Is there any woman out there who has held on to a marriage where there is basically no open communication, you do not do anything with your spouse not even share a meal on the table. He comes in the wee hours of the morning and not even a single call from him. When I call he will not pick his phone.
Right now we stay in separate bedrooms so since he comes in so late and leaves pretty early I hardly get to see him.
I chased him out of the bedroom bse he wld want to have sex with no explanation where he had spent the previous night.
I know he is involved in emotional affairs and hve no proof if they have gone sexual but isnt that still an affair?
Deep down I Know my marriage is over but is there any one who has not given up and it worked out? I have a son and not earning at the moment? Is it possible to stay with a man who does not meet your affection and emotional needs but only physical? Married Women out please adivce and I will take it serious bse I have hit a dead end.
2007-03-22 22:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds as if your marriage is already over. You just haven't gone through the formalities and legalities yet. I'm very sorry.
2007-03-22 22:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying together for a child will do them more harm then good.
I am sorry, but your marriage sounds over. If you really want to give it one last chance, you will have to tell your husband, that your scared its over and if he wants to work it out, this is his last chance, but he needs to be home at regular hours, and go to counciling (or whatever ground rules you want to set)
If he doesnt comply, then you have to hit the road.
And you should feel no shame if you leave him. Your obviously a strong woman who tried to make her marriage work if you have stayed this long. If you think hes having an affair and your still under the same roof, you have worked as hard for your marriage as one can.
It takes TWO people to make a marriage work, and if you stay and things continue he is coming out Victorious.
If you leave, I am not going to lie it will be painful and most likely one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. But who knows, in a year or two. You could be happy! And then you will be victorious to come out of a horrible relationship happy, and him, he will just continue to live his life and mistreat women.
2007-03-22 22:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God honors marriage, pray about it and attempt to get him to go to church with you, things will turn around if so. Stick and stay if at all possible and try to find what it was that drew you to each other in t he first place. You can work it out. I'm rooting for you and will keep you in my prayers.
2007-03-22 22:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just asking others to validate what you already well know. Your marriage is a dead end, so kick him to the curb and move on.
2007-03-22 22:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by endlessknowledge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, just try and find a common interest in your marriage and work on it from there!
2007-03-22 22:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you but both parties are responsible for communicating and advocating for themselves.
2007-03-22 22:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by D.L. Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Michelle. Listen to G'n'R's 'Appetite' and hear that song under your name. You will know.
2007-03-22 22:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋