Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

so me and this guy have been going out for over a month and alot of the time hes real sweet and i like him so much and other (rare) times he makes me feel kinda stupid. so the day before valentines day i was pondering on what i should do and then i went onto his homepage account thingy cuz i guessed his password (he knew mine) and found some dirty messages he wrote to 2 different girls! i got angry but then i thought it was a good excuse to end this with him cuz i wasn't sure i wanted to be with him anymore. so i printed out the messages and the next day (valentines day) at lunch i put them up in my locker which i shared with him and left the school. (plus i typed a note at the bottem explaining i wanted him outta my locker and that he was a jerk ect.) so after lunch i seen him and he comes up to me and starts getting mad and throws the paper at me and saying i tottaly blew it. was what i did harsh? did i overdo it? or was that the right thing to do???

2007-03-22 22:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by smarta$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for four years, together for eight, we got married when I was 18 and he was 21. He was the only person I'd been with up until a couple of months ago. We've been having issues and I'm not getting any communication from him at all he typically falls asleep while I'm talking. I've been feeling like he's not attracted to me for over a year and while I was on vacation with some friends in january I hooked up with a guy I dated briefly in high school, then last month I was on vacation agian with friends and I hooked up with a friend of a friend. Now I don't know what to do. My husband thinks somethings up cause I took so many trips alone and he's been trying harder to make time for me but at this point I don't know if I should just leave and try and find a relationship that will make me happy or if I should just come clean and tell him what happens in hopes that it'll be a big wake up call for him to try and save our marriage? I have no idea! Please help!

2007-03-22 22:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by watchnessarock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 22:57:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

rive there since she didn't call me if when and where to meet her so i went out with my friends when she called and found out what i did she got a bit angry and hung up...
i know it's not that much of a big deal but it was ac crucial time that i missed since i was the one who asked her to hold on to me and... now i f**ked it up myself!
any suggestions on what i should say to her?

2007-03-22 22:56:38 · 2 answers · asked by Ah-oom 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife gained far too much weight and I am no longer attracted to her. I love her and she is great, but no feelings for someone who refused to control her weight. I have no one outside the marriage, although I could, I believe in forsaking all others when your married. Can't help my feelings of attraction, and feeling lonley.

2007-03-22 22:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by rick p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If inner beauty is more important, then how come we spend most of our money on clothes, hair, make up etc while we dont spend even a sec looking in to our inner self?

What do u do, for your self?

2007-03-22 22:56:08 · 12 answers · asked by Janey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do I deserve another chance?
Me and my husband have been happily married for 8 years.We had 2 kids, one 4 the other 6.Three month ago my younger son Jordon passed away from cancer and it just about killed me.I wasn't dealing at all and left town a month after the funeral to stay with an ex-boyfriend/good friend to get myself together,leaving my husband and 6 yr old on their own.I stayed away for 3 months because I just couldn't deal with being at home where everything reminded me of my son.I came home last week and although my son was overjoyed to see me,my husband has barely said a word to me since I left.He begged me to come home whenever I called but I was never ready until now and now it seems it's too late and he can't forgive me for leaving.I don't believe in getting professional help.What do I do?

2007-03-22 22:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it bad that I'm 19 and still a virgin?
Note, I'm male, even though the avatar's female, this is my sister's account, I didn't want to register.

2007-03-22 22:55:22 · 20 answers · asked by ceninant 2 in Singles & Dating

seeing two together that is...howcome?

2007-03-22 22:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how will u know if he still likes you?

2007-03-22 22:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by kenski 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14,an only child,and live with my mum.

A song got me thinking about my dad and now i'm feeling a bit depressed,so I thought i'd get some general public opinion and advice.

2007-03-22 22:50:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well basically this guy i like is shy and i'm shy as well. he doesn't really mix around with people other than his group. plus, i always feel nervous when i'm around him. i really wanna be friends with him too.

2007-03-22 22:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by ALYC 1 in Singles & Dating

I adore him too

2007-03-22 22:48:18 · 24 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 2 yrs. We used to live close and see each other every day but he has been sent back to the US (Air Force).

I have visited him once in 6 months (we havent been able to meet up since). We love each other but it is hard.

He stopped returning my calls etc for 3 weeks and I just assumed it was over. I called him last night and he answered but said that he hadnt called me because he is so depressed about everything. He loves me but it has made him so unhappy that he blocked this side of him life out.

I know that if we were together things would be different and we would be happy. He says the same. We have another 1 1/2 years to go apart.

Do i break up with him?

If he would agree I want to have a long break for the next 2 yrs to sort out what we want. We can live our lives totally seperate, keep in touch occasionally and then at the end of the 2 years work out what we want to do.

Is this a good idea?

He is worried I will find someone else.

2007-03-22 22:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by salsabrunette 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl alot and i think she likes me,,, her mum likes me but her dad doesnt like me becoz of my religion...
Wot do i do...?
Do i back away from her.. Before it gets too serious..

2007-03-22 22:46:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is being asked to all kinds of woman

2007-03-22 22:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by nafchoud 1 in Singles & Dating

can someone just explain to me what it is about breasts that they find so appealing lol and what it you favourite size?

2007-03-22 22:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our football teams
Lager
Acting daft in the pub
Our cars

and an absolute sense of denial about weight and appearance.

Anyone else got any examples.

2007-03-22 22:44:40 · 13 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is in high school.. and if i ask this girl i like and have gone out with a couple of times... "how do you feel with me around?" or sth similar like this? how would you feel, girls? after she answers this, i can also pretty much figure out if she likes me or not right as well, correct? also, can you help me change the question if this question is bad? thanks

2007-03-22 22:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for almost 19 years. Have 2 wonderful daughters, ages 13 & 16. She says she does not love me like a wife should love a husband. And that she has stayed all these years because it was safe. But when we make love, its real, it has its passion "most" of the time, and we both are WELL satisfied....multi times per for her. She's even told me that "IF" we ever got a divorce, that she would still have to see me in that way. She's having to take PAXIL for panic attacks, and she is getting to her mid life crisis age. I am so lost. I still love her with all my heart.

2007-03-22 22:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by smiley3fan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has run off with a man 16 years younger but came back for sex twice in the last 6 weeks is this love or infatuation and nothing else matters apart from this other guy

2007-03-22 22:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by Bob D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All day and all night, 24/7 my boyfriend, who is also the father of my baby, and my fiance, sits on the computer. He is very addicted to online games such as World Of Warcraft. I dont know what to do to get off the computer and spend more time with me and our child.

2007-03-22 22:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by LostInTheCrowd 2 in Family

for men-they are getting more non classy and women-there is a thin line between sexy and vulgar and most of them are getting very'' come one come all ''

2007-03-22 22:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a severe case of preeclampsia and had to have an emergency c-section 6 weeks ago. I am still sore and have no desire for sex I gave it a try and it hurt really hurt bad but my husband just doesnt get it and wont leave me alone about it. I know the man has needs but I am really not ready IT HURTS what do I need to say to make him get it. Plus I really dont want to get pregnant again.

2007-03-22 22:36:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been happily married for 8 years.We had 2 kids, one 4 the other 6.Three month ago my younger son Jordon passed away from cancer and it just about killed me.I wasn't dealing at all and left town a month after the funeral to stay with an ex-boyfriend/good friend to get myself together,leaving my husband and 6 yr old on their own.I stayed away for 3 months because I just couldn't deal with being at home where everything reminded me of my son.I came home last week and although my son was overjoyed to see me,my husband has barely said a word to me since I left.He begged me to come home whenever I called but I was never ready until now and now it seems it's too late and he can't forgive me for leaving.I don't believe in getting professional help.What do I do?

2007-03-22 22:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 22:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by courtney_hewitt 1 in Family

I feel so horrible , i don't deserve to be my baby's mom. Oh my gosh, I dare , what was I thinking to yell at my 6 mon old baby. I will never forgive myself, no matter how stress i am, I shouldn't yell at my love like that (crying). I'm in a death end where my husband is not supporting me mentally, I don't care about financially help bcus i believe I can take care of my daughter and I myself as I always do. He expecting us to live wit his family but I have no privacy here. His sis always comes to my room and her bf takes my baby out of my sight withou saying anything. My husband is still asking for his parents approval even things related between me and him. He bought his family cars, house, and take them to shopping but I don't mind as long we move out and have our own place. He rejected, told me he will never move out, he wants to help them forever.

2007-03-22 22:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for almost 2 years and everytime i am the one getting jealous, i dont try to make her jealous and than when i do i feel bad that i ever did it...she like kind of took control of the relationship in the past couple of months, she keeps getting everything her way! and also she is treated like a queen, literally like a queen, kind of spoiled her...what do i do now? how do i get out of it? thank you

2007-03-22 22:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by justanotherguy 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want any answers that say both!

If you're a lady, tell me which you would prefer in a man.

If you're a man, tell me which you would prefer to be.

2007-03-22 22:33:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 22:32:33 · 22 answers · asked by david c 1 in Marriage & Divorce