I have been working at my job for about 5 yrs and i have a co-worker that just started. ok well for some reason i am drawn to her like i love talking to her and there the occasional flirt between the both of us. i have a feeling she feels the same way about me but the twisted part is we are both in relationships. She has a boyfriend and they been going out for like 3 yrs and i have a girlfriend that i ve been with for about 2 yrs. Any suggestions on what i should do or what things to do to stop those feelings to get any stronger.
2007-03-22 04:28:03 · 6 answers · asked by Danny Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the grass isnt always greener on the other side..but if you feel the need to cheat then leave your girlfriend alone..and be with this chick..as a man you should know that women are scandlos..and if she is willing to flirt with you while she has a man and you flirt with her as you have a girl then the both of you deserve each other.
2007-03-22 04:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? My suggestion is regardless is to grow-up. There will ALWAYS be somebody else you feel chemisty with. If you allow, you could cheat and cheat and cheat every time one of these ladies comes around.
If you guys are unhappy in your current relationships, then break up and then pursue something. If not, and you love your girlfriend...like I said grow up and cut the contact with the co-worker. Without the contact the feeling will subside.
2007-03-22 04:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jena P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're fidgeting with fire! in case you opt to stay fortunately married then you certainly do not might desire to pursue an in depth friendship which includes your co worker. pals come and bypass.you could not turn off thoughts we are actually not mild switches. there is not any button to press. the actuality you have thoughts for her capacity you have entangled in an emotional point with this woman, and that's seen cheating, harm the friendship formerly it wrecks your marriage. can not have cake and devour it 2. ~Angel~
2016-11-27 22:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by newcomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any respect for your gf, you will stop flirting with your co-worker, or you could say f#*k the gf and make your move on your co-worker....I only know the respect I have for my partner would always be first.
2007-03-22 04:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation and all that came out of it was heartbreak ,iwould try to get switched to a different department,or try to avoid the whole thing if you can .
2007-03-22 05:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by fly2butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just find out how she feels about you and take from there.
2007-03-22 06:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋