Is it appropriate to email him after what happend between us?

Question

Hello room,I met this guy two years ago at the British council library and we used to study english together,that's how we became friends.I love him so much coz,he always used to make me laugh and happy.He's very good looking too and that's why I fell for him.I couldn't control my feelings for him and one day I told him that I loved him so much.He asked me out but for another reason, I thought he loves me too coz the way he used talk to me,and stuff.But it was nothing serious from his side,he just wanted to have fun and be physically with me.Though that wasn't the last day we met, we used to meet often, he tried to seduce me many times.But nothing happend coz I didn't want it to happen.He used to come to my office quite often.But since I left the job I never saw him again coz he used to say lots of nasty words to me to make me hurt and to put me down.However,he used to call me sometimes just to say hi.I haven't heared from him 4 a year now & I still miss him alot.

Answer 1

Please find someone else. you don't want to be mass of dump, do you? You know what he's like. don't you? if you like yourself i advice you to find someone else for your sake.

Answer 2

I think you should let him go.If you say he hurt you.I married a boy who also hurted me..because ididn't want to sleep with him in the begining.And now,,my life is heavy.and dificult.You should marry a man who never hurts you..There are such boys around..even if not often..but you can find them..especially at church..or so..You see men are not very fond of marrying..You must destroy his mind if you want him to marry you..but this can happen only if he can love...Or most of men when they are young....are able only to have sex...because that is what they want..they are curious to feel this sensation..they are not curious to love and be loved...it happens only when they are chalenged ..especially..generally later..but there are exceptions...If you refused to sleep with him..it was perfect..he got a lesson from this..he knows now that what he offers..his body...is not important..and maybe he shall discover he has a mind and a soul...and maybe he shall discover that women are having a soul and a mind...I mean if you rejected him..he shall wonder ..what kind of girl is that..I never met this type...she doesn't want me?...oh..that's bad...Am I ugly?It means she is better then me...first of all...''And she shall look at you as to a superior person...I also advise you to miss only somebody that loves you ..and also misses you....Doesn't this fascinates you...finding a boy ..that misses you?That loves you?That wants you to marry him?If he doesn't want to marry you ..it means he doesn't find you as being perfect...his dream...it means he waits for somebody .''.better ''then you...Besides...a man is the one who calls first ..and ask you to marry him..you cannot do this..you can get a false atitude ...If he doesn't call you..it is simple..he doesn't miss you..So think of somebody else...and remember that is not big deal that a man makes you laugh..It is a big deal if you can determine a man think only about you..and determine him to marry you...A boy that likes you calls all the time...or wait..because there could come a time...when he realises that you are the one to whom he must marry imediatelly..This could happen over 2 years ..even..if you don't speak to him..

Answer 3

No. He's not really a nice person. He took advantage of your feelings for him. To many men love = sex when you told him you loved him he clearly thought that he'd get himself some.

Answer 4

Don't you know when to stop? your shouting " Heartbreak her I am, come and get me" Forget him and move on with your life. He doesn't want you, only for sex and he would throw you over. Get smart, do something worthwhile with your life. Think: HAPPINESS not MISERY...

Answer 5

Find a new love, love.

Answer 6

I would let sleeping dogs lie.......

Answer 7

time to reconnect

Answer 8

no