No, Im not trying to be on JS for reals. I have dilemma and its driving me nuts.
Long story short, parents split, My ex lover, best friend (could have been baby daddy) moved in.(hes 21) Everything was cool my mom enjoyed his company. Not even 2 months of him living with us, my best friend since 2003 tells me that him and my mom slept together and its only happened once. It perturbed me, but i didnt let it get to me. Well my dad moved back home and he moved out and now we dont talk or text or anything. he called me once for my bday and that was about it. It turns out that he calls my mom almost every day and text her to come see him etc. I had sorta moved from it, but its gotten to the point where its psychologically damaging me. Its pissing me off and my mom notices i get an attitude when she mentions "him calling". We talked about it when it first happened and she denied it, but im getting frusterated and disgusted with her. How would you feel? Im moving out ASAP because of her.
2007-03-24 02:33:12 · 5 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh. What a harsh situation.
If you're still friends with this guy, tell him to cool it with your mom. Especially if your dad's back in the picture. If he's any friend he'll stop his behavior.
Then you need to sit and have a serious chat with your mom about it. Tell her its not cool, and how it makes you feel. Tell your mom if she keeps it up, it will cost her a relationship with you.
Keep the conversation between you and your mom, especially if you want your dad and mom to patch things over.
Man, you situation sucks. Hopefully you have a grandparent, aunt/uncle, or someone to move in with.
Now, I'll add some insight. Your mom might have some issues to deal with personally. Adult issues that may not seem apparent to you. She needs to work them out for herself.
But, I'd look out for yourself in this case.
Somehow, things will work themselves out. They always do.
Hang in there.
2007-03-24 02:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by dgrhm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that does sound like some JS type stuff. I can't believe your mother would violate like that, she's old enough to know better than that. She should have NEVER slept with him, he's your ex for God's sake. You need to get out of there ASAP and hope that her ways don't rub off onto you. That guy is not your friend either, because a REAL friend would have never done some foul stuff like that.
2007-03-24 09:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom sounds like a *****. She slept with your boyfriend? Very insulting. I'd move out of that white trash in a heartbeat.
2007-03-24 09:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your best friend telling the truth or just feeding your suspicions.......?
If so, then that is pretty low of a thing your Mom has done and you best never talk to that dude again.....you're stuck with family but, you can choose better boyfriends
2007-03-24 09:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by supordude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you can do,you've talked to her and she doesn't seem to care,it's a shame if it would break up your mom and dad eventually,but if they don't care,well maybe your mom might wake up if you move out,and see how much it's really bothering you.(good luck).
2007-03-24 10:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋