I'm an attractive 38 year old woman dating a handsome 34 year old guy. He's very attentive to me and is not a flirt. Which I like. We spend lots of time together and we both enjoy dancing together. We are supposed to go dancing this weekend and my brother says to me, “oh, I wouldn’t take him to that club, you will lose him for sure; not that you’re ugly or anything but you will lose him” HELLO!!! What am I chopped liver? What is wrong with my brother? Why is he sooo cruel? And why do I feel threatened now, when it didn’t even come to my mind before? I’m secure with myself, I get “looks” on a regular basis from guys (my boyfriend even notices and makes “faces”; so he knows) but now my brother put this doubt in my head about myself. How can I get this thought out of my head? Could it be the age difference? I've been told I look younger, even comparable in age to my boyfriend.
2007-03-22 05:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's too good looking for you. You might be a 6 and he's an 8. This could be what he meant.
2007-03-22 05:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brothers are put in this world to make our lives hell sometimes. But also know he is your brother and that he is not responsible for making you feel good about yourself. Dont listen to him and dont let him get you down. Besides, you would be a little creeped out if your bro were to be telling you you were hot or whatnot. Dont fret. And dopnt show you are insecure because your guy will be able to tell and it is a turn off to guys. Good luck!
2007-03-22 12:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by misfit1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me like he was just ribbing you the way, yes, all brothers do.
If it truly bothers you than either talk with him about it, or thwack him one for freaking you out.
--Lee Ann
2007-03-22 12:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lee Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-03-22 12:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Korry C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋