Okay so this guy that i have known for a few years recently had sex with my girlfriend and knows me and knows where dating and so on. So now he has enough nerve to tell me not to mess with him because he is in the marines and will "Destroy me" so i need some ideas on how to get my REVENGE!
2007-03-24 02:38:13 · 18 answers · asked by hl2cjm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not a friend and she is not a girlfriend you want. Your anger and hurt should be directed to the one person that had a commitment to you. She wronged you and if you are still together, she will probably do it again.
You need to move on rather than plan revenge. He can have her and her cheating ways.
You deserve a woman that will respect you. Focus your engery on attracting that woman rather than the negative feelings toward the creep and your ex.
Do it for yourself. You deserve it.
2007-03-24 02:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by L N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and report his threat about him being in the Marines and that he will "destroy" you. The best revenge would be for you to not let him threaten you and get away with it. (After you make the police report do not contact him at all.) Keep yourself safe. The threat is real and you shouldn't take it as a joke. Protect yourself. Also by moving forward with your life and succeeding in anything that you do would also hit him where it hurts. You will have your self respect and empowerment. And the only one that can receive credit for that is you.( Revenge isn't going to help you it will make it worse for you and no one else. Always seek empowerment, self improvement, self respect, and self love you deserve it.) Good luck, I know you are upset and angry at the way he's treated you. The best thing out of all this is what you have learned about him. Now when you meet someone, anyone you have more knowledge.
2007-03-24 09:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge? No, that is your emotion and pride reacting and will only cause you more difficulty. Take the high road and consider if this guy was really a friend of yours? Your girlfriend must not have been as in to you as you'd hoped or she wouldn't have made the choice she did. Both were at fault. Step back and examine the situation. Does a continued connection with either of these individuals make you a better person. Get out there and meet someone else.... remember that when you surround yourself with giants you may become one yourself but when you surround yourself with Lilliputians .... you too will remain small.
2007-03-24 10:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by dryad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the revenge. I'd let him have her also. As my mother told me & I'm sure your's would say the samething "there's other tin cans in the dump." Just need to hang around the one's with the better tin cans. As for him destroying you because he is in the Marines that is a threat on your life & I would report him to the proper authorities. I had an ex that threatened me also & when I had him reported not only was there a court order for him to stay away from me for the next seven years; the Air Force told him to re-sign early to take a dis-honorable discharge.
2007-03-24 09:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Big Time Yankees Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a girlfriend you can seep with? If he does do it. As for him being in the marines try and screw with him there. Spread around,quietly, to some of his mrine buddies that he is gay. If you want really bad revenge you could do something really mean and plant some dope on him or in his car and then anonomously call the police. That is pretty drastic. My advice would be to get over it. It isn't just his fault, your girl was a willing participent. Find a new girl and a new friend. someone who would do that to you was never a true friend to begin with
2007-03-24 09:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters a military man will get put in CC (Jail) for fist fighting. And possibly be put out of the service for it. He cant destroy you! He would only be destroying him self by messing with you. He is considered government property. He therefore is expected to keep his nose clean! Also it is against military law to start trouble like this.
I'd call his first Sargent anomalously and tell him the dude smoked dope last weekend with a bunch of hookers. LOL That's revenge! LOL His world will be rocked!
2007-03-24 09:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a small person. Guys like that only want attention to feed their egos and make their pathetic life more exiting. Be a MAN and drop them both.
2007-03-24 09:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by sgtlambsonswife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you plan for vegence you dig two graves. Don't waste your time, move on and live a long healthy life. Don't worry there's always someone better.
2007-03-24 09:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Fred L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not gonna believe this, but the BEST revenge is......
to let her have him. Think about it - he cheated on you, it wasn't just her.
2007-03-24 09:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sgtlambs said it before me. She's 100% right
2007-03-24 09:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋