My bf has suddenly stopped picking up his phone and stopped responding to emails. I am not sure what the deal is. The last time we were together (a week ago tomorrow) everything was fine between us. I even saw him (very) briefly on wed afternoon and all seemed well. I had one of my friends whom my bf doesn't know call him to see if he would pick up (wanted to know if he was avoiding me) and there was no answer. My guy friends are telling me not to call him anymore and one of them even said if I haven't heard from him by tomorrow to consider myself single. What should I do?
2007-03-24 01:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's not answering anyone's calls something could be wrong.
wait for a while.stop calling him or mailing him. ask a mutual freind if he wants to break up or something.
if that's the case, don't press. if not go and see him he may need support and is embaressed opening up to u about it.
2007-03-24 01:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him gal! aren't you not getting the message of what he is doing to you?? Well maybe you really dont mind the message because you love him.. thats why others are saying that love is not blind.. it sees but doesn't mind. (get it?) But i think he dont deserved you. If you did nothing wrong with him to make him act like that.. then its him who has the problem! But maybe you should think first.. did you do something wrong lately that can be a reason of avoiding you?? but girl.. if he really love you, he would talk about the issue (if ever there was) right? So.. don't wait for him. Your just hurting yourself. you must love yourself first before others. try to look at yourself.. and make a change for the better you.. so that when your bf (should we call him now your ex?!) saw you looking much better.. he might just make a move and have the efforts of wanting you back! Well then.. you can have your revenge!! bwahahaha!! (just kidding.. thats bad huh) ^^
2007-03-24 08:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by άЌίτά 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy alone and move on...start dating but do not get in a one on one reltionship for 6 month up until a year for you are a rebound and it won't work either...........take this time to like/love yourself and be happy ALONE...relying on no man for anything.expecially your happiness
2007-03-24 08:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its too early to decide that's he is avoiding u , maybe he is sometrouble and can't communicate , better see things in person and to decide , hurryin and putting up with decision may later lead to regrets .
2007-03-24 08:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well definatly stop calling him and you should dump him cause if he thinks that your phone calls are no timportant than you must not be important to him. Unless he is dead then it is ok. But I hope that you are happy whatever you do!
2007-03-24 08:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off no one wants to go w/o knowin why they are being ignored.. try and get a hold of him .. and if that doesnt work move on w/ ur life.. just another lesson learned .. never allow urself to be played w/
2007-03-24 09:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by UNiQUE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to ber rude, but has he:
A: had intercourse with you recently?
B: ever let him be more in you life?
C: has he told you bout his entire past?
and if he skipped sum years while telling you then that might have sumthin to do with it. im me at rga_andrews
or at randrews95 for aol.
2007-03-24 08:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound all that caring does he? Wait a short while for him to contact you and if he doesn't you're free.
2007-03-24 08:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hint dont call let him call u
2007-03-24 08:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go check on him tlak to him about it...maybe this is his way of saying you are single now...
2007-03-24 08:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Tayy :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋