please help me! This is my first date ever and i have no clue what to do?

Question

I am going to go out with my long time crush. this is my first real date and i need to know what to wear, what to do, i just need to know everything i want this to be perfect. we are seeing a movie but idk which one yet. which one should we see? thanx soooo much

Answer 1

i would just wear what you normally wear, jeans and a shirt or a skirt or whatever you're comfortable in. just see what happens. you don't have to have a set plan on everything. just relax and be yourself.

Answer 2

all right don't panic it's really not as painful as you make it seem. First off wear something you will be comfortable in. Pair of jeans and cute top will do the trick. You definitly don't want to worry about you clothes while on the date, puts to much pressure on already intense situation. As for the movie, pick something funny, comedies are always the best. When it comes to the actually time spent with him, really don't plan it out toooo much. Just act like you normally would with you friends. The conversation will flow naturally. Good luck!

Answer 3

First step just wear whatever you feel comfortable in
Second Step just play it cool.
and final step just enjoy it
I know that this is what most people are telling you but it works trust me
Just relax and let it happen naturally
Good Luck

and for whatever you see just have fun
if its a scary movie then lean into him and he'll put his arm around you and than at the end of the movie kiss him on the cheek and say, " Thank you for holding me when the scary parts came on." and give him a lil smile
if its a romantic movie at the end kiss him on the cheek and say to him, " I wish that you'd kiss me like that."

Just have fun and relax thats the best advice I've heard yet and believe it or not it does work.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

What you wear, the movie you see, etc. is all really not important. What is important is your spending time together, getting to know each other through conversation, and being yourself. If something does go wrong (it usually does), just relax and make the most of it. Realize that it is those little quirks on dates that make them the most memorable. One of my first dates we went to a fair, and during one of the rides my date puked on me. It was a disaster, but it wasn't our last date, far from it. It is still something we talk about and laugh about. Just enjoy getting to know your crush! Have Fun!!!

Answer 5

I am in the same boat in a couple of weeks!! dress in jeans casual and wear a nice blouse. Its better to be dressed comfortably when you are with him so you are not uncomfortable. I would suggest a comedy movie, only because I went to another type of movie on my first date one time and the love seens were embarrassing me to death on the first date. We both couldn't even speak when we came out laugh. Oh well, see a comedy and laugh together and enjoy. I hope this helped, take care Heather

Answer 6

Don't go crazy girl! Just relax...be yourself!

Wear something cute, not too exotic though. lol sorry, wear whatever style that both of you are into.

As for the movies...
If you want romantic & funny see "Norbit!"
If both are you are into the high intelligence, go for "The Last Mimzy or Premonition"
If you want another movie like hardball or the freedom writers, see: "Pride"
Something depressing..."Reign over me"
Crazy Action: "300 or Shooter"
Cute "old Fashion" animation: TMNT..idk how old are you, but that brings me back to old times..lol
If you want scary see "The Hills have eyes 2"
Blah, don't watch the #23, you will both fall asleep! Unless you are into longgggg twisting mystery!
Don't go for girly movies, like "A Bridge to Terebethia" because you will bore your date!!

I also suggest you guys go out to eat as well, its the best way to get to know each other.

No fast food places.
Nice and laid-back restaurant, not too expensive or over the top!

Have fun!! Good Luck!! =)

Answer 7

Dress nicely but not too nice...like wear some nice jeans and a pretty shirt. Don't try to act like anything you're not because it will come back on you later. Just let yourself go and have fun and it will come naturally. Try not to concentrate too much on coming up with interesting things to say. Doesn't really matter about the movie. Just see something that you both agree on.

Answer 8

Well, I haven't really thought about what to wear and what to think about. but I think the best thing is to wear just casual clothing, a little bit of accessories, and then just go with the flow. That's the most oldest saying in the book, but sometimes it could work. IF he asked you out, then he probably just wants to get to know you for who YOU are. Don't try and give him the impression of somebody that you don't really know much about. Putting on an act totally turns guys off. So just be yourself and I hope everything works out for you guys. :)

-Ay-SHUUUHHH.

Answer 9

How exciting! Wear what you'd normally wear and be yourself. That's what he's expecting quite honestly. Make a suggestion for the movie, but don't ask him to see a romance or chick-flick. Guys hate that.

And don't strive for perfect. Perfection is BORING. It's the little mishaps in life that make it interesting. Have fun.

Answer 10

Wear something that you're comfortable in, but that makes you feel cute or pretty or sexy (whatever vibe you want to give off). You don't want to be adjusting your shirt/skirt all night, right?
Don't be nervous, try to maintain a conversation (not during the movie of course), and smile!