He says stand up to her. The stuff he says sounds like he wants me to be strong...and I try. But she is downright obnoxious. I am to the point I don't think I can continue being friends with him. I am hurting so much. No matter what I do, she is trying to run my life! I swear I don't know how to stop her! I know she has a boyfriend, but she doesn't want me to get close to my friend. How can I maintain control of my own life. She has taken over. She told me tonight not to call him "Baby" which is what we call each other.
2007-03-22 20:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can she tell YOU what to do and what not to do? Furthermore, how's she gonna know what you call him? If she has a b/f ,why is she all up in yours anyway? You don't need to stand up to her, that would mean you have something to prove. Just ignore her azz, that should work good as gold!
She wont fight if she's by herself!
2007-03-22 20:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously think about this - what if your best friend came and told you this? What would you say to her??
Tell this girl to back off and mind her own damn business. And if this guy doesn't have the guts to stand up for you after seeing and hearing the way she treats you, maybe you should rethink liking this dude!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-03-23 03:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to stick her head into your relationship tell her to take a hike you don't need outside people dictating your relationship they are hard enough to keep on the rails without someone elses input.
Next time she says anything tell her to get f****d and get out of your life you don't need her.
2007-03-23 03:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea it doesnt make sense but i think...think...i might know what your saying...pretty much back the f*CK OFF if thats her BF and your calling him baby...your just an attention seeker, respect the boundries of a couple. your trying to get in the middle of things and thats not right.
2007-03-23 03:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl get rid of this friend, you allowing her to walk all over you...Be strong and tell her to stay away from you...
2007-03-23 03:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight that you dont want her to control your life in a nice way so that she will not feel disappointed and explain to her why you dont like what is she doing to you so she could understand you...
2007-03-23 03:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because the guy is not treating you right. She's trying to help you?
But if you don't need the advice then don't take it.
2007-03-23 04:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by liliglorry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to shut the **** up! It's like she's cheating off your test, you already knew it and she's just copying it.
2007-03-23 04:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question doesn't even make sense. if someone is trying to control your life, DONT LET THEM. DUH. it's not like they are holding you hostage and torturing you. it's your life you can do whatever the hell you want to do.
2007-03-23 03:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ bp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTF??
2007-03-23 03:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋