Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I'll try to keep as much to the point as possible, but she's crap. We live over 100 miles from her, and she hasn't come to see her son's new house since we moved 5 months ago. She doesn't buy him a birthday present, or anything at all for xmas (bearing in mind the 2 from next marriage get lavished with gifts). She's quite happy to just take from him, and does nothing in return. No help with new house at all, not even a token wine glass which would have been a nice thought. But I heard him on the phone to her the other night saying we would drive down (again), and take her for a meal! And we aren't exactly loaded due to new house. He said why don't you come and see the new house, and she said she can't because her dogs won't want to travel that far, so she's basically told him she's not going to visit ever. Why is he so desperate for her approval when she's just not interested. I'm biting my tongue at the moment but really mad! And this is just 1 small example.

2007-03-22 05:50:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-22 05:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by lady bug 1 in Singles & Dating

i go out with this boy that alll the gurls are crazy about... and when me and him walkin aroung holdin hands here and there the gurls get mad or if we are togeter the gurls be like''oohh i love you baby,kiss me baby" some stupid shyt like that ... it be pissin me off.. i already fought to many times toi be fightin ...me and him really really like eeach other ...but gurls keep getting in the way ...like today i was walkin wit him and sum b**** tried to hug up on him and i was standin right there ...he almost hit her but i told him not to hit her lol but yea i dont kno wat to do with these gurlsss they are to much... HELP before i kill one of these gurls lol

2007-03-22 05:50:08 · 22 answers · asked by Bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-22 05:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by Mia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend was married for 24 years - admitedly 1/2 were good. Things went down hill and they were seperated for two 1/2 years before we met and they just went through a bitter divorce wherein he sacraficed just to get things over with. Yes they tried counseling, but nothing worked. After 24 years she wanted out and got what she wanted. Now she has the house, the car and because of the two years of personal hell she put him through, when he got hurt and needed time off from work, he got fired. We have been dating for 6 months and things between us are really good - I believe that with all my heart & so we patient & I am as supportive as I know how. I cannot come out and ask him - so maybe you people can help - about how long will it take before he is ready for a more solid comittment such as living together or marriage even. We have talked and know that we want a future - so I can wait - just curious as to when - ruff estimate?

2007-03-22 05:48:52 · 16 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 05:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by cath 1 in Singles & Dating

My question is, why do popular people think they have the right to pronounce themselves better than anyone else, and why do they treat others like someone from another planet? Why is there so much disrespect towards their peers?

2007-03-22 05:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Friends

2007-03-22 05:48:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been engaged for almost a year. We haven't set a date yet, but we're talking about in the next year or 2. I thought all girls knew every detail of their wedding till I tried to decided what I want to do. (Google the word wedding and you'll see what I mean). This is were you all can help me. I want your opinion. Should we...
Elope. Just me and my man run off to a beautiful place and make a weekend of it.
Have a small intimate wedding. Run off with just our closest family and make a weekend out of it.
Get married at the court house and have a reception with alot of our friends and family immediately following the "I do."
I'm open for any kind of advice you're willing to give.

2007-03-22 05:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by marie_fairfax 2 in Weddings

I am a really nice girl, but I can't seem to meet any guys! My main problem is that all of my best friends are guys, and typically guys don't want to approach you when you are surrounded by other men! Even when I'm out and about how do I get a guy to come up to me and start a conversation? I guess I just need to know how to look approachable...I need help....I'm sure if I could just look approachable then I could get guys to talk to me and maybe ask me out??? Guys do you ever go up to a girl when you are out shopping or something?? ahhh I need guidence! To top it off I am the only single one in our group now...I hate being a 3rd, 5th, 7th wheel ect...you know! I know I shouldn't care because I really am happy for all of them, plus for a long time I was the only one that WASN"T single...but I'm really ready to start dating...I just don't know how...help!

2007-03-22 05:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a really nice girl, but I can't seem to meet any guys! My main problem is that all of my best friends are guys, and typically guys don't want to approach you when you are surrounded by other men! Even when I'm out and about how do I get a guy to come up to me and start a conversation? I guess I just need to know how to look approachable...I need help....I'm sure if I could just look approachable then I could get guys to talk to me and maybe ask me out??? Guys do you ever go up to a girl when you are out shopping or something?? ahhh I need guidence! To top it off I am the only single one in our group now...I hate being a 3rd, 5th, 7th wheel ect...you know! I know I shouldn't care because I really am happy for all of them, plus for a long time I was the only one that WASN"T single...but I'm really ready to start dating...I just don't know how...help!

2007-03-22 05:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Singles & Dating

Would any women here 30 and over date a guy around 24, and why would you do that?

2007-03-22 05:47:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, So I told this girl that I liked her. She said "Aww, how sweet!" Then she said she had to do something and went off to talk to her friend. Well, the rest of the day she didn't say anything to me about it even though we sat next to each other. She, at the end of the day asked my friend if he had made me say that. My friend said "He did it on his own free will, I had nothing to do with it". Well, she left and I was talking with me friend and also her friend as well. Her friend said to me "She kinda likes someone and he kinda likes her". So, what should I do now? I like this girl a lot and have known her for like three years. It wasn't until yesterday that I told her. What should I dooo?

2007-03-22 05:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Nlayer 2 in Singles & Dating

on yourself/family in a month for groceries?

2007-03-22 05:46:34 · 24 answers · asked by Olivia R 2 in Singles & Dating

She was a great friend of mine reside in Gokal Puri area of East Delhi,helped me in many ways.Since 1998 we loose contact and now am unable to find her or contact her.Most probably she now reside in Gulabi Bagh area of Delhi.

2007-03-22 05:46:12 · 1 answers · asked by ajay 1 in Friends

wedding anniversary? We just brought a new car...so lets stay within a resonable budget....! P.S No....not another wife :)

2007-03-22 05:46:09 · 17 answers · asked by jshorePR 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 05:46:04 · 28 answers · asked by suzy 3 in Singles & Dating

These last few months we have been busy, however every time I try to initiate sex he doesn't seem interested. We had a son about 9 months ago and I know my body has changed, but it has just been the last 3 months or so that he doesn't seem interested.

No he's not cheating either. Do you guys have any suggestions? Do guys have "down time"?

2007-03-22 05:45:54 · 29 answers · asked by mysterious_qt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am moving to Bolton in a few weeks time - although career wish i know it goingto be a great move for me but i will be leaving my social life 200mile south!! without being in a pub looking like an idiot how do make new friends??

2007-03-22 05:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm an attractive 38 year old woman dating a handsome 34 year old guy. He's very attentive to me and is not a flirt. Which I like. We spend lots of time together and we both enjoy dancing together. We are supposed to go dancing this weekend and my brother says to me, “oh, I wouldn’t take him to that club, you will lose him for sure; not that you’re ugly or anything but you will lose him” HELLO!!! What am I chopped liver? What is wrong with my brother? Why is he sooo cruel? And why do I feel threatened now, when it didn’t even come to my mind before? I’m secure with myself, I get “looks” on a regular basis from guys (my boyfriend even notices and makes “faces”; so he knows) but now my brother put this doubt in my head about myself. How can I get this thought out of my head? Could it be the age difference? I've been told I look younger, even comparable in age to my boyfriend.

2007-03-22 05:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Although I notice that American society is very sexually open, it is shocking to find that the people who are most open and experienced about sex are the big, bad guys & the hot-looking women. The remainder of the people are either too naive to know all about sex, or are too religious about it.

Don't you wish that ALL Americans knew more about sex & are able to judge when to have a relationship and when to have some fun? And rather than putting a "ban" on sex outside marriage, would it not help if the govt. instead decided to help educated ALL Americans about sex & relationships - that way would be the best to vastly reduce or prevent STDs?

Because if only the “big” guys can have all the sexual fun they want, most likely they will also carry “big” STDs......LOL

2007-03-22 05:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It boils down to my marriage, I have been married for 10yr and right now (well passed month & half) its been crappy.. Quick story my dh has been in business w/his brother for 17yr and bil wife is involved and never liked my dh well things got out of hand w.the business and she decided to kick dh out. (my dh is not a fighter quit person who goes w. the flow) anyway at the end of this month is his last day. Well she (bil wife) has been treating him like crap she is making all the shots etc and treated dh like a red headed step child.. I have talked to my dh repeatley about this he needs to talk to them etc and fight.. Everytime I talk to him he tells me I dont have time for this right now or I dont want to hear it... I am to the point where he doesnt want to hear from me his own wife but he will suck it up and listen to them... I just want to pack my crap and leave and maybe he will get the point. Am I just being to crazy over this? Selfish? Sorry so long.. Any advice?

2007-03-22 05:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Alexis221 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We were in English today and our teacher was telling us what our grades were so far. English is really important to me as I want to be a journalist and I hope to study it at university. Anyways, I got an A & B, she got two A's. When our teacher said B to me you should have seen her face, as if she was thinking..MUAHAHAHA I beat you!! She kept going on and on and on... telling everyone. I. don't. care!! She is always competing with me in everything! You should see her face whenever I do something good. It's like a pig's backside. She is driving me mad! She is better than me I admit it!! Grr!! Help!! Thanks :)

2007-03-22 05:44:52 · 22 answers · asked by ♥frodo_covcity♥ 2 in Friends

2007-03-22 05:44:16 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by Zoltán B 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy that I know was dating a girl who I am now currently involved with. This is upsetting the guy who has lost my respect and is threatening to never talk to her again if she does not see me. Should I back off?

2007-03-22 05:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:42:55 · 33 answers · asked by sistermarybella 4 in Singles & Dating

His name is James Paul Horgan and I think his birthday is in Janurary and he is about 55 to 60 years old and he has been known to live in Michigan, Arizona, & Florida.

2007-03-22 05:42:25 · 2 answers · asked by Sami N 1 in Family

my friend that comes out there every month wants me to move down to flordia wit him i cant leave my state till im 18 tho soo i got a year to decied but he said i can leave wit him in his house and everything and hes a simi-famous model... And if i move down there i can live my dream and become a model. becus his agents already seen me and want me to model for them and im talking about the agents that ever on mtv whever that show was called ahah... WOW i really want to but i dont no i need some adive

2007-03-22 05:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating