My boyfriend is going to be moving in June to Arizona and I am completely sad about that. But, I realize that I am going to have to move on. Anyways, to get to the point, my boyfriends mom is already planning his next girlfriend witha girl that my boyfriend has never met and the mom only met once. I always thought that she liked me because she told my boyfriend that if he cares about me then so does she. But now that they found out that they are moving, all of a sudden she has a new girlfriend planned out and she thinks that he is to good for me. I confronted my boyfriend of 1 year about this and he said that he dosent care what anyone thinks about me. And if any of you are going to say why am I still with him even though he is moving. Its because he is going to be of legal age soona dn is moving back up here to live with a friend 5 months after he moves so we are going to be together again....Please help me!?
2007-03-22 06:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he is not going to date this girl!! its just annoying that the mom is already planning his next girl....
2007-03-22 06:39:14 · update #1
dont ever think that someone is too good for you. If your bf is willing to come back for you, then you shouldnt be worrying about anything. Im sure his mom is just worried that he will be alone and broken hearted when they move.
2007-03-22 06:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever ask him if he is going to actually date this girl his mom is planning for him?? Find out what he wants. If he's going to date other people in Arizona or whatever, then you might as well too. Then, if he actually does move back, then perhaps you can pick up the relationship again if you are both single at that time.
2007-03-22 13:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by asig33882003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying absent makes the heart grows fonder and if you love something set it free if it returns it's yours but if it doesn't return it never was yours to start with. I think that these saying are pretty true, but you also to to keep in mind if you want to have a relationship with this guy you would have to work to keep it, and also you wouldn't be the first girl that the mother did not care about his girlfriend some of them are a lot worse. been there done that
2007-03-22 13:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by ravenhk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u to love each other then it will work and u to will be happy and together if u to end u not together then just remember the time u to had together and move on but it can work if u can talk to him mom then sit her down with just u and her and tell her how u feel about what she is doing and maybe that will help
2007-03-22 13:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to be stuck with one guy that the mom is already planning another girl to take your place. Go find someone else for now - if you are meant to be together it will happen - but have fun in the meantime!
2007-03-22 13:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by kelbean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU TRUST HIM THERE IS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUTAND IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL MOVE BACK IN 5 MONTHS AND THE TWO OF YOU WILL BE TOGETHER. JUST KEEP IN TOUCH AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE AND WAIT. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-22 13:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o who cares about his mom... did she pick you for him? if not then he probably doesn't listen to her that often or else he wouldn't be with you, he would be with whomever she picked...
also don't use myspace as a way to meet people... its called FRESH AIR PEOPLE!!! go outside... meet people in the FLESH!!!
2007-03-22 13:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by nothing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arizona girls are ugly,, dont worry about it, he will be back
2007-03-22 13:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋