He is as perfect to a man than I have ever met. I've known him for fourteen years and can't help but feel butterflies when he's around. I know I shouldn't have these feelings for him, but I can't help it. I think he knows how I feel even though I haven't expressed anything to him. What should I do?
2007-03-22 21:48:33 · 23 answers · asked by delicioustrouble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stay tha hell as far away as you can from him
2007-03-22 21:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his wife's shoes,would you still have butterflies in your stomach? A married man that cheats on his wife has no idea of what love and faithfulnes is all about. If God turns ceases our breadth when ever we offend him,no one will be alive today.A man never be justified for cheating on his wife. If he really loves you let him divorce his wife. No human being is perfect ,someday he will do the same to you. That's just who he is.The death that would kill a man will always come as an appetite. It is only wicked women that mess around with married men. Are you one?
2007-03-22 22:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a conscience. Don't express anything to him. You already know you shouldn't have feelings for him in the first place. Stay away from him as in don't start a romantic relationship with him.
2007-03-22 22:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real that his is married and he doesn't feel any butterflies for you. He mostly likely to feel sorry for you have been in love for someone during 14 years that you even never had anything with it.
Don't get me wrong, but this is what I call a real looser. Fourteen years of platonic love ???
2007-03-22 21:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Avoid him if at all possible. And if he's a real man, he'll avoid compromising himself with you as well. You cant always controll your feelings but you can and should controll whether you act on those feelings or not. In this case, to act on your desires for him would cause more heart ache for you and possibly him than if you were to find another man to be with.
2007-03-22 21:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave his married behind alone.
Your feelings and the relative butterflies you experience are not justifications to engage in immoral acts.
Find an AVAILABLE unmarried man who will treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve.
2007-03-22 22:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show some self respect and quit thinking like a common whore. Just because you admire and respect someone does not mean that you have to have a relationship with them, especially if they are married. If you play your cards right, you could be the best of friends for many years to come. Don't screw it up just because he makes you moist by his mere presence. Buy yourself a vibrator.
2007-03-22 21:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by endlessknowledge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HIM.
Put yourself in his wife's shoes. You would not want someone to do that to you. If after 14 years and he has not shown any interest in you, then maybe he is happy with his wife. If he ever becomes available (divorced) then he is fair game. Home wrecker is not a nice thing to be called. If he has children then it is even a bigger no-no.
2007-03-22 21:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep your distance for a while. give yourself a chance to get over him and try to move on to someone new. put youself in his wifes position, it wouldnt feel so great knowing that another woman had feelings for your man. you'd just end up feeling paranoid about your man being around her. be careful and good luck
2007-03-22 21:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not here to waste my time or yours ............ so ............ Leave it alone. Also be careful.......he may not feel the same way. You should also be aware that if you live by the sword, you'll die by the sword........... In other words, If he leave a woman to be with you........He'll eventually leave you for someone else.
By: Good Boy
Go for it! You only live once, Even though he has a wife, he may still be willing to get busy. This way you if you can't have all of him, you can still enjoy "MOST" of him
By: Bad Boy
2007-03-22 22:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do nothing. The guy is married so he is off limits. Find yourself a single bloke instead
2007-03-22 21:52:59 · answer #11 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋