It seems every woman tries to change and mold the man into their own "creation". Why?
2007-03-22 21:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most women have this superficial way of thinking. They do things just to see how far they can push you. How far they push you is really up to you. I personally don't try to change a man. It doesn't work anyways and always ends up disastrous.
2007-03-22 21:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. With time, people get to know each other more and more to little details. Relationship is about a compromise. Everybody have to give up something in order to work out the relationship, because nobody is perfect. Are you sure that she is tyring to change you not to try to make your relationship stronger? Because if she would not like you for who you are in the first place, why would she be in relationship with you at all? Think about it. They are millions of different people but she chose you, because you is what she wants, but we all try to make things better then they are. If you feel like she is being too pushy, or demanding that makes you feel that you have to be somebody else for her instead of what you are, let her know. She will back off. Just be honest and tell her how you feel. If she cares about YOU, she will get the point.
2007-03-22 21:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no earthly idea of what a real relationship involves so they are trying to transform a "bad catch" into a "good man".
Oh, and keep in mind, the universe keeps telling these women, "Ahem, I think you are doing this all wrong," but most woman ignore the red flags and continue in their insanity.
It really is as simple as that.
2007-03-22 21:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women will, but for the most part, the man treats her a certain way during the courting stage of the relationship, and then once he has her, he stops doing all those nice things that he used to. so in my opinion, often enough, it's the man that changes.
2007-03-23 01:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that in a relationship it is about that person helping their spouse be a better person, if that is what that person is looking to do. And for the record, all women is not like that.
2007-03-22 21:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by delicioustrouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's call expectation. Just tell her to accept you as who you are as you can accept her as who she is. If she understands, she'll reduce her demand gradually. If she can't accept you then you are both not meant to be... ...
But if you have unacceptable habits then you probably know why every women you met tried to change you. If it is for the betterment of yourself, why not change?
2007-03-22 21:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Coco2say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why do all " So you know for a fact that ALL women do this? You are stating that you KNOW ALL women...wow you must have a lot of money in order to travel around the world getting know ALL women and knowing what they do in their relationships.
2007-03-22 21:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about the control man. women love to have the upper hand brag that they got there man on check. which in my opinion is pretty sad but hey women will be women.
2007-03-22 21:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by mel_sophia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do this. Immature girls do this, since they are in love with an idea, a look, not the real person.
2007-03-22 21:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are SO imperfect, brother.
2007-03-22 21:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by dickdamick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋