and to this day nobody knows? I am just curious how many have had a one night stand while on vacation, biz trip or other.
I will be honest, I had one 10 years ago and it made me love my wife even more. I realized then that one night stands does not hold a candle to a loving wife. I never did it again and I never told ANYONE. One of those things in life that I will take to my grave.
So let's hear it everybody and please be honest.
2007-03-22 04:22:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did and i felt like CRAP!!!
imagine having to take that dirty secret to your grave - not being able to share it with your life partner.
def was not worth it!!!
2007-03-22 04:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by zeke58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been with the same guy 10 yrs, married 4 of those.
I've never cheated on him, however I will admit the thought has been there. But it's like you said, I know for a fact in my heart that I love this man, and he loves me. We've been through it all together, and I know that no matter what NO other guy in the world would be able to meet the expectations of this man I have now. Not even close.
So when I'm out with friends and he's at home with our kids (like always) I'll look at a guy and I'll have the physical attraction to him, and we may flirt, but just as it might go further, I think about him and once again my heart will melt knowing that we have it all, and that's the end of the night.
I couldn't ask for any thing more then what I have now!!
It's not worth loosing your family over. A bad screw or even a good one, a one night stand can't give you everything you already have with your family now.
2007-03-22 04:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only once, at the vary end when I wanted out of my nineteen year marriage.
to me it was more like getting even and I new it was the end.
would I do that again in a relationship or in a marriage , no I'd just would end that relationship first.
I wouldn't be ending it just for a onenight stan,but because I'm not happy with the relationship I'm In.
2007-03-22 04:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had 2 one night stands. well..actually one. one of them called back for another round and THEN never called back. as far as not ever telling anyone about it...i can't keep a secret. i have a big mouth. and this was before i got married to my husband. but i did have an affair while i was in relationship of 8 years. i was never found out by my then b/f. he still doesn't know. i've told everyone but him. like i said, i have a big mouth. no regrets. i enjoyed every last minute of it!
2007-03-22 04:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing is on of the toughest addictions to beat if he has a concern with playing as his spouse you will desire to get him some help and get counseling for him because of the fact he won't be waiting to do it on my own. in case you like him you will see him by this addiction. might prefer to ask him to take you out so as that his time is spent with you and not on the on line casino. good action picture to video show (even money) that is acceptable on your subject too
2016-10-01 08:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did when I was married to my ex. But I only did it because I had found out he cheated on me and I wanted to get even.
I didn't feel guilty or anything afterwards it just made me realize that I didn't love him anymore.
That's why we are now divorced only I put the blame on his affair because he never found out about my one nighter LOL
2007-03-22 04:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point is being missed by most of the answers.. he didnt say he did or didnt or even wanted to.. he just asked a question. he might know someone.. i have done that, I have asked questions that really didnt pertain to me. to answer the question no i havent and i hope you get some more insightfull answers.
2007-03-22 06:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by needingitnow342000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope I never have and I never will.I love my husband with all my heart and he is the only one for me.I took my vows very seriously..I respect myself and my husband way too much to ever belittle either one of us in that way I would never shame my marriage for something so immoral...Shame on you for doing it to your wife that you claim to love...You obviously have no conscious or values and that is just sad....I will pray for your soul..
2007-03-22 04:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh, oh!!!
i did, i did!!!
i've been married 11 years, and had a 1 nighter with a colleague in another state. it was great to get away from the norm and live on the edge. it's not something i would do all of the time...
people can judge all they want, but until they walk in my shoes, they cannot talk =)
2007-03-22 04:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, I think you just let the cat out of the bag...sure hope the little woman at home doesn't check out the q/a her on yahoo. If she does, boy are you in trouble.
2007-03-22 04:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋