Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

Ok, I have been with my boyfriend now for two months and it is going very well. Over the last week, he has been talking about a get together a bunch of his mates are having at the end of April. He is 30 and everyone has spread and are now doing different things, so it would be good for them all to meet up again. He has invited me along as well. This is a big deal as I will be meeting his close friends for the first time. Now here is the dilema. A friend of my sister's has just sent out invitations for the evening reception of her wedding at the end of April...on the same day as this event. She is a close friend of my sister's and I'm very touched that she has invited our family along to the event. A while ago, I said that I would go. I don't really speak to her that often, but would like to go...as well as the other function! lol I don't want to make my boyfriend drop his mates for this either. Should we just go to our separate functions for the day or should I go with him?

2007-03-24 02:47:41 · 23 answers · asked by Cat burgler 5 in Singles & Dating

what r the differences betw married guys and single guys?

2007-03-24 02:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by \" moOnLighT "/ 1 in Singles & Dating

Last Mon night and Tue morning I had sex 8 times and more
The man used the pull out method and i am not the pill and there was no protection.

Im due on now I have had slight spottig but no cramps or anything.

could i be pregnant?? or is it too soon to do test???

Help!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 02:47:24 · 21 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this boy in my class who likes me. We're the same age. But he is like crazy about me.So,one day I sorta went on a 'date' with him. We just rode are bikes in Central Park. Then we stopped and sat on a bench. He told me he loves me. But I think Im too young for Love.Any Advice.

2007-03-24 02:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by riley_xo_211 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 02:46:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,m a good looking guy that work hard for my money been to the club,s and other place to fine a good gril but still come up with bad gril

2007-03-24 02:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by wells_dw 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 02:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just Lost A Friend Cos I Called The Police On Her Ex. I Called Her Mobile And He Answerd It Asked Who The F*** It Was And Trhew It. The Call Stayed Connected And I Could Her Her Screaming For Mercy. I Decided To Hang Up And Call The Police Who Got There Just After He Had Left. I Recieved A Call From Her Afterwards Asking Why I Did It And I said Cos I Thought Her Was Really Gonna Hurt Her Bad. She Said If The Police Had Seen It Her Baby Would have Lost His Daddy. She Then Went On To Say That She Can't Trust Me Anymore After That And Asked Me To Never Call Me Again. Was I Wrong To Call The Police On Her Or Is She Just Mad. Any Comments Would Be Greatly Recived Cos I Am Really Starting To Question Myself.

2007-03-24 02:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by Jay Cee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

but until now I still regret what happened bet us. He's now happy with his new gf but I still believe and hav faith that someday things bet us will work again. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-03-24 02:44:56 · 7 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, im not sure how to go about it and hope u kind soul can help me.
This guy (he is my female colleague fren) this guy ask my colleague about me before he added me in friendster and we soon chat on msn and phone. He is nice person and character wise kinda shy. (my colleague say that too). He ask for my pic and said that he wants to show his good pal how he get to know this sweet girl (who is me.) and he also mention to me that he feel comfortable talking to me and he said that im a concern and sweet lady. So, is this consider he like me? or.. i shouldnt think too much to aviod disappointment? Thanks for ur advise and comment.

2007-03-24 02:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

i just dumped my ex last wed. i have a lot of feelings for this other guy. how long should i wait before i go out with someone again?

2007-03-24 02:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 02:42:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello room,I met this guy two years ago at the British council library and we used to study english together,that's how we became friends.I love him so much coz,he always used to make me laugh and happy.He's very good looking too and that's why I fell for him.I couldn't control my feelings for him and one day I told him that I loved him so much.He asked me out but for another reason, I thought he loves me too coz the way he used talk to me,and stuff.But it was nothing serious from his side,he just wanted to have fun and be physically with me.Though that wasn't the last day we met, we used to meet often, he tried to seduce me many times.But nothing happend coz I didn't want it to happen.He used to come to my office quite often.But since I left the job I never saw him again coz he used to say lots of nasty words to me to make me hurt and to put me down.However,he used to call me sometimes just to say hi.I haven't heared from him 4 a year now & I still miss him alot.

2007-03-24 02:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by reshma 1 in Friends

2007-03-24 02:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We were best friends and i started having feelings for her and told her once. She even kissed me but afterwards she withdrew and now she doesnt even like to talk to me. I have told her several times that i will stay as friend but she doesnt even want to see my face. I am frostrated to find a stich of logic in this reaction. Is she right to do it and what should i do now. It is not easy just to leave a friendship and say good bye.

2007-03-24 02:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been engaged about a year and were planning to go to pre-marital counseling before setting date (second marriage for both of us). Noticed something "missing". No affairs or anything related to that. There does seem to be criteria for depression. He admits that but does not seem motivated to do anything for it (Dr, meds, positive activiites) and instead watches TV every night and falls asleep on couch. We decided to call it splits (I am not going to wait on the sidelines-I have a lot o good qualities to share with another). It is hard not to take it personal but I know this is common with major depressive disorder and other types of depressive episodes. Why is it that some people are motivated to make a once healthy and productive relationship work and others are not. I guess it goes back to the depression, as well as the baggage from prior marriage (and his kids). Frustrating!

2007-03-24 02:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by bjh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so this guy that i have known for a few years recently had sex with my girlfriend and knows me and knows where dating and so on. So now he has enough nerve to tell me not to mess with him because he is in the marines and will "Destroy me" so i need some ideas on how to get my REVENGE!

2007-03-24 02:38:13 · 18 answers · asked by hl2cjm 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short, parents split, My ex lover, best friend (could have been baby daddy) moved in.(hes 21) Everything was cool my mom enjoyed his company. Not even 2 months of him living with us, my best friend sinec 2003 tells me that him and my mom slept together and its only happened once. It perturbed me, but i didnt let it get to me. Well my dad moved back home and he moved out and now we dont talk or text or anything. he called me once for my bday and that was about it. It turns out that he calls my mom almost every day and text her to come see him etc. I had sorta moved from it, but its gotten to the point where its psychologically damaging me. Its pissing me off and my mom notices i get an attitude when she mentions "him calling". We talked about it when it first happened and she denied it, but im getting frusterated and disgusted with her. What would you do? Im moving out ASAP because of her.

2007-03-24 02:37:54 · 1 answers · asked by Schism 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy works really odd hours they are the total opposite of mine but even at that he never calls me I always have to call him. He has a lot of friends and on his days off has to pick who he is going to see. I dont know if I should just waite it out or if tell him we should just be friends. I feel a lot of the times that our relationship is put on the back burner. I really like him a lot and care for him deeply but I don't know what to do.

2007-03-24 02:36:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, I like this guy at my school and. I wan t him so so bad. i like him a lot. abut the only problem is that he has said no to me 2 times. but the only reason he said no twice is because all my friends kept asking him over and over again and it got him very mad so he said no. and the same reason for the second time. I can't get to know him because i am afraid to talk to him, and i am not trying to sound desperate. Please give me good advice. please.

2007-03-24 02:36:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy in my school...hes always looking at me in class..even though i know he is and he knows...well...hes always tellin me that im pretty and when i get madd at him..he gets sad..and starts tellingme that he loves me...the other day he told his friend that i was pretty..and his friend told me that..and said that he thinks he wants to go out w/ me he always flirts w/ me..and and always makes something up to talk to me.....do u guys think he likes me or not??

2007-03-24 02:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex-gf for 3 years and loved her and still in love with her. She broke my heart 2 months ago when she ditched me for this other guy she hardly knew. 2 weeks she knew him. I mean how can someone throw away 3 years on my person they hardly know. I mean we were great together and all, but after it all she loved me more as a friend....I mean you cant say something like that after such a long time together! I mean we did everything together.
Now I dont know whether I should go cold turkey. I bet you she is not. I am finding that this is still hurting and thinking about **** like that is not good for my heart.
I know I could get another girl and have meaningless sex and all, but that wont fix me I think. I need to focus on getting better?
I need some counceling....

2007-03-24 02:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy at my school named Scottie. I mean, he is always sweet, and sometimes annoying, but that's part of our best friendship thing. He used to like me, and I have always liked him. I really want to go out w/ him sooooooooooooooooooooo badly, because he is just my type of guy. The thing is, he likes my best friend, and I think that he likes me again. I don't exactly have a problem w/ him liking my friend, but I kinda do. *frowns* Anyways, people say that we would make the cutest couple because we are practically the shortest people in 8th grade (and so is my best friend that he likes, who doesn't like him). I probably have to move in a few weeks, and I will miss him SOOOOOOOOOOO much; I've also NEVER had a boyfriend, so I don't know what it's like to be a girlfriend. Please HELP ME SOMEBODY!!!!!!!!!!

Many thx to those who help to answer and give me advice!
-Karissa

2007-03-24 02:34:43 · 3 answers · asked by kskarpias 2 in Friends

Girls seem to worry about makng themselves vulnerable. What do they mean?

2007-03-24 02:34:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jonathan H 3 in Singles & Dating

We were going to get married after knowing each other for 4-5mths. b/c of the pregnancy. He really wanted to be a father more than anything b/c he is 32, never been married, and has no kids. I on the otherhand, do not believe in having children out of wedlock. Now that my bf found out I was not pregnant after all, (a relief to my ears) it was like a disappointment to him b/c he wanted to be a father. Now he is having doubts about the relationship. This is the same guy who I mention in previous questions before this one. He called me inconsiderate and showed me how inconsiderate he really was about me. When he thought I was pregnant he told me he loved me and how deeply sorry he was for saying that about me. Now that I am not pregnant, he is questioning everything. Saying, we should start as friends, when we did. He seems a little backwards.

2007-03-24 02:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Singles & Dating

at my schoool i have no best friends and the friends i have had for so long do not invite me anywhere because i own;t do the crazy sh*t that they do like driving w/o a lincease and drinking and i have told them that i feel left out because all they do is talk about what they did on the weekend and nevr include me in anything, i am going to a new school but do you think that i should teel them off before i leave, i think that they will end up doing somehting stupid because they don;t care abouts school and teel the teachers off and bunk but they are the only friends that i have a a small school of 50 what should i do ?
thanks in advcane

2007-03-24 02:34:07 · 4 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3 in Friends

I have 2 girls, one 4 and the other 2. I am really confused as to when and how to bring up sex ed with them. My husband and I are quite open with them about most things and we both agreed with the way the Netherlands dealt with sex ed. But do we drum it into them at an early age or do we wait till they are at the age to ask?

2007-03-24 02:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by Janie B 4 in Singles & Dating

No, Im not trying to be on JS for reals. I have dilemma and its driving me nuts.
Long story short, parents split, My ex lover, best friend (could have been baby daddy) moved in.(hes 21) Everything was cool my mom enjoyed his company. Not even 2 months of him living with us, my best friend since 2003 tells me that him and my mom slept together and its only happened once. It perturbed me, but i didnt let it get to me. Well my dad moved back home and he moved out and now we dont talk or text or anything. he called me once for my bday and that was about it. It turns out that he calls my mom almost every day and text her to come see him etc. I had sorta moved from it, but its gotten to the point where its psychologically damaging me. Its pissing me off and my mom notices i get an attitude when she mentions "him calling". We talked about it when it first happened and she denied it, but im getting frusterated and disgusted with her. How would you feel? Im moving out ASAP because of her.

2007-03-24 02:33:12 · 5 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 02:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by colabella41 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 02:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by bubblykellyisat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships