We cuddle, we kiss, we hold hands, we sleep next to each other,we cuddle in bed, we have sex,we text,we call,we talk,we smile,we buy each other things,we talk about each other,we spend all weekend together,we sit next to each other always, they call me 'his bird'.But hes never asked me out.Do i assume were together now? I will he actually ask?. Ive only known him 4 months.
2007-03-22 06:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He refers to me as his girlfriend a lot, and when I asked he said yeh I do call you it, but then people have sed to me that know him, o are you 2 going out i didnt think u wer?lots of others.and I dont know if we are wot ud call proper?
2007-03-22 06:34:08 · update #1
he hasnt been with anyone since we met, and he also gets upset if i speak to my x , plus when were together he doesnt really like me talking to men too much . xx
2007-03-22 06:35:57 · update #2
well sounds like you guys are something... haha you dont have to be asked out to be something... thats very highschool of you. :P
in my experience, things like that happen, and all of a sudden you ask yourself 'what are we?'... thats usually the time when u ask the other person that exact same question.
akward talks usually, sometimes both of u feel the same way and things work out.
sometimes its just a nice blissfull feeling not putting yourself in a label and just enjoy the good times, but sooner or later that 'what are we talk' will come.
good luck ;)
2007-03-22 06:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by almostdeadman1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Hannah, you can assume you are together now. If you are doing everything together and always think about each other, you are a couple. Have you thought about getting an avatar that expresses you? Are you a gray silhouette in life as well as cyberspace? I'm getting worried about you. You need to express yourself, in this new relationship and in life! Come on, "bird," show us your colors!
2007-03-22 13:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont assume anything ever when it comes to guys. dont think your together unless he says so.
tough situation, have you ever heard he wont buy the cow if the milk is for free?
sometimes, sadly guys will make that kind of relation with a woman and never even make it official, they figure they are getting all the benifits of a relationship without actually committing, if i were you i would ask him if you are together, and if he says no, get out now.
2007-03-22 13:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are dating. But the only way to know for sure is if you ask. If you can't ask him questions now, then you won't be able to ask him questions in the relationship, and that's not a good thing to do in a relationship. Be honest, and tell him that you are just asking to know, not to cause confusion.
2007-03-22 13:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two possible scenarios here! 1- you are nothing more than a booty call, or 2- you two are together and hes just not a real romantic sort of guy. Either way, i think you two should sit down and be frank about your relationship!
2007-03-22 13:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you enjoy what is going on, why worry about putting a title to it, sounds like you are a couple, but I think people worry about being someones " girlfriend" instead of just having fun and enjoying each other
2007-03-22 13:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very good question. I would say you are boyfriend/girlfriend. But I would ask him what he thinks, I'm no mind reader :(
2007-03-22 13:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy sistah....you need to clarify your relationship!! Talk to him and see where he thinks you 2 R going.
2007-03-22 13:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋