my ex lover and i broke up because they cheated.We were the best of friends and even though we went threw the whole (I CANT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT TO ME THING). We still are best friends.well about 2 days ago I got an email from a friend saying that my ex was seen with the person they cheated on with me at the movies.When confronted they admitted to it and said they have been hanging out on the regular but nothing sexual has happened. My x promised me that they would never associate with this person again but after me moving away to college they reformed.I really believe they're sorry but i dont no .what the hell should i do im not even mad about the **** but i know i need to take action
2007-03-22 06:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by killer boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
K.B. WHATS UP FOOL? You are on the verge of the most exciting time of your life. Going away to College and leaving all the BS BEHIND. YOU'RE MOVING UP TO THE NEXT LEVEL SON AND AT THE NEXT LEVEL YOU BECOME MORE SOPHISTICATED AND INTELLIGENT AND YOUR SELECTION AND VARIETY OF LADIES IS BEYOND COMPARE...YOU ARE STILL IN YOUR ENVIRONMENTAL MENTALITY. THE WORLD IS YOUR PEARL. GO OUT AND EXPLORE AND EXPAND YOUR MIND AND SPIRITUAL AWARENESS. WHEN YOU LET GO AND CLEAN HOUSE GET RID OF THE JUNK IN DA TRUNK YOU WILL BE AMAZED OF WHAT COMES INTO YOUR LIFE. STAY FOCUSED FIRST ON YOUR ACADEMICS THAT IS WHERE YOU WILL DEVELOPE YOUR SKILLS FOR THE BIG PAY BACK. DONT TRIP OR FLIP. SLIP AND SLIDE THROUGH THIS KIDDIE STUFF YOU ARE MOVING UP TO THE NEXT EPISODE. GOOD LUCK BE A MAN MY SON ITS ALL OUT THERE AND INSIDE OF YOU. MAKE YOUR PARENTS PROUD AND BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE...PAPA HANK
2007-03-22 06:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by papa_hanko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was at the movies with her (let's hope this is a heterosexual story, else it would make even less sense) so he was on a date. HE was getting a little something sexual after the movies - you can be sure that was the plan - or the hope. He's actively cheating on you again.
The action you take is the decision to say: It's over. Then mean it. When you've been through a bad time and the person still lies and cheats, what do you need - a lightning bolt to come down and strike?
2007-03-30 01:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain!
I'm not going to say "once a cheater always a cheater" because that is not always the case... People never change, but they do mature!
The question isn't
"will he cheat on you again?"
The question is:
"can you trust that he will never cheat on you again?"
Every time the phone rings will you wonder who he is talking to? Will you wonder where he is every time he leaves the house? Will you feel the need to check his email, his phone, is pockets?
If the answer is "yes" then it will be far too stressful to get back together with him. I would suggest you stay away.
Best of luck, Sweets, I hope you figure things out.
2007-03-22 06:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not mad about it that just means you have moved on and got over it. When someone braks a promise to you never trust them again. You don't need to take any action just walk away and don't talk to them they will always come back. Good luck
2007-03-22 06:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EXES are exes for a GOOD reason.
Cheating is a very good reason to end a relationship.
If you cannot trust the other person in the relationship with you, what are you doing there in the first place?
Move on and stop contact!!!
2007-03-30 04:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do, or should do. you have to let this whole thing go. why are you keeping this burden of the past? nothing's going to change no matter how hard you try. what DO you want to do? you definitely do not want to go back dating with your best friend again. he is obviously not worth it. so just keep being friends with him and that's all. i don't understand why you're still bothering about them two hanging out. it's the past -- don't hold a grudge for this long. advice: forgive but never forget. you have to learn from your past experiences.
2007-03-22 06:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want this kind of hassle? You are young and have a lot going for you. Sounds like your ex is trouble and wants to run around without getting caught. I would find someone more faithful. With these kinds of problems this early in a relationship they are bound to continue.
2007-03-22 06:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by superman_clarkkent_kalel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you if you say your ex is the best thing you ever had! They cheated and are still cheating. See the reality of things it will make your decision to move on easier. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-22 06:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self will you ever be able to trust your friend a gain , what happened when you have a new relationshoip , you willl be worried all the time in case it happens again , friendship is very important , and amongst my mates that is a unspoken rule even when a couple a brakes up we stay well clear , you need to trust a friend and when the trust is brocken its very hatd to trust that person again
2007-03-22 06:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by sprookey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away sweetheart! Once a cheater always a cheater. Atleast that is my opinion!
2007-03-30 04:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by ginamarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋