Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

ne ways here is the pondering question: i have dated this guy named "christian" for almost 20 months yet decided to call the relationship quits 6 weeks ago. well, now we are on good terms of great friends and watching movies, spending time together and enjoying each other's co. we are still in love with each other yet i wonder if i am more in love with him or a simple idiot for being in love with him still. we recently had a conversation about dating and he asked me if i would be happy for him if he were to date someone. my questiion is the following: is he ready to move on? does he not care ne more even though he tells me that he loves me? and when i told him "i love you"-it slipped- he said me too and another time he said "uh huh". what the heck does his behavior mean?

2007-03-22 20:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with this guy but i'm only using him for his money,i'm dumping him soon,tell me your stories?

2007-03-22 20:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 20:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-22 20:50:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean would I say " Hi can we talk over some coffee?" or something.

2007-03-22 20:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 20:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by UNIVERSALCIRCLES 2 in Friends

I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.

She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?

Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.

Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.

This girls actions are confusing...

2007-03-22 20:46:08 · 19 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 20:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by masturarazali m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started out as a man and I became a women instead and after like 2 weeks I went back to the doctor and wanted to be a man agian so they did a reverse surgury and know its 2 days later and I want to be a women agian but my wife will probley divorce me if she has to pay for another surgury what should I do these cost alot of money.

2007-03-22 20:45:07 · 14 answers · asked by Zach 1 in Singles & Dating

listen, i want to make my friend curious with a picture of a cute boy so she comes over to my house. thats it. and i want a picture of a cute boy on a website or link. so please help me. this is so frustrating.

2007-03-22 20:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-22 20:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by carrie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out that my bf may be smoking occasionally and drinking as well (hopefully not an addiction), and I know you all think it's not a big deal, but to me, smoking/drinking is. Another big deal is the fact that he's lying about it. Well not lying, but not telling me that he does it with his best friend. I haven't smelled smoke nor have I seen cigs, etc. but I have people who have told me about specific iinstances where he did do those things. How do I bring it up? Should I just wait to catch him? I would appreciate a girl's P.O.V. first. Thanks!
Oh and it's nothing to break up over at all. I just don't appreciate being lied to or the fact that he's doing things I don't like.

2007-03-22 20:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by greendancingshooz 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old, and i hate the living Cr*ap out of my mum and step father. My mum was abusive (physically/mentally - booted me out as a child onto street etc) to me all my life and my stepfather is a smart assed D**k ****er. They say the worst things and i'm just expected to take it. All i can say is that if i wasn't so young and doing my degree i would move out. Unfortunatly cos of full time uni, it's impossible for me financially to support myself because i can do max 15 hours of work a week. So i'm stuck here living with people i hate and would rather see sprawled out dead on the side walk.

Are there any people who had a dislike for their parents or still do and can't leave? If so, what are some things you do to make it more bearable until the day when you can jsut leave and feel free and wonderful that you never have to see your parents again.

Before you call me unreasonable, i want to assure you that we have tried to fix our relationship but we are much too incompatible.

2007-03-22 20:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you date a girl that is considered a tomboy only by the way she dresses...Girl low rider jeans...but a big t- shirt...Would you look at her or turn the other way and just make an assumption about her personality?

2007-03-22 20:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Singles & Dating

He says stand up to her. The stuff he says sounds like he wants me to be strong...and I try. But she is downright obnoxious. I am to the point I don't think I can continue being friends with him. I am hurting so much. No matter what I do, she is trying to run my life! I swear I don't know how to stop her! I know she has a boyfriend, but she doesn't want me to get close to my friend. How can I maintain control of my own life. She has taken over. She told me tonight not to call him "Baby" which is what we call each other.

2007-03-22 20:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I busted him cheating & then he denied it, so I dumped him. So he told me to send him back everything he gave me in the mail. Why spend money mailing it when I can go to his house & bring it? He's too ashamed to show me his family. He doesn't live far at all.

2007-03-22 20:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19 & shes alwayz torturing me swearing at me & blames evry wrong thing on me,,,,im lyk crying 24/7 i dont know what 2 do........for some reason i cant even leave the house i have 2 stay there cause of rest of my family, i even told my dad about this he says just ignore her....i cant ignore it she alwayz says nasty stuff 2 me n therefore if i back chat her she gets worser.
plz help me !!!

2007-03-22 20:40:29 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-03-22 20:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by sxc_vj88 1 in Friends

When I find some one to ask out I just get nervouse and can't think of anything to say.I mean what do you say to a complete stranger? Can I please get some help.

2007-03-22 20:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by thewiseman288 2 in Singles & Dating

Why can't they just be honest & let their partner know how they feel & try to work things out so that the relationship can last longer? Or straight tell the other that you don't wanna be with him/her anymore?

2007-03-22 20:38:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 20:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Friends

can some1 can help me out to present my feelings to her.

2007-03-22 20:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by mohammed_mohsin19 1 in Friends

My boyfriend denied cheating on me, but then when he got busted, he admitted that he HALFWAY cheated on me. Can someone explain this in further detail?

2007-03-22 20:35:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I could not take it anymore, My husband and his distant cousin who too is married but her husband works far and can only come over for a day in a week.
They flirt openly, spend time together send themselves love messages.
The woman calls my husband early in the morning and once I answered the phone and told her to behave appropriately,she doesnt seem to care but so does my husband. Meanwhile I do not get any kind of love from my husband but he gives it all to her so this time she called I gave her a piece of my mind but also called her husband, he would like to meet me, but I would like to stay annonymous, he seems to be surprised and may need more evidence but I wanted him to do his own investgation.however since he is with her once a week I think it may be diffcult and all I have are Love messages from each other from my husbands phone but cant foward them bse I do not want to reaveal my self to him.
Do you think talking to the husband will do something?

2007-03-22 20:33:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and this girl were best friends for about a year. that whole year she had a huge crush she describes it as "for a girl to like you this much is once in a lifetime". i didnt ever think of her as more than a friend until we started messing around during the summer and then at the end of the summer we got together. i gave her everything she could want. if she wanted something i bought it for her. i look around me and i see guys treating their girl like **** and they get more than i got from my girlfriend. i was always kind to my girlfriend and in return she never cared about my feelings, played with my emotions, ignored me, left me for her friends but i still loved her. our relationship got better and we were both happy. she never made time for me even though i drop any plans for her and always told her how much i loved her and appreciated me. girls wanted me but i didnt ever cheat on her even if she treated me like **** and constantly played with my emotions and never listened to me..

2007-03-22 20:33:26 · 18 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me one month ago. I tried to contact him for a while but there wasn't any responses from him and finally I gave up.

I changed my msn account, didn't call him and didn't text him. He flared up at me when he found out I changed my msn account and even said "You might as well change your moblie number!"

I don't understand why he's still so upset and angry at me when he's the one who said its all over. MEN!

2007-03-22 20:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

Guns N' Roses has got to be the best band of all time!!! I'm gona post a link, hopefully it works. It will take you to a video of Guns N' Roses, along with Tom Petty, singing Free Falling. GNR makes this song sound so much better ( I'm not saying Tom Petty can't sing, I think he's very good), trust me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stXKDRRiWOA
If the link's not there, just go to Youtube and type in Guns N' Roses-Tom petty and axl 89'.
Oh, about the voting - Yes or no - Do you think GNR is the best (or one of the best) band of all time?

2007-03-22 20:33:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made around 73,000 playing tournaments last year for playing well video games. I dropped out of school I practice around 50-60 hours a week. But I do not have a girlfriend I am 16 and I got acne and stuff. Never had a girlfriend hmm I really need one though since everyone in my clan has one sept me.

2007-03-22 20:31:19 · 15 answers · asked by Zach 1 in Singles & Dating

its called ''going home''

2007-03-22 20:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by alamo16584 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf jus broke up with him. I know he is a decent guy overall, but during our breakup, he was being hot&cold&hot&cold like a jerk.

2007-03-22 20:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Singles & Dating