so me and this guy have been going out for over a month and alot of the time hes real sweet and i like him so much and other (rare) times he makes me feel kinda stupid. so the day before valentines day i was pondering on what i should do and then i went onto his homepage account thingy cuz i guessed his password (he knew mine) and found some dirty messages he wrote to 2 different girls! i got angry but then i thought it was a good excuse to end this with him cuz i wasn't sure i wanted to be with him anymore. so i printed out the messages and the next day (valentines day) at lunch i put them up in my locker which i shared with him and left the school. (plus i typed a note at the bottem explaining i wanted him outta my locker and that he was a jerk ect.) so after lunch i seen him and he comes up to me and starts getting mad and throws the paper at me and saying i tottaly blew it. was what i did harsh? did i overdo it? or was that the right thing to do???
2007-03-22 22:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by smarta$$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm i wulda stabbed him lol .. trust me it wasnt harsh .. wen guys get agressive towards sum1 lyk wot he did with you it usually means there guilty of it and hav 2 get defensive ..
never let a guy treat you that way .. your the girl all girls should admire .. you set it straight and you didnt go cryin 2 him n want 2 stay with him ..
your an admiration 4 al girls !!
2007-03-23 00:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by jessiii 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, you sound young. Most young guys really just dont care about anything, let alone a girl. My advice: It is what is. Just forget this dude and dont worry about a relationship right now. The less you think about it, the easier it will happen. Good Luck.
2007-03-23 06:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was right! and your Very lucky that you got out of that relationship as fast and easy as you did. Your guy, is one one those that lure you in with their sweetness and then blast your life apart with their sudden bursts of anger and violence. Stay away from him and under NO circumstances, allow him work his way back into your life with apologies and promises. It only gets worse and more violent.
2007-03-23 06:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of Guys like to flirt .. i doesnt mean a thing .. thats how guys are...
Maybe u should have talked to him about this rather than sending a note...
Yes he over reacted not you....
Only solution is to dicuss it together.. its apto u whether u wanna break up with him or stay...
2007-03-23 06:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the right thing to do. I would of done the same thing. Get over that and move on because you don't need him in your life.
2007-03-23 06:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, you deserve better
2007-03-23 06:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by alckelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have talked to him about it. But you did confront him and found out he is not what you wanted. move on.
2007-03-23 06:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by hascht2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋