're hungry. If he wants something, he can ask politely. Maybe he needs something to actually feel good about. Needs a sport or game. Maybe just needs compliments.
If cons win: Slowly phase yourself out. Hang with a group of friends instead of just him. Involve yourself with more activities and become too busy. Maybe introduce him to some other friends. If he gets offended, you'll probably have to tell him politely that it's not working out.
2007-03-24 08:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is the heart of evil. Stop hating and just leave her alone. You live your life and get her out of your brain.
2007-03-24 08:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to find another friend. it does not sound like you will have a difficult time telling him that. don't stick around if you don't like him as a friend
2007-03-24 08:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it to the guidence counsler
or just dont talk to him
2007-03-24 09:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Michael A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN.......find a new friend...like yourself enough to think you are good enough to have better friends in your life...you do not need negative..controlling people by your side..........
2007-03-24 08:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't hate your "friend". not really a friend is he?
just ignore him, people will see his true nature sooner or later
2007-03-24 08:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh friends come and go
you dont need friends
Just you and your hand tonight
2007-03-24 08:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Girl with a brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋