Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

We dated for 9 months. She did like me but I was kind of a jerk, I didn't see her enough and broke the plans we had. The breakup came out of the blue. I am not devastated but would like to continue seeing her. Does she want to get back together or does she want to tell me why we were wrong for each other? Should I meet her to talk tonight?

2007-03-22 04:31:39 · 29 answers · asked by mossman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 04:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 04:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girl friend says i am the only guy she knows who laughs during sex.

2007-03-22 04:30:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine was..... when i worked in a bar,... i was stocking the shelfs and i bent down picked a bottle of vodka up.. when i got back up everyone was staring at me .... me shirt had come undone ..what was left showing my boobs... and bra which had (play with me ) on them .... lol...

2007-03-22 04:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by honey 2 in Singles & Dating

We are getting merried next july and she told me this past weekend that she would like Boris (Her DOG!!!) to be my best man?????? I was pretty wierded out and now i am more so.
I have told her i want it to be my brother, but we havent seen him much in the past few months and Boris sleeps with us everynight.
Does this seem crazy to anyone else????
Any Adice????

2007-03-22 04:30:10 · 25 answers · asked by Fer t 3 in Weddings

Instead of women always taking their husband's last name or having the hypenated thing?

2007-03-22 04:29:20 · 16 answers · asked by trer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so at the beginning my boyfriend and I were inseparable.. He always held me close and wanted to include me in everything he did. We have lived together for a year and a bit and I am starting to feel like he has lost the love for me. He wants to go out without me... not a lot but just in general. He isn't as affectionate as he was at the beginning.... but I still feel like I want to spend as much time with him as possible... am I too clingy.. should I give him his space? Is it normal for a relationship to go this way. I am still happy with him, I just want to know if he is too... when I ask him he tells me that he is VERY happy with me, but we need to do our own things as well... is this normal?

2007-03-22 04:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Scared 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 04:28:57 · 12 answers · asked by ghftuyuhbkj 1 in Friends

2007-03-22 04:28:11 · 25 answers · asked by marilyn e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been working at my job for about 5 yrs and i have a co-worker that just started. ok well for some reason i am drawn to her like i love talking to her and there the occasional flirt between the both of us. i have a feeling she feels the same way about me but the twisted part is we are both in relationships. She has a boyfriend and they been going out for like 3 yrs and i have a girlfriend that i ve been with for about 2 yrs. Any suggestions on what i should do or what things to do to stop those feelings to get any stronger.

2007-03-22 04:28:03 · 6 answers · asked by Danny Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that people put their business out here for all of the world to see and expect everyone to agree with them?

If you are going to ask for input you have to realize that some people aren't going to tell you what you want to hear.

Sometimes the truth is the best medicine and medicine doesn't always go down easy.

As far as the ladies who get upset with my answers, go ahead and get even with me by being harsh in response to my questions. I love a little fire in my b tches. They are more fun that way.

2007-03-22 04:26:32 · 20 answers · asked by you know who 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really dont do relationship but this girl is different from the other but i dont kno what to with her all the time she want to be under me 24/7 and i dont like that

2007-03-22 04:25:56 · 5 answers · asked by SunShine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

IF you were in a loving relationship with a man who would do anything for you and is always there sexually to meet you needs and be romantic ( flowers, candles in the bedroom , love notes ) . I am a man and have been told that I am good looking ( I think I am average I am 43 years old) I do all of the things I mentioned for my girlfriend of a year and a half . I do them because I love her more than anything on this earth and she appreciates it and says that she loves me the same way my problem is that I am worried that someone would come along and take her away away from me .she has not done anything like that to me before and she said that she never would because I fill all her needs . We talked of my insecurity several times before and she understands because she has insecurities 2 .l she says I treat her like her dad treated her mom and she loved her dad dearly . I have an engagement ring I have not given to her yet until I can work this out in my head . want this to work

2007-03-22 04:25:52 · 29 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been living together for two yrs. now And I've been totally honest and truthful on this whole marriage deal from the first time we hooked up. I do not want to get married. Maybe someday but I can't say. And I'm not one to lead her on by saying "Someday". It causes a break down between us everytime it is talk about, Or I can read her like a book when it's on her mind. I know it is a valid dream for her to hear those wedding bells. But I'm not the one right now. Thing have gotten so bad that it cause us to fight about nothing. And I've tried to let her go. But she won;t allow it. Now don't get me wrong I love her so much. And would be crushed if she left, but I know her dreams are important so I'm willing to cut her loose. What to do? My mind is boggled.

2007-03-22 04:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by Brown Sug. 2 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this girl, and i found out she liked me. We talked a lot and felt like really good friends. We started to go out, and she told me that she hopes i dont change, now that we r going out. But when we got to school it was wierd cause there were people that didnt want to see us together, We hang out with 2 different crowds..mostly her friends dont like me.

Im also naturally a shy person, until i get use to being around a person...she was my first gf in high school.. and i didnt know how to act around her at first. we went our first week without kissing and i didnt know that i was going to slow for her, by the time i realized it ... she ended up breaking up with me cause we were better off friends i guess. we only went out for like 11 days.. now that i know how she wants to be treated.. do you think she would want to go out with me again? and is there any advice some1 can give me?

2007-03-22 04:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

Last yr we had a heatwave I buy a huge A/C & had no 1 to install it. Sears was too expensive. I ask 1 of my neighbors to install it & offer to pay him, he agrees. I go to leave a note in his door, the note only said I'd pay him for installing my A/C & to ring my bell when he returns home. A young lady is coming out the apt. She stops & asks can she help me - "I'm his wife" - she had an attitude - wasn't friendly - she read the note, I told her what it was for, she seems mad, took the note & said she'll tell him. This is a guy who offered to help me with anything in my apt if I ever need help. That's why I ask him. Ever since then when I run into this lady she has attitude at me & always looks mad. 1 day she's coming out the elevator, I'm going in, she lets the door go. I saw her today & she looks mad at me. I thought I should say something to her to break the tension & assure her I meant nothing I just needed help that day & he offered to help me. Should I? Or leave it alone?

2007-03-22 04:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and to this day nobody knows? I am just curious how many have had a one night stand while on vacation, biz trip or other.

I will be honest, I had one 10 years ago and it made me love my wife even more. I realized then that one night stands does not hold a candle to a loving wife. I never did it again and I never told ANYONE. One of those things in life that I will take to my grave.

So let's hear it everybody and please be honest.

2007-03-22 04:22:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I having problem with my ex.
we have been seprate for a 1yr and we first made a deal that our son would be going to see his dad every second week and he has to stay at his grandmother house plus no gf to be around my son.Things have change which my son would spend three days with his dad drop down to a overnight . Due to My ex works 4 days and get three days off he wantes a day to himself. But now I am getting muck around due to his mother can't handle having her grandson at her house every second weekend. So it change once a month.Now I get abuse due to the week that my ex want to see his son happen to be call off due to I allow my son to got to a birthday party which is a sleep over.Plus early this year my son go to preschool he goes on tuesday which my ex try to get me to change it so that he can get his son. I told him No . I have made other plans for my son which happen to fall on the day that his father comes and pick him up .He think I doing it so that he can't see his kid

2007-03-22 04:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by MOONBEAM7699 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance isn't getting along with one of my bridesmaids and she had borrowed something from him and he wants it back. Well he's tried to have her get it for him and she won't well he said that if she doesn't give it to him by a certain day then she's out of the wedding and she's one ogf my friends. What can I do?

2007-03-22 04:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by bride 2 be in 07 1 in Weddings

we are in love with each other,but my partner is temparimental and me too.we are finding it very difficult to accept our fault each time we are angry.pls help.!!!

2007-03-22 04:22:16 · 5 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 04:22:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I let them know about each other? Is it being deceitful? I didn't go looking for this. It just sorta happened and each one is great in his own way. I know a lot of men who have more than one, so as a woman why can't I enjoy the same priviledges?

2007-03-22 04:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did. My step-dad treated me terrible. After I moved out, he changed the locks on the door. He did things to my mother I didn't approve of, so I told him how I felt, and all he did was cuss me out. My mother is afraid to stand up to him, and lets him walk all over her, and my siblings. He even have his own bedroom. my siblings sleep on couches and the floor. I can't wait the day when he gets payback for all of this. Anyone have a story?

2007-03-22 04:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by ~Nellie Nell~ 2 in Family

I know someone who's parents always seem to offer the "you can come home anytime" thing. Problem is their children are in their 30's, married, and have their own lives. Everytime something happens where it's rough awhile, they always say the option is to come and live at home for awhile. They always suggest things that don't help the situation...ie: Can't find a job, can't afford to go to school - yet they're saying go back to school?! Comparing this with families who don't ever do this - their kids are normal and don't have the problems the coddlers have. Don't parents see that it is detrimental to their adult children when they keep giving them a fall back? There will be a day when they're not there anymore, isn't better to prepare them for that? Do you find the majority today are coddlers to their adult children? My parents aren't coddlers, however, I know if I need their advice and ask them, they'll tell me what they think - but only if I ask them.

2007-03-22 04:20:20 · 3 answers · asked by daff73 5 in Family

I have been with my bf for 2.5months(i am21,hes24)I am his first GF in 2YRS.I could tell he REALLY liked me in the beginning.he took me to meet his parents and friends and invited me EVERWHERE.About a month ago,he started acting really distant and i started to not see him as much(like 1 time a week).Last weekend,he really opened up to me and told me how his ex cheated on him and how he wants to get his life together,then he goes out drinking all the time.I had a talk withhim on Monday about how I feel like he doesnt care about me now,and how i would like to see him more.he was understanding at first,but then said he wanted space,that hes scared and thinks we are moving too fast!also said that he does really care about me and he isnt going anywhere.He told me he would think about this and call me back.i havent talked to him since,and havent tried calling.I want to give him time to think about this,BUT how much more time should I give him?and why is he acting like this?

2007-03-22 04:20:09 · 12 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 04:19:50 · 21 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my boyfirned an i were sitting in his car this morning and he was looking at his phone awfully hard and at first i couldnt figure out why!!! but when i looked over he had a picture of another gurl on his phone and was looking at it!! When i conforonted him about he got upset and told me taht a friend of his sent to his phone and told me he didnt understand why i was getting upset and told me to get out of his car!!! Did i have a right to get upset or am i over reacting? I need to get cheered up y'all guys cheer me up!!!!

2007-03-22 04:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 04:19:04 · 6 answers · asked by michelle a 2 in Friends

Ok well we were doing pretty well she lies a whole bunch and she messes up my hair when I tell her not to (she says I can mess up your hair if I want to she's not joking) she didn't want to take me to the mall only my sister and another friend and she told my sister that and lied about it to me and said she was happy I could come. then I must of accidently sent her something offensive and her parents saw it and sent to ALL my contacts I sent it to that she didn't ask for this "content" and she was no party to it! then she talked to my sister and my sister said well she didn't do it on purpose and she (ashley the friend) said well how could she not have. (then she told my sister I deserved it) should I stay friends with her or drop her?

2007-03-22 04:19:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends