That was a few years ago. Now, aside from the connotations of scavender...here's my problem. When we first got together I was a crazy sex fiend, blame it on a mood or prozac or something, but we'd have sex at least 3 times a day often more. Slowly, that wore off and jump to a few years later and a regular sex life nothing interesting until recently my mood is back, but alas, he only wants it once or twice a day and I bring up how things were at first and he says, "Well, now that I know I'm going to spend the rest of my life with you and get sex regularly I don't need to have it so many times a day. When we were dating, there were no guarentees and back then I didn't get sex regularly so my sex drive would build up, that never happens now." Ah, what is a girl to do?
In case you are wondering he's 25 and I'm just a tad bit younger.
2007-03-24 00:46:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it's a good thing I don't believe in the sexual peak. I think it's a societal 'thing' as opposed to a biological thing when it comes to women and quite frankly, I have no problem with female sexuality or being comfortable with myself and I guess I'll find out, but there is no evidence that I need to fear my 'dirty 30s' ;)
2007-03-24 00:56:50 · update #1
Oh, to the person who said that I should tell him I could find plenty of other guys who would be willing to please me, that's awful! It makes me sad just thinking about it! Haha, if I wanted other men, I wouldn't be in this relationship. He's my love even if he doesn't want sex as much as I want!
2007-03-24 01:00:14 · update #2
I'm going through this too except he was the sex fiend and I wasn't. When men know they can get sex whenever they want, their drive tends to go down. Doesn't mean that he's not attracted. Talk it out. Maybe there's some common ground or meeting point. Perhaps discuss ways to spice it up.
2007-03-24 01:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 12:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wont satisfy you then there are plenty of guys out there who will. A lot of guys would jump at the chance to have a gf like you. I'm twice your age and my last gf and i had the same kind of relationship you and your bf did at first, we'd never leave our rooms the first few weekends we spent together... He is lazy and doesn't think he has to keep you happy now that your "stuck" with him.
2007-03-24 00:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as men get older they tend to loose the sex drive. As women get older they tend to gain there's. And I hate to say it but you are not even at your peek sister. It is going to grow even more. At like 35 I was atleast 6 times a day and had to do most of those alone. Good luck.
2007-03-24 00:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice a day and you're complaining. Honey, you need do something to occupy your time and let him get some work around the house done. He's not getting anything done with his pants off. Let him be. You're getting enough. Be happy for it not resentful.
2007-03-24 01:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant expect his sex drive to be exactly the same as yours ! infact i think if you are getting "it" twice a day in a marriage thats great,so just be happy.
2007-03-24 00:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Boxer girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a man wants what he can't have so act like you don't want it...try it and see...I bet he comes around....lol...
2007-03-24 00:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes!!! You need to get back on your meds.
2007-03-24 01:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-----get some new sex toys----try dressing sexier----get him some viagra-----like the girl above said-make him think you don;t want it-----------good luck sweety-----
2007-03-24 00:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the poor man alone. If you need more, buy a vibrator.
2007-03-24 00:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋