i'm in love with a guy..he knows it but pretends he does not.
we used to atleast say HI before...but from past few months after he came back from his trip he seems to ignore me! he doesnt even say hi...he walked past me so many times...
i dont know what changed!
before his trip he showed a lot of interest in me...i dont know what happened...whenever i tell him hi he replies but rudely as if he is obligated..!
its 6months now n i'm breaking down!
2007-03-24 01:56:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been ignorin him lately coz i see him with another gurl often....it hurts!
2007-03-24 02:02:13 · update #1
oh and by the way sometimes he does gives signs of love
2007-03-24 02:05:05 · update #2
It's hard to say but I think he found someone else. Ive been on both sides of that situation so I'm pretty sure that's the cause. I mean think about it. what is it that could of made him change? If he acted the same way he did when he came back then you wouldn't put no thought to it. Ive been in love a few times with girls I wanted to be with forever, and some of them did the same thing you speak of now. And do you know why? that's right, because they had found someone else but didn't want to tell me. Kind of selfish huh? It was hard to accept reality but i moved on and now i couldn't possibly be happier.
As for advice, Don't even waste your time with someone who treats you like that. There are way more guys out there who im sure would love to show you a nice time. now i know you love him, but look at how he's treating you. I mean, is he really worth it? As for closure of what's wrong with him.... ask him. Like i said there are plenty of other guys out there. Everyone is meant to be with someone. hope this helps and good luck.
2007-03-24 02:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by RocketProof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that he found sumone else.. and doesn't want to give you any kind of signs telling you that he likes you so he rather not take that chance and not say anything to you so you wouldn't get hurt walk away ... at least for a couple of weeks as time goes by he'll miss it and realize he has just lost a friendship not worth losing.. and he'll come back eventually even after the break up or move on from he's love interest.. but for now i suggest you dont talk to him or even look at him untill he talks to you he'll come back i just kno it it happens all the time
2007-03-24 02:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look really hot, get a load of other guys interested in you and just ignore him but make him see that your really happy. He'll get jealous boys want what they cant have, and even if he doesn't you wont care any more bcoz you'll have all these other boys that are interested in you. Basically if this guy is so rude you just shouldn't give him the time of day all women deserve to be treated right.
2007-03-24 02:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this guy? He sounds young!
Don't waste your time on this guy. If he can not be polite enough to say hello to you in a nice manner, leave him alone.
Is there a possibility he has found someone he likes and don't know how to tell you so by being rude to you, you will get turned off from him and move on?
AG
2007-03-24 02:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Angela G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably lost interest. And yes, love does suck, you should go find another person to be the object of your affection, he obviously doesn't deserve it. And the minute you start seeing other guys, that'll be when he wants to talk to you, I bet. Is he a young man? We do stupid things regarding relationships when we're young, and I can't explain why either. He is definitely acting like an adolescent teenager, unless he is one, in which case you probably need to focus on men that are more mature.
2007-03-24 02:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how close were you two? Was it 99% mental exercise and hope on your part, or did you two really relate as friends? I don't mean to be cruel, but why are you attaching so much to this one guy? Your internal life vis a vis this guy really isn't his problem or concern. Move on... he apparently has.
Don't let the puzzle of 'why?' keep you tied to the past.
2007-03-24 02:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Winston Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem at all. You jus express your love to him and try to know what the heck has changed him in the trip. He might be not aware of your love. if there is any misunderstanding between you try to clear it out. You jus try to be in contact with that guy...........
Guys aren't like gals. You can easily change his mind favouring you... It won't be tough.. Best of luck!!
2007-03-24 02:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by prasath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i think its time to forget him and move on . you will find someone who will love you has much has you love him. dont watse your time on someone who does not have the time of day for you. its a no win thing with him. if you continue to think of him you will only set yourself up for more heartache . best wishes , beth
2007-03-24 02:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got him some strange while on vac and now you bore him. He does not like you anymore and he thinks it's funny and pathetic that you're throwing yourself at him.
2007-03-24 02:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by mksjmyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, love sucks, but just forget about him....If he's so rude that he can't even say hi he's probably an ***%ole anyway....
2007-03-24 02:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋