i always feel overshadowed by my best friend.... she is more outgoing and friendly than I am (i am a bit shy) and most guys are attracted to her (she's pretty as well as nice) and girls gravitate to her. she is a great person but i always back into myself whenever we are with other people. how can i be more outgoing and stuff like that and stop looking on put actually participate in convos and such.
2007-03-24 01:12:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Next time your in a big group with her and you catch yourself clamming up just try to relax and include yourself into the conversation, or let your friend know you get uncomfortable and ask her to help you by including you in the conversation when you start to shy away.
2007-03-24 01:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just being urself u and ur best friend are exact opposites so stop comparing urself to her u are both unique individuals
2007-03-24 08:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋