this boy has just asked me out 2 days ago and the 1st day (yesterday) we didnt do anything except 4 hug when i we had to go class and 2day we hugged when we left again and held hands but we havent really talked propaly all i no about him is that i am a month and 10 days older than him he broke his thumb yesterday playing rugby and honestly he is quite boring i want to kiss him and stuff because he is my first boyfriend but i am quite shy so can u give me advise he is MORE experienced than me so can u give me advice on what to start the conversations like i txt him about half hour ago and asked what he is doing on saturday but he aint txt me back so plz help me
2007-03-22 06:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay........... i did this one time, and the other person thought it was SOOOO hott!!!
write down a time and place (at your school) on a piece of paper like
10:34 water fountain infront of Mr. kale's room.
and then meet him there. when he gets there, grab his hand, and run into the nearest bathroom, or empty class room (even a hidden corner will work) and just kiss him! stay for a couple minutes, and then just go back to class, and text him to ask him what he thought.
definately an ice breaker! (to get out of class, just use the bathroom excuse)
2007-03-22 06:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cute :)
When you first start dating a new person it is often sometimes nerve wracking\boring like that. That doesn't mean he's not an interesting person. I'm sure he's just as nervous as you about this. It's okay to be shy.. everyone is shy at some point. For me when I like a guy I can be pretty stuttery or shy around him. If it's nothing and I think the guys hot, I'll be a goofball and show off around him, just to see if he notices. Sometimes it's a mixture of both.
You did the right thing texting him!!! But sometimes texts are somewhat stupid.. and take a while to send. And his phone could be shut off.
Just don't push it too much. Don't rush into the kissing yet. Hugs.. holding hands.. that's all great! For now. He might just want to slow things down for a bit, even if he's more experienced. It happens. Just don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do and take things slow.. please.
Email me for more advice if you want kay? :)
And Good Luck.
2007-03-22 13:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yikes this guy sounds like a drag...trust me don't rush the kissing thing, just cuz he's your first boyfriend doesn't mean you have to kiss him, dang girl, wait for someone fun to hang out with and someone you can have intelligent conversations with, the easier it is to talk to someone, the easier it will be to kiss them.
2007-03-22 13:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something this weekend or if he wants to go to your house.. if he shows up, don't be shy make a move and you will get that kiss you've been wanting. lol. good luck.
2007-03-22 13:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't make out with a boring guy. You need someone you can talk to as well as make out with. Keep looking.
2007-03-22 13:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by kat_sista 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋