Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

Okay, so he's a close friend, and we both recently admitted that we like the other on the phone. That's pretty much the only place that we talk. But sometimes he'll say answer something like, "I think you're annoying" then go, "I'm just kidding" or "I'm not kidding" (he uses both for the same answer). How do I know which one he means? He said another girl he likes is holding him back too. He can be so confusing! We can have great conversations when he's serious, but sometimes I wind up feeling kinda hurt. Like I passed him a note in class the other day and he threw it on the floor and left it, without even reading it! Is he doing that on purpose to test me or something? He does have moments where he does control himself... some...

2007-03-22 22:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by tres_maqnifique 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 22:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by Craig E 1 in Friends

Is there any woman out there who has held on to a marriage where there is basically no open communication, you do not do anything with your spouse not even share a meal on the table. He comes in the wee hours of the morning and not even a single call from him. When I call he will not pick his phone.
Right now we stay in separate bedrooms so since he comes in so late and leaves pretty early I hardly get to see him.
I chased him out of the bedroom bse he wld want to have sex with no explanation where he had spent the previous night.
I know he is involved in emotional affairs and hve no proof if they have gone sexual but isnt that still an affair?
Deep down I Know my marriage is over but is there any one who has not given up and it worked out? I have a son and not earning at the moment? Is it possible to stay with a man who does not meet your affection and emotional needs but only physical? Married Women out please adivce and I will take it serious bse I have hit a dead end.

2007-03-22 22:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i worked with used to always compliment me at work but i always took it as joking around. one day i told him i was quiting and that the following day would be my last and he asked me to stick around and go on a lunch break with him. we sat outside and talked for a while and before i got up to leave he asked for my number and instead i took his and told him that i would txt him my number that night. wen i txtd him he was really grateful bcoz he thort i wuldnt do it. after that he messaged me everyday and everynite and he even asked to meet up. we did the following afternoon and we had something to eat n drink and it was going great. he asked me to come to his house bbq that he n his mates were throwing in 3 weeks n he sed he wuld call to let me know. after that day i neva heard from him again and a couple months later he txtd asking who i was. i was completely crushed and dont understand him now. what does this mean. p.s im 18 he was 22

2007-03-22 22:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, I saw this incredibly attractive girl near my house (I'm currently living in Chennai) a few days back. On seeing her I followed her and found out that she lives in a working women's hostel very close to my house. The next day morning I saw her walk to her office which is an IT company about 10 minutes from her place. She walks both while going to office and while coming back. So, I know where she lives and where she works - but i don't know how to approach her and make friends with her. There is no common ground to approach her with & I think just walking upto her on the road might not work very well. I find her very attractive and want to be friends with her ... any suggetions on how I can do this would be highly appreciated!

2007-03-22 22:04:35 · 4 answers · asked by Magix 2 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to help her through this but not feel her wrath?

2007-03-22 22:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Small Lady 4 in Family

Hello, I saw this incredibly attractive girl near my house (I'm currently living in Chennai) a few days back. On seeing her I followed her and found out that she lives in a working women's hostel very close to my house. The next day morning I saw her walk to her office which is an IT company about 10 minutes from her place. She walks both while going to office and while coming back. So, I know where she lives and where she works - but i don't know how to approach her and make friends with her. There is no common ground to approach her with & I think just walking upto her on the road might not work very well. I find her very attactive and want to be friends with her ... any suggetions on how I can do this would be highly appreciated!

2007-03-22 22:03:43 · 10 answers · asked by Magix 2 in Singles & Dating

So i've been hanging out with these people for about 2 years now, and in the beginning it was awesome, but then they started making fun of me. But not just making fun of me, they'd litterally bring me to tears, never in front of them but in private. I started to put up a wall and now that i have they say they dont want drama and i guess they think i bring drama so they dont really talk to me when i'm with them anymore. should i try to be friends with them again, or be alone and forget about them?

2007-03-22 21:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by PoeticPieces 1 in Friends

for certain social and demographics rules.

2007-03-22 21:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Singles & Dating

just tell me what you will do if your spouse asks you to

2007-03-22 21:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Alan f 2 in Marriage & Divorce

tried of one man or.......

2007-03-22 21:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by aool l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious how it feels to be suckered in to taking care and paying for another man's offspring.

2007-03-22 21:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 21:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by UNIVERSALCIRCLES 2 in Friends

How can the choice of going to war take precedence over your kids oh and wife. He does have a choice to change, I feel guilty for suggesting him to give it up, how does that make sense? The eldest is starting to say we hardly ever see dad. I don't know what to do. When not deployed he lives on the west coast (work) we live on the east. I love him, I resent him, I am proud of him, I am jealous of him (his total independence). I just don't know.

2007-03-22 21:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by lonley heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-22 21:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i been dating this guy for like a year, we break up get together again, he almost never calls me, i always have to call him to talk to him, when i do he make up excuses to get off phone qickly, i love him with all my heart, i think he just be using me for sex, we together all we do is sex not hardly ever nothing else, don't get me wrong i like the sex, but he no tell me he love me when i say it to him, he tell me he care for me lots, or nothin at all, what with that? i not know, we used to talk all time, now hardly ever talk, no im no e mail not much phone, text, i had bad flu i tell him do he call me back to see if i am okay no he don't! it like he live in his own little world unless he wants sex then he come to my house or say to me to come over to his house, i not know what to do? help me please?

2007-03-22 21:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by heart2heart 1 in Singles & Dating

He is as perfect to a man than I have ever met. I've known him for fourteen years and can't help but feel butterflies when he's around. I know I shouldn't have these feelings for him, but I can't help it. I think he knows how I feel even though I haven't expressed anything to him. What should I do?

2007-03-22 21:48:33 · 23 answers · asked by delicioustrouble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hmm... lets see, I am 31 divorced (my two cute Eurasian kids stay with my ex back in New York). I live in South Florida (not the best place to date), I have a Masters degree and a reasonably good job, do not gamble, smoke or drink but am a workaholic (no point in leaving the office to stare at the walls in an empty apartment) and have a heavier than average debt from the divorce. I am pet compatible and friendly but female coworkers have told me I am quite a nerd. I love traveling (visited all 50 states and 22 countries) and different cultures (in fact never had an american girlfriend because it would be a bit boring) and like geeky stuff like history and science fiction. I have most of my teeth (except the wisdoms) and all of my hair (but a few bits of it are starting to get a little grey). I am not 300 pounds or anything but do not look like a male model or anything.

2007-03-22 21:48:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 21:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by risa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy recently claims he has been busy with his games, he seldom contacts me nor spends time with me. And though often, his gaming sessions are around the vicinity where i always am, but he always doesnt make it a point to meet me. And i have told him how i felt, but he thinks im sensitive and so on.
As yesterday, i smsed him and flared up on him. He did not bother nor answers my calls,
Am i being too sensitive? should i apologize, try to talk to him... or just leave this relationship

2007-03-22 21:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by celticleaves 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm bi polar diagnosed after crash and burn but still a good guy,ex gf had kid and I lost contact last seen 2000 claimed new bf wanted to be the daddy but she called to say "she 's walking her first word...do you know annette rivera she has a son11 ? and a daughter 6?she of hispanic descent 36yr?use to live in plainfeild n.j. moved to jersey city then to washington state with her bro...just trying to find my baby girl..cbp duson69@aol.com

2007-03-22 21:46:27 · 3 answers · asked by charles b38 1 in Family

There is this girl in school that i love her but she doesnt know me i would have no reason to talk to her but i need to as a friend first of all and then we we get freindly i can ask her out but how do i go up to this girl very random and just say hi can we be friends she would think i was wired so how do i get friends with her??

2007-03-22 21:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife asked me to move out lots of times but i really want to live wit my parents forever to help them. I have a younger sis whom is 20 yr old and of course she'll get married, i also want my sis to stay wit us forever. My wife said she doesn't have privacy , my sis comes to our bedroom too much, and her bf takes our 6 mon old baby out of her sight without a word. She said she's willing let me help my family in any way I want and she'll help me too.I agree I love my family a lot and still ask for their opinion and approval on what i'm doing. I was necgliecting my wife feelings through out her pregnancy, she told me she was tired and i didn't believe her etc...she was going back and forth so her mother can take care of her. I can't move out bcus it's my responsibily to take care of my paarents. wat do u think?

2007-03-22 21:45:38 · 21 answers · asked by Calvin J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 21:45:33 · 6 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Friends

If my sister got all drunk and gave her number to a bartender, is that a sign?

2007-03-22 21:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jacques 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has pulled away from me due to the stress at work. He has been looking for a new job, attending different interviews,he works full-time and goes to interviews during lunch time, he spends his evenings preparing for them. He has been very distant with me and he did explain to me that he will be like this for a while as he needs to sort himself out as he is really unhappy with his current job. His boss refused to promote him so he was really upset with that. He sent me a message yesterday after not hearing from him for a few days, I was happy. I replied to him but I really wanted to ask him when are we going to meet up. So I asked him if we can meet during Easter, he said that he is going home to see his family. I asked him to meet the weekend after, he said he is going again to see his family as his dad has birhtday. So I asked him about the weekend after and he replied with I don't know, we will see... What should I do now? I haven't responded to that but I feel so sad.

2007-03-22 21:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Singles & Dating

She thinks she's ugly, fat etc and doesn't understand why anyone would like her or want to be with her.
She's more or less a recluse and doesn't come out of the house much, although she has seemed to get a little better the last few days.
She's upset that she can't have sex either (because she freaks out that she's ugly and doesn't enjoy it) and thinks that she'll be this way forever.
The thing is she's not ugly at all, in fact she's quite pretty. She isn't doing it for attention either she genuinely has self issues.
I don't know what I can do to help her anymore, I've told her she doesn't need surgery and she's fine how she is but it goes through one ear and out the other.
I'm sure she wants to change, she's said she does but I'm not sure I know how to help her.
What can I do/say to help her confidence, it's wearing me out trying to help her when it doesn't seem to be working.

2007-03-22 21:42:59 · 17 answers · asked by Rainbow-Taster 2 in Friends

2007-03-22 21:41:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need some new things to spice it up! positions? teqniqes? anyting? not totally kinky though. feel free to e mail me with your suggestions thanks.

2007-03-22 21:40:17 · 12 answers · asked by heart2heart 1 in Singles & Dating

i am shy!! but i like this guy alot!!! how do i get his attention??

2007-03-22 21:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by pittsburgs finest Patience 1 in Singles & Dating