Ok well we were doing pretty well she lies a whole bunch and she messes up my hair when I tell her not to (she says I can mess up your hair if I want to she's not joking) she didn't want to take me to the mall only my sister and another friend and she told my sister that and lied about it to me and said she was happy I could come. then I must of accidently sent her something offensive and her parents saw it and sent to ALL my contacts I sent it to that she didn't ask for this "content" and she was no party to it! then she talked to my sister and my sister said well she didn't do it on purpose and she (ashley the friend) said well how could she not have. (then she told my sister I deserved it) should I stay friends with her or drop her?
2007-03-22 04:19:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oops sorry! im a girl!
2007-03-22 04:29:08 · update #1
Hmmm, what is your definition of "friends?" Does friendship include disrespecting a person's desires? Does it include lying, intentionally hurting the other? I would ask myself what it means to be friends with someone, and after I answered myself, I would then ask if that is something I had with this girl. I think you'd come up with your own answer before too long.
2007-03-22 04:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by TAMAJ13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state if you are male or female, but that is a moot point. Sounds like you are in a pickle and I say just let the friendship die down...sounds like your headstone is already in the engraving process anyhow.
There are tons of people you must know to form friendships with anyhow, so look for some who don't have sneaky personalities and who do NOT lie.
Enjoy your life, friends, love and the rain, because without the rain you can not enjoy the sunshine.
2007-03-22 11:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by nancy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her...girls are hard to be friends with...believe me. Drama is not in on the friendship application. Wait for people that will be there for you and not lie. Lying leads to worse things.
2007-03-22 11:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by ktbell42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With someone like that, cut them loose. Who needs that aggravation and frustration? When they start lying, that brings on new issues.
2007-03-22 12:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all too confusing... maybe im not awake yet....
2007-03-22 11:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that you need to get over all of this.
you are like what................. 11?
2007-03-22 11:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋