Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

My girlfriend and I have had some problems lately. We've been together a year now, and the last month or two we have been arguing almost every day. We have talked about getting married before this started, and we still do, but I am not happy right now, actually, miserable.
Our fights are usually about how I stay up when she goes to sleep, and she doesn't get to sleep next to me, about a lack of me paying attention to her, and sometimes when I drink at night (<---understandable). The thing that makes it so bad is she doesn't say a word when she is mad, but i know she is, and it makes me just as mad at her that she won't talk to me about it. We took a short break about a week ago, but everything seemed even better when got back, but it's going downhill again. I love her, and I want to be with her the rest of my life, but not if it makes me this depressed and miserable all the time. Also, on a sidenote, we just moved in with another female who is her friend, threes a crowd huh

2007-03-22 06:30:30 · 15 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a way to semi-accurately estimate what her height and weight will be at that age?

I'm just getting ready now,and trying to pay for a little at a time.

She is going to make a GREAT wife to some lucky guy. I just hope he is a hard worker and doesn't make the broad work outside the home.

Amen

2007-03-22 06:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by Kermit renversant de corporation 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now. Him and I are going through a tough time. Personally I think he can be too blunt, too critical.. while he thinks that I am too reserved/not outgoing enough. Initially he said that this is what he liked about me.. that I am a good listener which I am. I don't plan on changing who I am, but i do want thsi relationshipp to work because I care about him.

2007-03-22 06:30:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 06:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by julimr1214 1 in Weddings

2007-03-22 06:28:27 · 17 answers · asked by Allan H 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for 5 years on and off but we love each other and 2 yrs ago I got married and had a son with another man( we got married cuz we got pregnant). But I dont feel the same way about him as I do my ex. And now my ex and me are wanting to be friends but my husband doesnt like him at all and he knows that I will always have some kind of feeling for my ex. I dont love my husband the way I should and I tried getting out of it before but that didnt happen thanks to his grandmother and me working together. Anyways my ex and me can understand each other more than my husband and I can each other. I want to be happy and I've thought about what it would be like to have another man raise my child. so what would you do?

2007-03-22 06:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 06:27:19 · 19 answers · asked by eadavis2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We cuddle, we kiss, we hold hands, we sleep next to each other,we cuddle in bed, we have sex,we text,we call,we talk,we smile,we buy each other things,we talk about each other,we spend all weekend together,we sit next to each other always, they call me 'his bird'.But hes never asked me out.Do i assume were together now? I will he actually ask?. Ive only known him 4 months.

2007-03-22 06:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is going to be moving in June to Arizona and I am completely sad about that. But, I realize that I am going to have to move on. Anyways, to get to the point, my boyfriends mom is already planning his next girlfriend witha girl that my boyfriend has never met and the mom only met once. I always thought that she liked me because she told my boyfriend that if he cares about me then so does she. But now that they found out that they are moving, all of a sudden she has a new girlfriend planned out and she thinks that he is to good for me. I confronted my boyfriend of 1 year about this and he said that he dosent care what anyone thinks about me. And if any of you are going to say why am I still with him even though he is moving. Its because he is going to be of legal age soona dn is moving back up here to live with a friend 5 months after he moves so we are going to be together again....Please help me!?

2007-03-22 06:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Singles & Dating

At my High school, theirs a freshman kid thats keeps aggravating me. Im twice his size and alot stronger than he is. He's real skinny and short and isnt high on the popularity chain. I have many powerful friends and hang out with many. Its just strange that he or anyone would try to annoy me like this. EX: I'll be sittn their on my cell phone, and He will come outta nowhere and start laughing real loud right next to me. I tried tellin him to back off but he considers it joke. Many just tell me to beat em up. but I just aint a violent person and demand peace without anyone getting hurt

2007-03-22 06:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Blax 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've gone through this once, he said he was sorry. Year later he did it again...he said he was sorry...
Does it ever end...?
NOTE: He is intoxicated when he does this...with people around...why?

2007-03-22 06:25:50 · 17 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 06:25:40 · 1 answers · asked by nono 1 in Friends

I wrote a guy that I had been seeing before for a year (casually) a note about going to Colorado this year because he wanted to go hunting. He was planning on it, telling me to look up the info, and I wrote him this email: Hey just called ya the other day to say hi, and to let you know more about Colorado if need be. But the reason was, my sister and her husband were in town last weekend for my 26th birthday and he knows certain areas for hunting in Colorado. So the info was fresh in my mind. How's everything going there? I hope the weather is nice, it's getting prettier now that spring is here. But getting back to Colorado, we'd probably be going out there anytime this fall, I don't know if you thought of my parents going or not, or it can just be me, or what you have planned, but the schedules are flexible. Keep in touch.
This is what he wrote back (& the last time I talked to him, he was taking a break from his gf):

2007-03-22 06:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by c h i l l 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!

2007-03-22 06:24:30 · 21 answers · asked by Chyna Doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to tell my husband that I am still thinking about my ex. I do not wish to hide anything from him. I hate the thought of not being able to be truthful. I had betrayed his trust once, I hope to start afresh and not hide anything from him anymore. I hope to tell him that I still need some time to get over that guy, but I am worried that I might hurt him. We had given much thoughts on the decision to get married. We both knows that I had not really gotten over my ex at the point of our marriage. We were married for less than 6 mths and now, this ex of mine is staying so so near to us, giving me so much unhappiness! I know my husband loves me a lot, and honestly, I love him too. I thought I should tell him what is in my mind and work things out together but I am too afraid to hurt him. What should I do?

2007-03-22 06:24:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this boy has just asked me out 2 days ago and the 1st day (yesterday) we didnt do anything except 4 hug when i we had to go class and 2day we hugged when we left again and held hands but we havent really talked propaly all i no about him is that i am a month and 10 days older than him he broke his thumb yesterday playing rugby and honestly he is quite boring i want to kiss him and stuff because he is my first boyfriend but i am quite shy so can u give me advise he is MORE experienced than me so can u give me advice on what to start the conversations like i txt him about half hour ago and asked what he is doing on saturday but he aint txt me back so plz help me

2007-03-22 06:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex lover and i broke up because they cheated.We were the best of friends and even though we went threw the whole (I CANT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT TO ME THING). We still are best friends.well about 2 days ago I got an email from a friend saying that my ex was seen with the person they cheated on with me at the movies.When confronted they admitted to it and said they have been hanging out on the regular but nothing sexual has happened. My x promised me that they would never associate with this person again but after me moving away to college they reformed.I really believe they're sorry but i dont no .what the hell should i do im not even mad about the **** but i know i need to take action

2007-03-22 06:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by killer boy 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't have a job. He doesn't have a place to live. His house is 5 hours away and he is in the process of moving up here, but its been about 3 - 4 months that he has been without a job and living out of his car. He gives me no space at all or any alone time. I understand he is alone all day while I work, and he wants to spend time when I get off, but I need time to myself also. We haven't had sex in a while, and thats my fault cause I never feel like it. He yells at me all the time about that. But in addition to all of this we fight constantly, we can't communicate, and nothing seems to be getting any better. He wants me to get pregnant right now, and he doesn't understand that I won't get pregnant until he has a steady job, income, and a place to live, which seems reasonable to me. And what really is setting me off now is that he forgot to pick up my son from pre-school last night because he fell asleep (which isn't a valid excuse.) What am I suppose to do... stay, wait, leave?

2007-03-22 06:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am doin an exchange with school and the student who stayed at my house told my friend he liked me but i dont like him! I have to live with him for a week! my friend told him i didn't like him in that way but I don't know what to say to him! Plus he is SPANISH and i'm ENGLISH!Help please!?!?

2007-03-22 06:22:04 · 16 answers · asked by ENGLAND! 1 in Singles & Dating

Whose name(s) [bride or groom] and who's address do we put on the invitations? I know it's normally the brides parents, but we are mainly doing this ourselves. Currently, we both have our own homes, but mostly living out of mine. Suggestions?

2007-03-22 06:21:50 · 19 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

Why do some women think that if your a woman without a child, that you are somehow worthless. I am a 29 year old woman with no children, and at work i always seem to get the short end of the stick.

2007-03-22 06:21:37 · 24 answers · asked by mia w 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have never had a boyfriend or been on a date because I homeschooled through highschool, am i a looser? be honest. do you have any advice for me??

2007-03-22 06:20:09 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help! plzzzzzzzz! im sick of bein grounded all the time! wat should i do

2007-03-22 06:19:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I told her I liked her several times that I liked her, and she never said anything other than hoping it would not affect our friendship. I then confronted her for flirting and seemingly interested behavior. She explained it all away as nothing. Now, she continues to flirt and try to be good friends, so I have backed off. Last night she called to ask if I was mad because I do not carry conversations with her anymore. I said no. What is her problem? We used to be friends of many years.

2007-03-22 06:19:18 · 16 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Friends

I am so tired of being called a liar! My husband has crazy ideas all the time. He is always accusing me of cheating and lying. I have never done anything to him! I have never lied to him-I have never cheated on him. He always says that I play word games-semantics-Like when I say I have not done anything wrong-he will say "what is your definition of wrong?" Also, my dad had an affair with another woman when I was young and he wound up with a child-My husband assumes that I think it is ok to cheat because my dad did it and I love my dad? I am so tired of everything-I have kicked my husband out of our house so many times because of drugs or alcohol-we have small children-I keep telling him that if I was seeing someone else-I would never have let him come back. I have nothing to gain(money) from having him here. It is just so hard not to make him act like that-if I miss his call-not home before he is-if I pause while on the phone with him?-he starts acting suspicious!!! Help!!!!!

2007-03-22 06:19:06 · 22 answers · asked by orangecat43 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For those who ran into their high school crush or searched them up (Myspace, Friendster), do they look different now than they do then? Do they look better now or then? Did any feelings return?

Share your stories!

2007-03-22 06:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by Beer Farts 5 in Singles & Dating

The dresses are bright green, its actually called "clover" I'm having a hard time finding the perfect shoes! Would bright pink or fushia be bad?

2007-03-22 06:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa G 1 in Weddings

my church yough group has tickets to go to a newsboys/kutless consert. the leader asked who wanted to go. i said i did so i have a ticket. but then i found out that none of my friends wore going excpt my brother and his best friend, who is my best friend too. but i also found out that his mom was going, and she's hated me from the beggining. and she thinks i'm going to kill her son. and we each have to pay the food, and the leaders taking us to a really fancy restrunt. i would reather go to mcdonalds. but all of that and i cancled. but now i found out that his mom isnt going. my mom said i could call the leaders wife and talk to her. but i dont feel comfertable, and i dont know if i really wan to go. the girls and boys will be split up most the time. should i call and go, or not?

2007-03-22 06:18:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in a relationship, and i've been with him for 3 months. It's going good. but recently, my ex boyfriend came back in the picture. I'm not gonna lie, ii still love him, but ii know we can't be together, because our relationship wasn't so great. but ii just don't know what to do. ii love my new boyfriend, but at the same time ii still love my ex. ii swear ii don't know what to do.

2007-03-22 06:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by b2k4life456 1 in Singles & Dating

Got this new girl that likes me and she wants to have sex. How do I break her in to the fact I'm a freak?

I don't want anything up my butt or anything weird like that, but it has something to do with a girls mouth and tongue and stuff...

She seems like a good girl. I'm afraid she may be shocked...ha ha

2007-03-22 06:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by White Boy 1 in Singles & Dating