HELP!!
2007-03-22 06:24:30 · 21 answers · asked by Chyna Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ahhh... in today's day and age this is nothing to panic over. Your dress will even still fit. (Unless you're referring to years). If he's the father it shouldn't matter.
--Lee Ann
2007-03-22 06:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. But, if the baby belongs to the person you are marrying, then it's not just your fault you got pregnant. It takes two. You can still get married while you are pregnant or decide to postpone the wedding till after the birth. You just have to muster up all your courage, do the right thing, and spill the beans. It's much more stressful to keep a secret like that and it takes away from the time you should be spending enjoying your pregnancy because you are worring about how to tell. Plus, bad stress isn't good for the baby. The fact is.......your pregnant and you will have to tell them at some point (it's much worse to wait.). I suggest you tell your future spouse the news in private first, and then tell everyone else together.
2007-03-22 06:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off tell your fiance second I would tell your parents better to hear it from you first rather then one of your friends mom thats friends with yours?.
Next well consider having a bridal/baby shower as the term goes kill two birds with one stone. This way you will not have to plan to seperate parties just one big one.
Remember this will be a shock at first for the parents as it was for you but once they realize that there children are getting married and giving them a grandchild they will be all tears of joy.
Your in love and parents know now a days people rarely wait until there married to have a sexual relationship and well accidents happen.
Congrats on both and God Bless may both your baby and
upcoming marriage be a strong and healthy one.
2007-03-22 06:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and the families right away. Oh, and you will be getting married a LOT sooner than the original plans. Just get down to the courthouse or to a jp and get married! Congrats on both!
2007-03-22 07:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess just sit down and tell him you need to tell him something. You may want to move the wedding date up. If you rexcited and have been together for a while and know that you are getting married then it shouldnt be that bad. Just let him know how you feel about it too. If your excited then tell him.
2007-03-22 06:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by gizmo0013 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but You were asking questions about how to Get pregnant 4 months ago, so I don't understand what your problem is now. No one can help you without more info than this.
2007-03-22 06:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I did was went out and bought a bunch of baby stuff and put in miscellaneous places around the house. (Places that youknow he will be).He will find the stuff and eventually, he will put the pieces together. And then, the news will be broken easily and in a fun way...
2007-03-22 06:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you afraid of and need help with? Is the baby not the man's you are going to marry? or what is the situation?
2007-03-22 06:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him right away. Whether or not its his child because he needs to know what he is in for in marrying you.
If its his child then I am sure he will be fine. If its not be prepared to get kicked to the curb. I really hope its his because it would be horrible otherwise.
2007-03-22 06:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.5 what? Weeks, months, years?? And you're already marrying the guy, so what are you worried about? Just tell him.
2007-03-22 06:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋