I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.
She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?
Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.
Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.
This girls actions are confusing...
2007-03-22 20:46:08 · 19 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's waiting for you to ask her for that coffee.
The longer you wait, the more she'll pretend to ignore you.
Then she just might give up on you.
2007-03-22 20:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by puppies.sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i am the same way. when i like a guy a lot, i would do the same. Why? i really am trying to figure it out. Every guy that i do not care for on a personal level, i can be very open and sociable, every guy that i do like i ll look at him, talk small talks, but at the end just ignore him, not because i want to, but because i am scared, better word, nervous, so much to the point where i would rather ignore him. A suggestion. if you notice this sighs, be more insistent. when she will see that you are as interested as her she may loosen up a bit, and actually give you the opportunity to know each other. you will see, with time things will change, and she will open up. Probably she is the king of girl who takes everything very personally, that is why it is hard. Please be patient. Good luck.
P.S. it is hard for me to explain why exactly this happens, but for sure she is in to you too much.
2007-03-23 03:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you and she has given you the opening to ask her out a few times now and either you are ot interested or you are oblivious to her signals. The fact that she didn't greet you like the others could mean that she is tired of trying to make you see what is so obvious. I hope for your sake you ahven't blown your chance with her. Pluck up the courage and ask her to go and have coffee with you - take a leap of faith, you never know where it might end. Good Luck
2007-03-23 03:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a hard guy to convince, aren't you? Yeah, most of us can be confusing...look past that. Ask her out. I doubt she'll say no but even if she does you surely won't be the first guy that's ever had a girl to say no. Even the Casanova's get turned down at times (though some wouldn't admit to this).
Don't wait for her to ask you. Be a man and take the initiative. My own husband admitted that he'd like to date me and I was engaged to another. I couldn't help but admire his guts.
If you don't take this lady out someone else will come along and then it may be too late for you. Think about that ...but not too long.
2007-03-23 04:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you and is maybe too afraid to say so. Do you like her? If you do maybe you should make a move. Its possible she feels that she has made the first move by asking for your number and email, now she is probably waiting to see what you do. Good luck with everything.
2007-03-23 03:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by lozzy_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is waiting for you to make the first move-she opened the door for you, now it is your turn. Not all women feel it is ok to call guys, at least not till you are bf/gf, & some still think the man should do the asking.
Alot of men are afraid of rejection so they never ask, at least till they are older & more sure of themselves, but she gave you the ok.
2007-03-23 03:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to have coffee or lunch with you after church one Sunday.
2007-03-23 03:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the way you have described it I think she likes you. Why dont you try having coffee with her and see how it goes, if she likes you it will definately show.
2007-03-23 03:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes u. No doubt. At first she was eagar to get to know u, and she still is! But now she may be a little nervous and shy about it! ^_^
2007-03-23 03:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to have coffee to find out what she is interested in.
What does she do? What would you like to do together?
If you like her, invite her for lunch, dinner, movies etc.
2007-03-23 04:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Fred W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋