Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

im 15 turninig 16 real soon & he is 18[[dont worry he BARELEY turned 18]].....we have been together for 10 months but i have known him for almost 2 years & he asked me to move in cuz he said he really wants to be with me......BUT..... i dont know what to tell my mom I dont think she will be too happy but i really wanna be with him too.... we have been through soo much...please i really need advice

2007-03-22 21:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I need quick and easy to do suggestions to make up to my g/f after I made her feel not wanted and not cared about unknowingly. It all started with a talk over the phone on wed, and she guess from the tone of my voice that i didn't want to talk to her and that she bothered her and she felt like i didn't appriciate it. I had no intention of doing that or coming off like that. I was just tired since it was finals week so i was talking slow. I don't know if it's my fault or not, but I will take it as mine because i love her very much. At the moment, she's very hurt by this, and every since then there's been misunderstanding. I want to make it up to her since i will be seeing her tomorrow. I have 3 hours to do something cute and romantic. HELP!!!!

THANK YOU!

2007-03-22 21:15:21 · 2 answers · asked by abe_cooldude 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends boyfriend dumped her for me, but i don't want to go out with him because he was her boyfriend and that would be really rude. But like she hates me now because she said i stole him from her but i didn't do anything. and i feel bad that he likes me now but i can't control he likes me. HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-03-22 21:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 years old male. I have a love life for almost 7 years old. We (me and my girlfriend) have reached an opinion that we should marry. But we have found some difficulties that her parents is not comfortable with our relationship and we don't want hurt them by getting married without their permission. (my parents are comfortable with her ). Her parents are professors and they expected that their son in law will be also a professor. But that is not my career. I'm an architect and working in a well reputed consulting firm and earning well to get married. I love her very much but these difficulties make our relationship uncomfortable. She will end up this relationship if her parents say a firm no. I want her to be happy by any reason.

2007-03-22 21:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by Isstiaque 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some sms they ignore and others take ages to reply. How can guys not care?

2007-03-22 21:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend lets me use his computer and when i went to type certain letters into google i would find searches he made such as "young nude models", "pre teen girls", "pre teen porn" "young girls", and so on. i was a little weirded out, but i noticed that he does look up 'regular' porn, too, like "teen girls" (well i think this is regular porn. i don't look at it so i don't know much). i shamefully started being sneaky and checking his internet history (i know it is wrong..) and opened a lot of the links to images/sites/galleries of these "young models" and they are children ranging from 7-16ish looking (young looking, flat chested, etc.. clearly pre-pubescent) and sometimes girls that look older, but they are clearly underaged. over time, i noticed he views/downloads these images quite a bit, every day. i accuse him sometimes of being a perv and he says "i only look at porn 2-3 times a week, tops, i am not a perv". i just want to know what is going on. should i be concerned?

2007-03-22 21:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by puffinpaw 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im having a lot of trouble with my family, well just my brothers acually im seeing a guy who is 18 and i am 22 they wont stop picking on us its not about the age difference they just miss my ex who treated me badly ive had just about enough im at that point where i want to kill myself i cant stand them anymore, but i have a 3 year old daughter and i dont want to leave her with no one ive been trying to get a house so i dont have to put up with anyone anymore how can i stop them? its hard to get a house in this area at the moment help me!

2007-03-22 21:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by kelz 1 in Family

Me and my dating partner are not yet boyfriend and girlfriend since she has to tell this one friend of hers who has feeling for her that she doesn’t have the same feelings for him that way. I have told her about how I feel about this now for some time. I don’t want to annoy her anymore but it really bothers me. I have told her recently again and she has said she doesn’t want to be pressured into doing this. We love each other but I don’t understand why she doesn’t tell him. Should I pull away from her…? I really don’t like to be put in this situation.

2007-03-22 21:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who wants to be more serious with me. I flirt alot with the guy at work but was surprised at his comment... he pretty much doubted my b.f intentions and told me to treat him as casual and not to get my hopes up. Do you think he likes me? Why would he comment about him in that way?

2007-03-22 21:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

hope you all have a good day :) keeeeeep smiling x

2007-03-22 21:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 39 wks pregnant i have already 8 children all by the same man. we have been together 25 yrs i love him a lot but we are both recovering addicts and 4 yrs ago during getting high he got paranoid and believes im cheating on him. now still four yrs later my life is hell and i didnt even do any thing. he treats me real bad and goes into blackout rages and says really nasty things to me and i feel llike im goingthrough this pregnancy alone and i found out last week that i lost 11lb in one wk from hyperactive thyroids. should i leave him and how do i move on after loving him since i was 13 help please.

2007-03-22 21:08:11 · 10 answers · asked by karen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need some advice to give my friend. she has been friends with another girl for almost 7 years. then, a new boy came to her school and the other girl was only friends with him for about 2 months and then he got expelled. every single person in my friend's class are moping and upset he's gone and are really ignoring her completely. he deserved to be expelled because he kept using bad language towards my friend but everyone is taking his side and are saying he diidn't deserve it. when i heard my friend's side of the story, i agree with her but what should she do? when something like this happens, it doesn't go away for a long time and she will remain upset for a long time because her best friend chose a boy he knew for only 2 months over a best riend she knew for 7 years. please give me some advice i can give her.

2007-03-22 21:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and do i WANT to know? if it's gross, just tell me it's dirty and don't elaborate thanks

2007-03-22 21:05:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was in love with a girl during my high school. it has been 3 yrs since i finished the school. all the time since.. we have been in contact through mails and phones.. and my family knows about it and they treat her as if she is my future wife.I am not in my country right now and its not possible to return back so soon. well... the problem is.. as i have been far away.. i think i am not loving her these days ,,.. my love towards her is getting weaker i m just 21 right now and its long time to go until we get married . so love till then may go in both direction towards or away. I don't wanna hurt her by breaking her the promises i made her about our future.. but at the same time i am also worried about how the life would be of both of us if i do continue this relation for her happiness.. what should i do for the betterment of both of us?

2007-03-22 21:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by boyoboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21, a junior in college and have been with the same boyfriend for over two years. Since we've been together, I've been the partner who has actively tried to please the other. I regularly buy small gifts, help him out by giving him rides when he doesn't feel like driving, and help him with his homework. Additionally, he can be very demanding with these 'favors', saying that it's "normal" for a girlfriend to do this for her boyfriend. I rarely (if ever) ask for anything like this in return because I feel like it would be asking too much of him. Though he is very affectionate and constantly wants to be with me, I do not think it is an equal relationship. My friends (as well as his) have often mentioned that he asks far too much of me, and offers little in return. However, I love to be around him because we have such a great time together. We truly are best friends.

I don't know if this behavior is ok, or if my kindness is being abused. Is this acceptable behavior for a boyfriend?

2007-03-22 21:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was looking for something that has to do with heart broken so somebody please help me!!! please and tank u!!

2007-03-22 21:04:22 · 1 answers · asked by Juicy_fruit 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:01:46 · 20 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:01:21 · 17 answers · asked by LORI H 1 in Weddings

2007-03-22 21:01:07 · 3 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years almost....I really want to get married. Just wondering how long others have waited...

I don't live with him, but he is always at my apartment, we never go to his, is that weird?

2007-03-22 21:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by Gail Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

Oh my goodness, I was in my friend's room and I caught her spying on me through a mirror in the living room that reflects to her room BECAUSE I was also looking at myself in the mirror too! I can't believe she would think I would steal from her and she saids that she consider me one of her closest friend. Should I confront her?! BUt she's really like dramatic though so ???

2007-03-22 20:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i cook for him.... i take care of the babys..... i do laundry.... im not bad looking!!!! but for some odd reason hes always on the computer or playing xbox when he gets off of work.... its soo frustrating..

2007-03-22 20:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by Dee M 1 in Singles & Dating

then would women reject him for not being needed. I guess where I am coming from is the notion that two people complete each other to form one person (as a couple). That does not sound healthy to me, and does not appeal to me at all.
I would prefer to be myself, and find someone who would remain herself, to come to a mutual and equal relationship.
Is that a major turn off or even prevent any sort of relationship. Even further, is it really so wrong? Am I somehow attempting to shortchange her orr diminish her role?
I'd just like to throw that out there to further debate, and look forward to your thoughts.
thanks.

2007-03-22 20:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by fromorto12 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 20:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Friends

2007-03-22 20:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by lshenglr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How often does this desire come around? Is it after a certain type of sex? What does this desire mean to you?

2007-03-22 20:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Unfinished 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 20:56:37 · 2 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Friends

The life is hectic, the time is the costliest asset, so be innovative and original. Express it, splash it out.

2007-03-22 20:54:58 · 7 answers · asked by Brave Heart 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I wanna break up a couple, I dont need to hear any more dont do it, its not worth it and, karma will get you I dont care about that s***. I'm doing this for revenge. So I was doing this girl that had a boyfriend and she told me that she thought she was pregnant and that it was mine. So her and him broke up for other reasons and she came to stay with me for a few days. She told me she loved me and so on, but she soon told me she wasnt pregnant and she left to get back with him. Then a few nights ago at a party one of her friends told me ( while she was drunk) what would you do if you found out she had an abortion, and then when I asked did she, she became silent and left. I swore never to talk to her again ( the girl I was sleeping with) so how do I break up her relationship without her knowing it was me. She screwed up my life now I want to do it to her life.

2007-03-22 20:53:51 · 13 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1 in Singles & Dating