My guy works really odd hours they are the total opposite of mine but even at that he never calls me I always have to call him. He has a lot of friends and on his days off has to pick who he is going to see. I dont know if I should just waite it out or if tell him we should just be friends. I feel a lot of the times that our relationship is put on the back burner. I really like him a lot and care for him deeply but I don't know what to do.
2007-03-24 02:36:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He never calls anyone!! We all have to call him.
2007-03-24 02:41:32 · update #1
baby girl, you should be his priority as far as relationship concern. picking friends over you is just wrong. don't you feel like the relationship is fading fast? eventhough your heart is in the right place, but you have to let this one go. you still young and there is no need to wait for someone or something that may or may not happen. it's time to live your life too.
2007-03-24 02:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is to have a guy that loves to be with you and to make you his priority, which is great. Your present guy does not have the ability to focus on you or others that way, and it is unlikely he will for a long time at the very least. He obviously is not the guy you are looking for,and so I would treat him as a friend and don't take him back. You would just be kidding yourself. There is a guy for you who is much more passionate about you, and yes he will want to call you all the time, as he should !
2007-03-24 09:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by by u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not his number one priority here--a relationship works TWO ways--you should not be the one calling him all the time--you waiting this out is pretty much wasting your time. I understand he has many friends and his time is limited but that is no excuse for ignoring you--you should be just as important as his other friends if not more because you are his girlfriend. I would step back from this and let him figure out what he really wants. I would not waste time here--you can find someone who will treat you like gold. Good luck!!
2007-03-24 09:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is always working and spending time with his friends then yes u need to tell him u need to be friends and tell him why to because if he cant spend his time off with u then there is no point to keep this relationship going. u never know he might not want to loose u and say sorry and tell u he wont mess up again.
2007-03-24 09:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by putty cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only u can decide if hes worth the wait or if u want to keep trying and wait for him. but if u feel as if u r leading him on then call it quits and just b friends.
2007-03-24 09:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by roar!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy likes you he'll really want to see you whenever he can and if he doesnt you need to move on and find someone that does. Never be too available if a guy is not putting in alot of effort when you are you need to realise they don't really care. most men want what they cant have.
2007-03-24 09:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Express your love for him. Don't be shy. If it still does not work out....leave. Always mix with more friends and you will find the right one one day.
2007-03-24 09:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key is that he does not call you and that you have to call him. Stop calling him and see what happens. You'll know where you stand.
2007-03-24 09:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you care more for him than he does of you. I know that stinks but you may want to move on to someone who makes you priority one.
2007-03-24 09:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not on the same page. Move on.
2007-03-24 09:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋