I'm in a relationship, and i've been with him for 3 months. It's going good. but recently, my ex boyfriend came back in the picture. I'm not gonna lie, ii still love him, but ii know we can't be together, because our relationship wasn't so great. but ii just don't know what to do. ii love my new boyfriend, but at the same time ii still love my ex. ii swear ii don't know what to do.
2007-03-22 06:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by b2k4life456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's your EX for a reason... just remember that.
2007-03-22 06:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by TmB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why did you break up with your boyfriend cus all the reasons why you didn't work out with him in the first place will still be there and you or he will harbor bad feelings from the breakup
and most the time when a ex boyfriend comes back it is called the "fall back girl friend"
it is when he thinks he can do better then you so he leaves and has his fun with other girls and when he is alone or if he doesn't have someone at the moment he calls you. and he will stay with you till he finds someone better
it happens all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME
it happened to me until one of my ex's finally told me what was going on and i have never gotten back with an ex in my life
and why would you give up your new love that still has potential to last for something that for sure wont work
2007-03-22 06:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left for a reason and are now starting a new life that you say you are happy in. You were not happy with the ex so why look back? Move forward, not back. Give the new BF a try, you already hit 3 months.
He may want you back because now you are with someone else. You don't want to go back to the same thing!
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-22 06:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by AE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said your relationship with your ex was not great, and so far things are going good with your new guy, I would advise you to give your new boyfriend and you more time to give the relationship to grow. Otherwise, if you go back to your ex, and things do not work out, you might regret later for breaking up with your boyfriend. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-22 06:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the word "EX" and all the reason's why you left him in the first place. And then go from there hun!! Good Luck to you......I know its easy to forget about all of the bad things that happened when you used to be together, but its those same things that will arrise again, should you fall for his lines again! This I promise you, hun!! Been there done that!! Be Careful, and try to weigh out all of the "Good and the Bad" make a list, of "Pro's and Con's" for both men if you have too... Good Luck, hun.......that's a tough one! Smile!!!
2007-03-22 06:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back in the cycle, you already know is not going to work don't go back, you are going to go back to the same thing, and i think that you will always care about your ex but is more of being used to the person, don't go back, if things are going great with your new guy try thing with him but not with your ex. He had his chance, so is time to be happy.
Good Luck!
2007-03-22 06:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a commitment to one of them. If there are feelings for for your x and you dating someone else and you also have feelings for him. You got to make a decision. are you going to sacrifice the time and all the other stuff you had in your previous relationship or try starting fresh with someone else. This is something you got to do yourself. Your feelings can get confusing, maybe you just didnt get over him yet. So give it some time. And that can also depends on how quick you started dating after you or he broke up.
2007-03-22 06:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by dennys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the relationship wasn't good in the first place i doubt that means it's gonna get any better....and by the way you say you love your new boyfriend and your old boyfriend and you've only been with the new one for 3 months, i'd say slow down a bit, the word love implies a very tremendous connection that you should only be able to have for one person (personal oppinion) but i guess in this case you have to ask..."is my crap relationship previous love better than the "goin good" new love?"
2007-03-22 06:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're having a great relationship with your new bf, stay with him. You can be friends with your ex, but make sure it's nothing more. Even though you do love him, you stated that you know you can't be together. Tell him that he had his chance, and now it's your new boyfriend's chance.
2007-03-22 06:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Faith P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave the past behind and move on....if you and your ex didnt have a great relationship what makes you think you'll have a better one this time around. If your relationship with your boyfriend now is great...stick with it...but then if you are thinking about your ex...it isnt fair to your boyfriend. Your boyfriend now deserves better!!!
2007-03-22 06:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by ProudMama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. Your ex and you broke up for a reason. There was obviously something that went wrong that you couldn't overcome. Keep telling yourself that and you will learn that he isn't right for you. It's hard to get over someone, but don't ruin the good thing you have going for you.
2007-03-22 06:20:08 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋