What should I do?!?

Question

My best friend blew me off last night to go to another friends house insted of going to the movies with me as we had planned and I was left staning outside the movies. And this is not the 1st time shes done this to me. I dont know what to do now? should I forgive her or not? But shes my best friend and I dont know if I want to lose her. My other friends told me to make plans with her again and blow her off this time so she knows what it feels like but wouldnt that just not make me any bettert then her? I'd just stoop down to her level. so I dont know what to do! please help me.

Answer 1

just forgive her and don't make the mistake of calling your best friend again cos she's not worth it. but don't break your friendship either. she should just be a normal friend. If she is your best friend, she'll not blow you up on several occasions. inshort, she is nor even supposed to blow you at all if she's your friend. don't also suffer in silence walk up to her and ask her why she is behaving this way. she's probably being manipulated or she's making plans with someone else.. Don't be too agressive or fight when you're talking to her. just talk in a quiet and firm manner so she'll know that you're not someone to mess around with. Find someone else to make plans with. you should see this as a red flag. I hope you havn't been telling her your most intimate secretes cos she probably has been sharing them with some one else if not with every fly she sees.
good luck.
just friends.

Answer 2

Forgive her this time.But dear talk to her tell her how u feel.If she is ur best friend she will understand and never do it again.

Answer 3

Well i think you should do what your Friend said and then ask her if she did it again you would not be her friend because if she was really your friend she would not do that