Yesterday, catched my boyfriend joining again an asian dating site, does it mean he's looking for a new girlfriend in Philippines or anywhere else in Asia? He's Australian and I'm Filipina and we met 3 months ago...
2007-03-22 05:38:13 · 13 answers · asked by wonder_woman30s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm wondering how did you find out that he joined that asian dating site myasianrose. I Hope you already meet him in person and not just talking to him on web cam chat. I heard so many stories like that. People meeting in online dating sites; they exchange emails they chat almost everyday for months and became virtually closer. One day, suddenly they thought that they are already committed like boyfriend and girlfriend.
But how can you tell that is a real relation, you don't even met that guy in person. You don't really know who is he, you never touch him and have not even any idea of his smell. If you met him in person and went out for a date many times and whisper to each other about love then its legitimate to ask him why he still have profile in that site . But if you just communicate online, I don't think you talk about serious relation and call him your “boyfriend.” Just by exchanging emails and web cam chat will never prove that you have special relation with that guy.
Anyone can be anybody on the web. Whatever you say by emails and chat it can be anything. If the guy that you call “boyfriend” still have profile in and asian dating site, it means that he is still looking for someone and that he’s not satisfied of your “online” company, then close the web cam, period!
If he is your boyfriend in reality, I suggest that you should talk to him nicely and ask what is wrong with your relation, why he’s not satisfied of you. If he is serious and wants to keep the relation, then tell him how you want that relation to be in the future. If that guy was my boyfriend IN REAL life and still wants to have profile in an online dating while having relation with me. I will tell him Sorry! “I don't want to waste my time with you because there are so many other fishes in the ocean .
2007-03-25 05:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign yourself up on several dating sites and wait for him to find you... =) If he leaves you, then you already have yourself pivoted to meet someone else to replace him!
Don't feel guilty about doing so either! He made the first gesture... you're just countering his move. Think of this as a game of chess. However, you may or may not want to win!
Truthfully, if he is wants to be with someone else then you want to know and to let him go. If he's just exploring his feelings for you by seeing if he would be interested in someone else, then he will eventually drop off of the sites and start focusing on you.
Either way, the only way to the truth is to not over-react and to let him find his own way. You can nudge him a little, but to force him either way would be a mistake. Once a man makes up his mind for himself, he usually sticks with it. It's the part of our stubbornness that actually works for women... =)
2007-03-22 20:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would join the same website under a different name and talk to him
If he wants to date, then dump him ;)
that way, he won't even be able to deny it because you would have the proof
Hope everything works out
2007-03-24 20:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um Yeah! Clearly not a mensa member here.
2007-03-22 12:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh yeah thats a lil weird and hes clearly looking for someone else... u should dump the dirtbag!
2007-03-22 12:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by chi_twnchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys are going out then you should just ask him because if he really loves you then he will tell you the truth.
2007-03-22 12:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by <3 muhh-lizzz-uhhh :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bags as he is looking for your replacement.
2007-03-22 12:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him.... he should not be looking on ANY dating website if he is with you.
2007-03-22 12:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what it means. Sorry! Don't let yourself be played.
2007-03-22 12:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS. WHY ELSE WOULD HE BE ON A SITE LIKE THAT? GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-22 12:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋