Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

Hi Guys! I had a question for you guys:

I am in college and I like this girl. I am to shy to really talk much to her. I was able a few weeks ago get the nerve to "attempt" a conversation. The story goes, I have been seeing this girl in my neighborhood who walks some. As I pay more attention she walks more. I always see her and she looks my way, always nods and smiles a half smile, or just gives me a full smile, and in either event waves. I do not see her doing this to others though. I know when "I" walk, she is quick to be the first to smile and wave at me from her car. Finally , in about mid February, I stopped and tried to make some small talk. I saw her again that day on her second trip passed my house and we talked again. I had asked her a question, and she was quick with an answer and smiling adding that she had some achievment that was related to that topic. I was not sure if I should give it another try talking with her, and mabey ask her out or just leave it be as it is?

2007-03-22 21:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men, do you look at porn and, well you know, more then you have sex with your girl?

2007-03-22 21:36:11 · 1 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy for about 1 year plus and the relationship ended abt a mth ago. This guy can be quite angry, insensitive, self-centered, bad-tempered and insults me from time to time. Of course, we had some good moments together...

I don't blame him at all for his behavior. He comes from a broken family and that might have caused him to become this way today.

Will he ever grow up and change one day? Will he realise his mistakes and learn from them? What do you people think?

2007-03-22 21:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

can rumors and gossip effect a relationship even if both parties know they aren't real. Example if the guy in the relationship is the kind that thinks hes a playa and a pimp, can the rumor of his girlfriend cheating, even if not true break them up. And on the other hand would a person stay with a girl if he knows she cheated but he thinks hes to fat to find somebody else.

2007-03-22 21:33:58 · 11 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1 in Singles & Dating

What do people get into this whole "Yahoo-Answers points" thing? It just seems so pointless! Comeone people, let's all have a laugh and say ta hell with 'em.

2007-03-22 21:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's super, but I have to maintain my sanity. This girl is trying to come between us even thought she has her own boyfriend. Why won't she just mind her own business? He tells me to stand up to her and be strong. He tells her that I know what he and I have together. We call each other Baby and it goes right through her. She threatened to beat me up if I didn't stop. She's "sick of me"...How does she think I feel? I came home nauseous tonight after an altercation with her.

2007-03-22 21:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the other day i met up with a friend i hadnt seen in a long time so it was great to catch up. a group of us went out for drinks and he drank waaayy too much. he became aggressive and forced me to get in the car with him. 3 of my mates saw him drag me into the car but couldnt catch up so they drove behind us. my friend was driving all over the place and i was yelling at him to stop the car but he only stopped after 15min because he needed to get out to throw-up. my 3 mates that followed tried to take me away from him but he said that if i didnt go in the back seat with him (as one of my friends drove him home) he would jump infront of a moving car. we didnt no wat else to do so i had to sit there in the back seat with him and he wouldnt keep his hands off me. he now says that what happend was my fault. what do i do??

2007-03-22 21:33:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:32:38 · 31 answers · asked by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 in Marriage & Divorce

would you take it - and how far would you be prepared to go - down to lingerie, topless or nude

2007-03-22 21:32:36 · 19 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend really isn't a morning person but she is short with me in the morning. How do i tell her that i am getting sick of her being short with me in the morning?

2007-03-22 21:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by lb_surferman 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like shy girls?

2007-03-22 21:31:13 · 24 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

being agovt employee and iam well settled in bhilai ., looking for a traditional girl with good family background and having good qualification in the field of science or commerce .

2007-03-22 21:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by sachi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy knows you like him what would be a reason for him complimenting you on your picture?

2007-03-22 21:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, well, my bf has alot of girls that are friends and i'm cool with that but one of them, emily, i guess was telling him that he never gave her a chance to make him happy and that he deserves her not me... and he didn't take this well and he's about to end a 7 year friendship with her over me... should i just let him do his thing or should i get involved???

2007-03-22 21:28:55 · 23 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:26:51 · 2 answers · asked by saint2mas 1 in Friends

This guy I was not interested in or attracted to kissed me on the lips after hugging him at church.I was so grossed out and offended......Has something like this ever happened to you?

2007-03-22 21:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

problem; ex girlfrnd seen with child, looks like me,timely with the break up,don't know for sure cause i can't find them ..want picture atleast to see if maurey is warrented

2007-03-22 21:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by charles b38 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is stimulating a man intellectually, sexually spiritually just a waste of times at all?.I m not generalizing, there are a few very great men who are happy in their relationships. Is beauty STILL the main factor in a relationship? Are there more choices out there so love is no more love for what it suppose to stand for...I will love you into the next year. Now it's i'll love just until tomorrow, depends on how the sex is. All about the sex. Not all men. Will the real men please stand up. Sorry ur married. When mature adult women talk about their frustrations in hoping for a good man, people are normally ready to pass judgement and characterize her.Immediately she thinks herself as bad. I'm not popular and loud but a goodhearted person. Where are the real adult men whom God put aside for normal good hearted women. In the chatroom?

2007-03-22 21:24:06 · 11 answers · asked by Ari-ah 3 in Singles & Dating

ok... so me && me boyfriend been together for 3 years... but theres something wrong with me and holding grudges.. he had left me for about six months.. for this girl at work.. not to mention she was married and left her husband for my bf.. and i guess it didnt work out or whatever.. and he came back to me.. and i was in depression and i took him back.. and i think i should've waited.. i was pregnant and i did have guys that wanted to go out with me but i was really depressed... and now im back with my boyfriend.. and i cant let it go.. i cant let go of the fact that he left me for another girl.. everytime we argue about something small i bring it up i know its wrong but its something i cant control....what should i do?....

2007-03-22 21:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by Dee M 1 in Singles & Dating

we often hear thst a man should satisfy a woman and vice versa. but actually what does satisfaction in sex means.when does a man gets satisfaction in sex and how does a woman gets satisfied.

2007-03-22 21:22:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by necktie7777 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I need quick and easy to do suggestions to make up to my g/f after I made her feel not wanted and not cared about unknowingly. It all started with a talk over the phone on wed, and she guess from the tone of my voice that i didn't want to talk to her and that she bothered her and she felt like i didn't appriciate it. I had no intention of doing that or coming off like that. I was just tired since it was finals week so i was talking slow. I don't know if it's my fault or not, but I will take it as mine because i love her very much. At the moment, she's very hurt by this, and every since then there's been misunderstanding. I want to make it up to her since i will be seeing her tomorrow. I have 3 hours to do something cute and romantic. HELP!!!!

THANK YOU!

2007-03-22 21:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by abe_cooldude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this problem that i won't talk to a guy once he starts to show me some attention. Some abusive things in the past have made me think low of myself. Its weird cuz why can't i just be friends with a guy? I kinda get all weird when a guy makes me a compliment because i can't help but think its not true! Or I'll be walking in the mall and some guy will start yelling after me or whistle or something. and i know they'r checking me out .. but it just gets me on guard and i just wanna them to go away.

lately a lot of guys have been giving me attention or trying to call me or something. I think they all think i'm one of those "hard to get" girls...but i'm not. I actually would go on a date if one of em asked me. Its just that i can't help but act like i'm not interested, even if i am. i don't think God gave me the ability to flirt!!! I know you'll all say..."just talk to them" Well i cant!!!!!!!! I'm okay around my girl friends.by the way i'm 17

2007-03-22 21:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by Alie 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't want to beg him back....i've already done alot of damage to my dignity by begging him back. he won't budge ....but what do i do with these nights that i miss him... and remember the way we used to be...it hurts soooo bad. i feel awful.

2007-03-22 21:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay heres the story

My husband was married to his ex for 11 years, she had a 1 1/2 year old daughterwhen they met, whom shes had 3 guys tested and all 3 have come back negative as the father. Shes now 15. They have a biological son whose 12. and a 7 year old girl who no one knows who the father is. He was in the army the whole marriage and was stationed in Germany when she got pregnant with the 6 yr old. she tried to lie and say it was his but he was over there. He forgave her and they stayed togeather for a while. they divorced and now hes married to me. He pays child support for his son but also takes care of the girls to. They all call him dad. They all come down to our house. Theyve even lived with us. We'll I now have a 4 week old daughter with him and he called to tell them when she was born and his ex told them he had his perfect family and she wont let them come down anymore. She tells them he dosent love them. I feel like Its my fault cause I wanted my own baby?

2007-03-22 21:19:20 · 4 answers · asked by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 in Family

My husband is going through a lot right now. He's depressed and he's hurting. I feel like a complete jerk because I've done nothing but complain to him about his issues. I really feel I need to change and start supporting him, rather than arguing with him. Right now, he needs me more than anyone and I feel so hurt because I don't know how to help him. I don't even know where to begin. How can I get over my issues and start helping him with his? How do I support both of us through this horrible time?

2007-03-22 21:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems every woman tries to change and mold the man into their own "creation". Why?

2007-03-22 21:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when he asks me to do something for him i look straight into his eyes and i say "i'll have to think about it or i don't know,we'll see.But i say it in a joking way with a half smile and he takes me seriously. He looks at me real serious. what does this mean?We talk all the time and laugh and everything.He's even asked me to hang out before.

2007-03-22 21:17:22 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by DON 1 in Singles & Dating

when you first meet each other - to "Hey, Lisa" the next time you meet - does he feel attracted to you or just more comfortable ?

2007-03-22 21:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating