i met a very attractive and fun girl a few weeks ago and got together again with her last night. we have been talking on the phone a little, texting occasionally, and emailing eachother
i have enjoyed both times with her, and she says that she also really enjoys being around me, although we have only been together one night (after meeting at the bar) and then again last night
now this is the thing.. when i say i enjoy being around her, thats just it.. but when she says it, it seems to be MUCH more. and im flattered, and glad that she feels that way, but i kinda feel bad because i dont feel quite the same. yet?
plus it kinda scares me.. is this normal for a girl when she first meets a guy she really likes? she's a person who isnt afraid to say what's on her mind (love that) and idk
or is this a sign or neediness or??? i dont think she's that, but again idk her nor do i understand girls
sry for long question. thx for answers
2007-03-24 01:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd suggest keep things moving along, but slowly. You waited two weeks for the next date, try this two week stradegy again. See how she reacts during these next two weeks. If she really misses you, she'll let you know. Just don't come on strong or lead her on. She just might be the one for you? :)
Don't burn your bridges. After a while you'll get to know her better, and yes, girls sometimes over-react when they let guys know how they feel. It might be just the same way you do feel. You'll see with time whether or not this is true.
2007-03-24 01:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't really go by what she says. Look at her actions.
People can say they are not needy or clingy, but, does she do things that make it seem otherwise? People each have their own definition of things. What I would do is spend more time with her. Talking on the phone and texting isn't enough to base a relationship on. Quality time together is what is needed to determine if the two of you click. The only way to get to know her and her personality is time. If you're not willing to put the time in and be genuine, they don't waste her time.
2007-03-24 08:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do if you don't want to rush this is just to keep spending time with each other to get to know each other to see where it's going from there. She might be a needy person, you never know from just being with her two times. The more you spend time with her, the more about her you will learn, but if it gets too intense for you and she's moving to fast for you, then just let her know, if she respects that and goes along with it, then maybe something good will come out of it, if not, then she doesn't respect your feelings and then you should just stop it before it gets worse, either way, the balls in your court my friend.
2007-03-24 08:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by revman_237 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call - it depends on her tone - did she sound needy or breezy when she said it? In any case , it takes two people to start a relationship and if you're not into it then that's not your problem- don't lead her on either though. you know if you're into someone because it's exciting to see them, not a chore.
2007-03-24 08:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt, go with your gut feeling. Your subconscious mind is trying to tell you something.
2007-03-24 08:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ready to go steady, not get hitched.
2007-03-24 08:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋