I was friends with this girl, and i found out she liked me. We talked a lot and felt like really good friends. We started to go out, and she told me that she hopes i dont change, now that we r going out. But when we got to school it was wierd cause there were people that didnt want to see us together, We hang out with 2 different crowds..mostly her friends dont like me.
Im also naturally a shy person, until i get use to being around a person...she was my first gf in high school.. and i didnt know how to act around her at first. we went our first week without kissing and i didnt know that i was going to slow for her, by the time i realized it ... she ended up breaking up with me cause we were better off friends i guess. we only went out for like 11 days.. now that i know how she wants to be treated.. do you think she would want to go out with me again? and is there any advice some1 can give me?
2007-03-22 04:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always go at your own pace. But be willing to accept a little shove once in a while. Did she ever give you any hint at what she wanted? She can not expect the guy to know what's going on at all times. She knew you were shy before. Just bite the bullet and talk to her about it. If she really likes you she'll give you another chance. If not, there are plenty of other girls who actually understand a shy person.
Good luck and don't be anyone but yourself.
2007-03-22 04:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by big_dee1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds EXACTLY like what happened to me when I had my first bf.
Best thing to do is move on. At this age, we're all too young to have meaningful relationships. Wait until you're older, and when you feel ready, to have a relationship.
Concentrate on school work and having fun with friends in the meantime. Someone else will come along in the future when you least expect it.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 11:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea that might work, and could be fun finding out: dress a little differently than usual, comb your hair differently, and approach her saying, "I'm SDMC's rowdy twin . . . you should go out with me a couple times!" Put your arm over her shoulder, or around her waist and lean toward her, saying something else, like, "how soon can we hook up, cutie?" Then make a game of it, as if you're someone else, talk to her in a different way, give her the 'spice' she might respond to.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 11:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to forget about her, stay friends but dude high school goes so fast and you probably won't see hardly anybody from school. Keep your head in the books to get into college, thats where the girls are, and when your in college keep your head in the books because that goes quick and if you have a good job and your stable you'll get a good woman. Life goes by quicker every year believe me.
2007-03-22 11:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she actually tell you that she broke up with you because you were going too slow?
if she did, she doesnt sound like a very nice girl to be with in the first place. You need a girlfriend who understands you, and who is a little more mature than she is.
my advice - dont do anything. move on.
2007-03-22 11:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by raspberryswirrrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it day by day good luck give her time to see wht she want in life . Good luck to you if she don't realize wht she has than is her loss . So don't feel bad just do wht you have to do they are plenty fish in the sea. If she not the one you see in the long run. Good luck to every thing you do in life . Yes love hurts but in life we have to accept on be strong and leave it in the lords hand . Have abless one
2007-03-22 11:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by boricuasexy1210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is move on... You will have many relationships and you will learn from each one until you perfect it with the woman you are going to marry
2007-03-22 11:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Mek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds exactly like my problem with my bf in 7th grade we went to different school and I still like him . .. figure out what you did wrong and ask her out again Im sure she would apprieciate it!Good luck . ..
2007-03-22 11:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your schoolwork, the stufff you learn in 4th grade now will affect you through your whole school carear.
2007-03-22 11:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she isn't worth it. find a girl who is at the same level as you. you seem to be influenced by what this girl wants to do other than following your heart.
2007-03-22 11:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋