I busted him cheating & then he denied it, so I dumped him. So he told me to send him back everything he gave me in the mail. Why spend money mailing it when I can go to his house & bring it? He's too ashamed to show me his family. He doesn't live far at all.
2007-03-22 20:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are gifts he gave to you. He cannot have them back. No police officer or small claims judge will allow him to get them back.
What an idiot...can you get your last 6 1/2 months back? No...the guy is being a cheap jerk.
Look forward, DON'T look back.
2007-03-22 21:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the cause of the relationship breakdown, it is both petty and nonsensical for him to demand that you give back any gifts he gave you previously. I'd ignore him and go on with your life, unless you really don't want to keep the things he gave you due to the bad memories they have for you. Then you can pack them in boxes, leave them on his doorstep, and call him to say they're waiting there. Mailing heavy packages would certainly be an expensive way of doing it, and it sounds as if he might be suggesting it out of spite alone.
2007-03-22 20:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't get over you and wants things back. Forget it. I would just ignore him and would rather throw his stuff away. Why waste money on mailing them back? What kind of guy is he anyway? Demanding things after a break up. WHAT A LOSER!
2007-03-22 20:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gothic Martha, but I would take the gifts and sell them. They are gifts! He can't aske for them back!
2007-03-23 11:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by FairyGurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep his stuff! He gave it to you! Although, if you don't want the reminders chuck them out... but if he really wants them back - make him come and get them from you! X
2007-03-22 20:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in ALL honesty, i wouldn't even bother. if someone was unfaithful to me and asked for the gifts back, i would laugh and either flush them, burn them, or donate them. last thing you would want is something that once meant a lot to you to now mean something to someone else.
2007-03-22 20:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by X-tine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a video of you burning the stuff he gave you and mail him the video.
2007-03-22 20:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, anything that he gave you is yours. If all you do is put it in a box and leave it in the corner, keep it.
2007-03-22 20:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come pick it up if he wants it. Leave it on the doorstep if you don't want to see him. Its not your responsibility to make sure he gets his crap back.
2007-03-22 20:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give them back at all. He gave them to you, they are yours to keep.
2007-03-22 20:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋