My fiance isn't getting along with one of my bridesmaids and she had borrowed something from him and he wants it back. Well he's tried to have her get it for him and she won't well he said that if she doesn't give it to him by a certain day then she's out of the wedding and she's one ogf my friends. What can I do?
2007-03-22 04:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by bride 2 be in 07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First, I would talk to her, tell her that it's almost your big day and if she doesn't grow up everything will be ruined. If that doesn't work, tell both of them in the same room that they're both overreacting and that you're getting married soon so that everyone should get along well, and that they should start acting serious and not like children. But don't tell her that if she doesn't give it back, she's out of the wedding, because that will just get her angrier. You somehow need to be able to keep them together in good spirits, because during your wedding if she's not there you'll regret it. But make sure to be nice with your fiance, otherwise he'll start thinking differently about the wedding.
Hopefully whatever she took wasn't too important...
Good luck
Kristine
2007-03-22 04:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both to grow up! She borrowed it give it back to him! Stop being a B*t@^ and him an a**. Tell her yes she is your friend but she should respect your fiance too and tell her what he said. Stand by your man! What she borrowed is it really that important to fight over it before the wedding anyway?
2007-03-22 04:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by kashallgonna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your fiance. Tell him you will talk to the bridesmaid and get the item back. Tell him to butt out. This is your friend and you want her in the wedding. Sounds like he's being a bully, or worse, a Groomzilla. He needs to relax, his starting trouble over this and kicking people out of the wedding sounds childish.
2007-03-22 04:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick by your man. Stealing is not acceptable and your friend is being a pain in the neck.
Either offer to replace the item on you own to keep the peace or give your sticky fingers BM an ultimatum.
Good luck
2007-03-22 04:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be a woman and give back what belongs to him. i understand thats your friend and all, but thats his wedding too. try to get it back yourself. if that dont work then tell your girl she aint in the wedding. if the roles were reversed, you'd want it the same way.
2007-03-22 04:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Beauty & Brains 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get if from her, why is she keeping something and not giving it back? That isn't a friend to me.
2007-03-22 07:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the item belongs to him then can't you talk to her and get it back?? That would be stealing if she doesn't. Your her friend so maybe you need to sit down and talk with her.
2007-03-22 04:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get what ever it is, and give it to your fiance. tell her to start acting like a real friend.
2007-03-22 04:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking her for it. This man is going to be your husband, you have to show your friend that you have his back.
2007-03-22 04:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick by your fiance--she is no friend to you, she is deliberately causing you trouble in your life, drop her. i'd say she is trying to sabotage your happiness.
2007-03-22 04:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋