My cousin is having a 21st and has invited everyone we know and I am the only one not invited.
We speak almost everyday and she has not mentioned the birthday. We are very close and have had no fight and laugh forever on the phone. Why is she hiding it from me?
Why does she not want me there? The point is she has not mentioned it at all i am older then her by a few months. I found out by other people not by her. When I ask her what she is doing that night she says nothing! Its tomorrow night.
2007-03-24 00:47:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WHY do want to be invited if he/she has this kind of attitude with you? Move on with your life and get some REAL Friends. You do not want to be around these types of people anyhow.
2007-03-24 00:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She doesn't want you there. Is she inviting anyone else from the family, by the way?
I won't smoke pot in front of my kin.
Or she doesn't really want you there, and there is no point in trying to get an invite by confronting her. You asked her wht she was doing, and she has still not invited you, means she doesn'twant you there. As simple as that.
I am being cruel to you here, but I would certainly go and drink myself silly elsewhere with some other friends, and let her go her own way.
YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BUT YOUR DIGNITY. Do not grovel. You are a likable person, and can get yourself new friends rather than .... you can't even call this girl a fair weather friend. She doesn't want you along even in fair weather.
2007-03-24 08:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by shrek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will lose out in the end because when the party has finnished you are going to call her and tell her that you are very dissapointed that you were not invited to the party and that from this moment on she is not invited round to your house any more, She is not a friend, find another friend who wont do this to you.
also spread the word about it to the people who were at the party.
Poetic justice.
2007-03-24 08:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW....I'd call her and ask her to dinner tomorrow night..tell her you want to take her out for her Birthday...maybe she thinks you forgot it....if she says she can't...you ask why...if she says anything but the party then you say that you know about the party and why aren't you invited.....either you ticked her off or she is jealous of you and doesn't want you around...or you get drunk at parties and make a fool out of yourself....I'd ask her..she is the only one who knows....
2007-03-24 07:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be quiet and watch what happens. If she loves you she will call you but if not then you know who your friend is and its not her.
Be nonchalant about it and finally maybe she has a surprise for you but just ignore and be strong
2007-03-24 07:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to her bout it chick
just explain to here that uv heard rumours that she is havin a party and ask if their true if shes truly ur best mate she'd tel u right ?
uv just got to think is the person who told u just tryin to ruin ur friendship or is she tellin the truth?
luv rosie
2007-03-24 07:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by rosie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to surprise you.
2007-03-24 08:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by singler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask her, no question about it. If she doesnt want you there then there must be a reason.
2007-03-24 07:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mememe... 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless it is a surprise party and she knows nothing about it, i .suggest you talk to her, because something doesn't seem right.
2007-03-24 07:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
better inquire straight away and try to solve the reason behind it
2007-03-24 07:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋