Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

My boyfriend knows about my ex, just like i know about his ex. both are alcoholics who are both still drinking . Sometimes she pops up drunk and just gives him harmless jibberish. im there and just feel sorry for her and he doesnt let her in . my ex on the other hand doesnt appear he just sends crazy drunk letters . sometimes he says he loves me and some times he says he hates me. this relationship is long over. 15 years and we both see our exes as nuisances. the problemb is i tolerate his exes actions and he blows up at me when i get a letter from him like i have some sort of controll over the matter. i told him whatever he wants to do we will do but i get no solution from him. he was so mean to me yeaterday i left and went to the movies by my self then when i got home he locked me out and opened the door and yelled some more then accused me of cheating on him . which neither of us has ever done in the past . i am guessing its because he had 3 wives who cheated on him.

2007-03-22 05:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by jennie s 2 in Singles & Dating

and likes to get drunk, and doesn't do school, pretty much everything bad, has no job, doesn't want one

2007-03-22 05:41:11 · 7 answers · asked by gogo 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me with some honest answers.
How is being a teenager today different from when you were a teenager?

What is the hardest part of being a parent?

What's the most important goal in your life?

If marijuana were legalized, would it still be wrong to smoke it?

One question I'd like to ask God is...?

What's the greatest problem facing people your age?

Thanks for your help with this, my youth group students will hopefully get a lot out of it!

In His Grip,
Jeff
Pastor to Families with Youth

2007-03-22 05:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by jjimprovman 1 in Family

Can you ever be friends with someone you hate?
Two people despise each other for years (man and a woman) could they ever actually start having respect then actually like become friends or are they doomed to pretty much hate each other forever. Strong willed woman and man. Women and mens views please.

Not a married couple just someone you know in a social setting that for whatever reason you despise each other kinda like a hate at first sight thing for no obvious reason.

2007-03-22 05:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by mario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to school everyday and I only go to two freinds who I trust but their not always near me or supporting me. I try to talk to other peers and they dont talk to me much I try to make friends and conversation but it never works, sometimes I dont feel comfortable with the clothes I wear or my present situation at home. I try to go to school feeling as if I have security and freedom to make friends and talk to people and graduate.
Can anyone tell me how I can make friends with great conversation* body language * and how to avoid small talk?

2007-03-22 05:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Friends

one of my freinds admitted (while very very drunk) that he has slept with his step sister! i always knew he thought she was hot and thought nothing of it, but i think thats a step too far even though theyre not blood relatives. i asked him about it again and for a while he tried to caver it up, but the truth has come out that its happened more than once. the worst thing was they were only 15 the first time!

i find it hard to be freinds with him ever since, what should i do, forget about it (i think it might actually still be goin on) or tell him that its sick?

2007-03-22 05:39:39 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Birdy is my real name 6 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to stay home so I can finish my project that was due today, and I din't feel good! I miss my crush, he hasn't messaged me back but he did messaged my sister! He didn't even know who she was.! He is moving this summer and he doesn't even know how I feel about him! What should I do?!

2007-03-22 05:39:27 · 2 answers · asked by Kayla 2 in Singles & Dating

When my wife grabs my feet and strokes them, it feels so great. I love foot massages. I know it's probably not manly to admit, but I'm comfortable with it.

2007-03-22 05:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to go out with my long time crush. this is my first real date and i need to know what to wear, what to do, i just need to know everything i want this to be perfect. we are seeing a movie but idk which one yet. which one should we see? thanx soooo much

2007-03-22 05:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by cool person 2 in Singles & Dating

Because I have this guy I want to ask out because I think he's too chicken? Should I. It's kind of weird though because we've known each other by face for like 2 years, but we haven't done anything. Should I ask him to have a coffee or a movie?
Thanks

2007-03-22 05:38:13 · 7 answers · asked by gogo 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, catched my boyfriend joining again an asian dating site, does it mean he's looking for a new girlfriend in Philippines or anywhere else in Asia? He's Australian and I'm Filipina and we met 3 months ago...

2007-03-22 05:38:13 · 13 answers · asked by wonder_woman30s 1 in Singles & Dating

i was thinking it would be a good prank if i were to fake my own suicide on my birthday, i was thinking i would go on the top fo a building and then wait for all the cops to come and stuff and when my parents came i would throw a pig dressed like me or something off the building, it would be so funny because the pig would splatter everywhere and they wouldnt know it wasnt me!!! then when my parents woke up the next morning i would be sitting at the table eating breakfast!!! omg it would be hilarius, or maybe i should REALLY commit suicide, that'd have em going for a long time?

2007-03-22 05:38:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-22 05:37:53 · 8 answers · asked by apu 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't want to date another woman's husband, but sadly, men lie.......what are the clues, signs..???

2007-03-22 05:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by nizo 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do?

2007-03-22 05:37:47 · 2 answers · asked by Jason B 2 in Family

This girl bugs me about who i'm going out with all the time, and she bugs him too. (Josh) I really like him, but nobody is happy that we are together. Especially my friends. They think that I am wayyyy to good for him, but I know that he's not bad like they think he is. What should I do?

2007-03-22 05:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by ASIA :] 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 my fiance is 25 and we are both working and full time students...the last few months sex just hasnt been what it used to be. Sometimes I spend an hour primping for him and he just wants to sleep. He reassures me that its not me, im gorgeous and he's more than attracted to me but he just doesn't have the energy with all the stress from a full course load and demanding job..lately we go a week or two sometimes without having sex and this never used to happen..is this normal? What can i do? apparently my sex drive is much higher than his...

2007-03-22 05:36:58 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a huge row with my boyfriend after doing something that hurt him, and he now says we're over.

The thing is he's said it SO many times before and then ends up all okay.

He reckons he means it this time (But hes said that before LOADS) i know hes hurting but i cant put my life on hold.

either he wants me or he doesnt. He has given me an answer but how can i start to move on when i dont know if hes being honest!!

he even SWORE once on his sisters life that he didnt want me, then we were fine a couple of days later.

SEE WHAT I MEAN!!!

If i 100% believed he didnt want me anymore, fine, but somehow i cant believe it.

I cant stop thinkin bout him, i miss him, feel guilty and cannot function.

in fact im close to exploding.

Is he just punishing me?

2007-03-22 05:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by sullivan7892000 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I asked men and woman what they thought Love was. Some answer we good and some well.

My question today is:

How do u know when u are in LOVE with that person??????

2007-03-22 05:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi well i really like this girl. We used to be really good friends and used to talk all the time but now we don't. We don't talk that much anymore because she beautiful and very popular and well im not good looking and not that popular. She has all these new friends that are older. I do aim her sometime and she talks to me a aim but not like we used to. I just want to be good friends like we used to be.I want to reestablish my friendship with her. Im aware that theirs other girls out there but i don't want other girls i want this one i can't stop thinking about her and im not a stalker don't worry. I just need advise and how to became her friend again. Thanks

2007-03-22 05:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Singles & Dating

to make people understand that I am on here to have fun! Do you feel the same way?

2007-03-22 05:33:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:33:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honeymoons aren't that bad but I want to know your opinion!

2007-03-22 05:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by Mariely S 1 in Weddings

2007-03-22 05:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by sullivan7892000 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship with a man who has tried to leave his partner, but he cant find the courage to do so, we are in love but his two youngest children are in pieces and his two eldest have threatened to turn his whole family against him.He cant understand i cant wait forever!

2007-03-22 05:32:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are in a world spinning so fast. Are there still Penelopes waiting for their Ulysses to be back ? People don't have much time to waste for others nowadays

2007-03-22 05:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Bo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 05:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by tamacoon 1 in Family