I had a huge row with my boyfriend after doing something that hurt him, and he now says we're over.
The thing is he's said it SO many times before and then ends up all okay.
He reckons he means it this time (But hes said that before LOADS) i know hes hurting but i cant put my life on hold.
either he wants me or he doesnt. He has given me an answer but how can i start to move on when i dont know if hes being honest!!
he even SWORE once on his sisters life that he didnt want me, then we were fine a couple of days later.
SEE WHAT I MEAN!!!
If i 100% believed he didnt want me anymore, fine, but somehow i cant believe it.
I cant stop thinkin bout him, i miss him, feel guilty and cannot function.
in fact im close to exploding.
Is he just punishing me?
2007-03-22 05:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me you really care for each other. Otherwise he won't keep going back on his words to be with you again, & you won't be feeling so miserable worrying about it. Anger makes people say all sorts of things they don't really mean. Since you regret having hurt him, tell him you are sorry, & mean it. In future try to do be more considerate. He can be disappointed by your behaviour only that many times, before he thinks that's it, he had enough.
2007-03-22 06:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if youve had that many arguments, then you obviously arent getting along very well. you both have to sit down and comprimise, work together to get the relationship back. if neither of you can be bothered then you arent right for each other
oh, and btw- yes, of course he is punishing you.
2007-03-22 12:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont say what you did to hurt him, but it sounds like you have him exactly where you want him and are taking him for granted, assuming he will come running back, i dont want to be cruel but you sound as though you are not mature enough to be in a relationship, either that or you are very young, in which case you have plenty of growing up to do, if he does finish it for good well that would serve you right for messing with his feelings
2007-03-22 12:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look if you've asked him more than once and his answer is no... then forget him.. even if he realiizes it was a mistake.. he'll chase you afterwards.. hes not worth your time if he keeps doing this..
2007-03-22 12:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by girl_next_door_red 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and stay with your parents/freind etc. and make sure he knows how to contact you. give him time to stop hurting, he'll come round to his sences
2007-03-22 12:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably. you need to talk to him and ask him straight up if he still wants to be together or not.
2007-03-22 12:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by christi t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know him better than me so you should know
2007-03-22 12:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bertie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋