Hi well i really like this girl. We used to be really good friends and used to talk all the time but now we don't. We don't talk that much anymore because she beautiful and very popular and well im not good looking and not that popular. She has all these new friends that are older. I do aim her sometime and she talks to me a aim but not like we used to. I just want to be good friends like we used to be.I want to reestablish my friendship with her. Im aware that theirs other girls out there but i don't want other girls i want this one i can't stop thinking about her and im not a stalker don't worry. I just need advise and how to became her friend again. Thanks
2007-03-22 05:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her a copy of this question. That's all it would take for me. :)
--Lee Ann
2007-03-22 05:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, I think that it's really sweet that you feel that way about her. And you should really stop criticizing yourself about how your not popular and how your not good looking. To yourself, your one person. But to another person, you mean the world. So don't get caught hanging up on a girl that isn't really talking to you. You may want to become friends with her again, but she may not be the girl that you used to know. So think it over just a little bit more. And whatever you decide, hopefully it works out. GOOD LUCK!!!
-Ay-SHUHHH.
2007-03-22 05:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by ASIA :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much in this situation i don't think you should have to change at all... if you haven't done anything to change the friendship that means she did... and if it was that easy for her to loose your friendship and find other friends.. then she really wasn't that good of a friend... I just think you shouldn't put too much effort with someone that isn't putting any back..
2007-03-22 05:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advise would be... just let her know. Tell her that all you want is her friendship, that you are willing to stand by her as her friend. If she doesnt accept your friendship then she is too much into herself, and sooner or later people like that need a real friend. It will be up to you, then to either listen and be her friend or turn you're back on somebody that turned their back on you... think about it... God Bless
2007-03-22 05:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her how you feel about her? Maybe she thought you weren't interested in her from a dating aspect and that's why she moved on. Maybe she is looking for something you can't give her. Maybe monkeys might fly out of your ear, but there is no guarantee!! Do you see where I'm going with this? Until and unless you open your heart, trust her with your feelings, you will never know. You will never be hurt if you keep your feelings to yourself, but you will also never know true love until you give it away. When it comes back, it's yours to keep. Peace, hippy!
2007-03-22 05:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by lmdonhowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her dude, mention how you guys used to hang out and talk all the time like you used to. Ask her if she misses that and see what she says. Maybe you guys can hang out together or something.....just keep it cool just let her know that you miss that friendship that you used to have. If she is too busy for you or says she doesnt have time to hang out then move on. You dont need friends like that you can get better ones. Hope it works out for you.....peace!
2007-03-22 05:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon it's apparent that she is not interested in you in that way so why would you want to put yourself through that agony every time you are around her. You need to stop waisting your time with someone who will just make you feel small and inadequate, instead stop aim her and stop trying to talk to her. Focus you energy on someone else who will appreciate you and who will want to be your friend.
2007-03-22 05:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Leyla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take time for her to grow up and out of her new stage. Pretty popular girls get swept up in the whole social scene and if your not part you won't stay part of her everyday life. Sorry, I think you should move on for now.
2007-03-22 05:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jena P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To uncover a female friend? You ought to be determined. Anyhoo, simply be your self. If she does not like that, then she's no longer proper for you. Be your self guy!!! Girls love men who're continually their selves. Good Luck!!!!
2016-09-05 11:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by jensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get obsessed with this girl. The only way for you two to be as friendly as you were is that you make a drastic change or if you were in a movie. Don't sweat it.
2007-03-22 05:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her, talk to her in the halls, bump into her "accidentally" lol just be really nice and funny. girls love that. or at least i do. good luck!
2007-03-22 05:41:09 · answer #11 · answered by cool person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋